I finally got to try mm bj with my girlfriend watching

[SamuiCouple]

Originally Posted by Semod

What I find funny is the fact that so many straight guys feel they have to chime in. The topic heading is very clear as to what the posting is about. Why would a straight guy bother reading the post, and then go through the trouble of posting a reply slamming the OP? If you're not into MM, that's great. I like reading about peoples sexual adventures and celebrate what this lifestyle has to offer. If it's about something that I find really offensive, I just move on.

Agreed. The gentlemen protest too much....

Maybe a little insecurity there behind the wisecracks.

[fordman460]

Originally Posted by Liutas

What's a "pharanas"?

Im thinking "Pirana" as in meat eating fish from the Amazon.

[Edison Carter]

Susan here-- I have always found it trite when people think all women are just two apple martinis away from going bisexual or men are all 'just a little bit bi' they just need the right moment. Puhleeaaaaase.

[pervgeeks]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

Why is it that this is the first place people head in any argument about sexual tolerance?

We are all sexual beings but lets be real here, communication is about as much information in as little effort as possible.


So, why can't she just say "Sorry, I'm in to women."?

I don't see it as silly. I see labels as something one person does to another person to compartmentalize them and judge them based on their own fears and insecurities. Humans have an innate need to feel superior to others. To feel good about themselves they have to make someone else bad. Eliminating labels would be a giant step towards this. Unfortunately it will never happen for the reason I just outlined. For that reason changing the perception behind them will never happen, either. For instance, we may make headway as gays become more accepted by more of society as each generation passes, but will there ever be a time someone doesn't hate them? No. All I can do is change my little part of the world.

Mr. WS

I view it differently. I'm very comfortable with saying I'm a bisexual woman. To me those who don't give their feelings a name aren't comfortable with their feelings. I think there's far more bi/bi-curious men in the lifestyle than admit to it. I think they'd be a lot happier and fulfilled (without wasting their time on strait guys who aren't into it) if they could be as open about it as the women. I think being open and claiming who you are without reserve is what reduces shame and brings upon acceptance.

[Liutas]

Originally Posted by fordman460

Im thinking "Pirana" as in meat eating fish from the Amazon.

That's what I figured, I was just trying to lighten the mood in here. Just a tad. Maybe.

[bill&sabrina]

Originally Posted by Edison Carter

Susan here-- I have always found it trite when people think all women are just two apple martinis away from going bisexual or men are all 'just a little bit bi' they just need the right moment. Puhleeaaaaase.

With so many people describing their first bi experience this way, who do you blame?

Bill

[tribbles]

A poll just for those who prefer separate room play. This does not seem to have people jumping in to say "this is not for me"

Yet I sure see it on this thread.

To the OP, glad you had fun.

[lovinher]

I had sex with a one legged 90 year old woman. You guys don't know what you are missing.

Yep, I'm into older women. I recommend everyone try it at least once.

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by mywildside

My gf and I have always wanted to play with another man, finally it happened! We met a guy on Swing Lifestyle and I finally got to give him head while my gf watched. What an incredible sexual feeling and what a great fuck that followed. Guys you dont know what your missing if you havent emptied a cock in your mouth!

Well, good for you! It's not my cup of tea, though.

Thrax

P.S. Did I do that right?

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by lovinher

I had sex with a one legged 90 year old woman. You guys don't know what you are missing.

Yep, I'm into older women. I recommend everyone try it at least once.

Well, good for you! It's not my cup of tea, though. (You weirdo.)

Thrax

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by fordman460

Im thinking "Pirana" as in meat eating fish from the Amazon.

sometimes the darndest words show up, i was shure i spelled it

moregooder than that

thanks fordman460

[fordman460]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

sometimes the darndest words show up, i was shure i spelled it

moregooder than that

thanks fordman460

Glad I could help. Hell I dont have any great insight to apply to this thread so....

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by lovinher

You cannot label yourself and expect others not to. If you label yourself as "bi", what then do you yourself call another woman who likes women and men? My guess is "bi". Just trying to make a point.

But, I'm not labeling myself.

Mr. WS

[fun4Ds]

OK, so if i follow mywildsides the (o.p. s') threads... he starts with his wife, then his girlfriend for cream pie cleaning, then he eats his own cumm, then a mans cumm,over time. now since he wont respond, i would like to know one thing. since we are talking labels at times here.and iv asked for any reply from him.

what would he be called in the alternative lifestyle?

(a married,poly,self service,bisexual man.on the down low,swinger)

is that wright?