Guys: What WOULD interest you in BI play?

[crazycatz]

@ Funcpl4life: thats not the way I understood the thread at all.
Maybe the OP can come back and clarify for us.

[good times]

What is so hard to understand? The OP asked, "Guys: What WOULD interest you in BI play?" I am a guy, so I answered the question.

I have to admit, when I see these posts questioning peoples motives for answering questions on an open forum, I don't understand that at all. That is what forums are about, someone asks a question, others answer. Simple, and if everyone agreed with everyone else it would be pretty boring, so what is the problem? Furthermore, just because someone isn't personally interested in something does not mean they don't have a valid opinion about it.

[Cerberus]

Well I see this thread went no where LOL........

[lovinher]

Speaking of a similar thread......
Wouldn't it be nice if everybody took the time to read the whole thread before posting, starting with the title.
Comprehending what is actually being said would be nice too.

[Edison Carter]

Ed here-- Andrew Dice Clay said this about Bi and Straight guys,"Hey, you either suck cock or you don't."

I don't. Besides, Susan is so good at it, I couldn't cope with the competition. However, this does not stop me from going down on the ladies, we have agreed to disagree at who is better at it

[crazycatz]

Bisexual activity cannot be reduced to either sucking cock or not. I mean, eating a creampie is an inherently bisexual act -- regardless of if you sucked the cock of the donor or not. lol

[prettylady]

Sorry, but I often find in threads that become combative the statement "why did you even open the thread if your not interested"
To this I have to say.

BECAUSE.....I have on several occations passed over a thread that did not seem at all interesting to me. Then I go back to the main page and oh look it says there is a thread that I missed in "The Cafe" for example, so I go back and it turns out to be the one I don't care to read about.
In order to get ride of that little posty note I have to open the thread and scroll down to the end.

Some times I read for interests sake and find out that I was wrong in my assumption, you know the whole judging a book by its cover thing. or I find a comment that I feel I need to respond to. What ever my reason, it is my reason alone and because I put it out there to begin with, it is for me to deal with what ever comment comes back to me.
If you don't like the comments that are being made, don't make comments in the beginning. Seems like a simple solution to this problem of people having different likes and dislikes.
Or perhaps, everyone with a comment that is not COMMPLETLY 100% politicaly correct please keep said comments to your rotten little selves. Those of us with glass jaws don't appreciate them.

Now I have been bitcher then I normally am, and I am sure to get both kudos and finger wagging, but as a poster on this board I am going to have to deal with what comes my way whether I like it or not.

By the way, just to save time for those of you who chose to finger wag at me. If you do not want me to express my feelings, don't bother responding to me.

I appreciate other peoples point of view whether it works with mine or not. I may not like the way it is stated, but we are all different in our mannerisms.

As a friend once said to me. I have sexy and volupuous (?) all the time. Swinging for me gives me cute and pixy like every now and then.
Isn't that what makes us so unique, our ability to accept our differences and even celebrate them like no vanilla group can.

So stop squabbling over who said what and why they need to be in this or that thread.

Your contriverical(again with the spelling thing)friend,
Prettylady

What were we talking about, I am guessing either male sexual preferences or something about wieght. Ya, those two topics usually lose thier focus after post number 2

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by SamuiCouple

Nowhere in the title is the word 'get'.

If you are not bi-curious or bi, why would you be interested? Not get interested.

However, the emphasis on the word, "WOULD," in this title functions in the same way as the word, "get." An extended way of asking the question would be, "You say that you're not bi, but what WOULD interest you in bi play?" At least that's the way we interpreted it. To answer that question: nothing would.

[Maxs34IL]

Very Interesting discussion thread - I am new reading through these on Thanksgiving Day - I am no longer bored or horny for that matter - just kidding this is great I am glad I joined!

Max as close to Normal as possible - that is Normal Illinois.

[curious24]

I guess if I were to try it I would want to know what all the top/bottom/vers-whatever really means cause I would hate to say something and then have something other than what I'm thinking happen! EEK!

[cuzzeyesaidso]

Well the wife is bi. She knew it was a fantasy of mines to see her with another woman. She tried it, liked it, looks forward to it. It was my turn. I tried it, had a good time. Not because of the act, but because of the wife's reaction to seeing it. She came from just watching. I could live without doing it again. But seeing her completely lose control of herself is more than enough reason for me to keep doing it. The experience wasn't all that bad either.

[ViSexual]

Man! We have so few posts on this topic and the people who are against any male bi play dominate it!

In a sexual situation, with the potential for male bi play, I'd be interested in licking a couple who are having intercourse. From balls to Clitoris and even a little rimming of the lady.

While having intercourse with a lady I'd love to have someone, male or female, do the same for me.

[lovinher]

Originally Posted by ViSexual

Man! We have so few posts on this topic and the people who are against any male bi play dominate it!

In a sexual situation, with the potential for male bi play, I'd be interested in licking a couple who are having intercourse. From balls to Clitoris and even a little rimming of the lady.

While having intercourse with a lady I'd love to have someone, male or female, do the same for me.

To me the topic was directed at straight guys so they (we) answered it.

Now if the topic was "Bi guys, what would interest you bi play" you would have point.

[Cerberus]

OP here!


What if anything would interest a guy to have bi play............is it curiosity? Your SO wants you to? Or you know your but is stimulated and you want to because it feels good. Maybe you want to play both sides so you never have a dry spell?

[mackie44]

The bisexual double standard never ceases to amaze me. Female bisexuality OK, male not OK? Yeah, right.

Why don't you just admit that swinging is another form of patriarchy - ie. where the sexual scenarios are controlled by strictly heterosexual men for the benefit of strictly heterosexual men. This includes catering to the girl-on-girl fetishes of many straight guys. Women go along with it because they want to please their husbands and boyfriends.

Overall, it should be pointed out that the bisexual double standard is an important clue to the true nature of swinging. It isn't a truly open-minded pursuit.