I finally got to try mm bj with my girlfriend watching

[TNT]

As is the norm around here, anytime anything is mentioned about bi-male sexuality, there are those who become over sensitive to the topic and have to profess just how straight they are. On an open message board, they do have the right...I just wish they'd be nicer about it at times.

In this particular thread, IMO, the OP's enthusiasm and excitement over having experienced something that he obviously had been wanting to experience was missed. I don't believe that he was purposely trying get anyone up in arms over bi-male sex.

He was excited about something he experienced and he just wanted to share...much in the same way that say someone who had always wanted to try SCUBA diving ...they finally got to try it and it was a total rush to them...they come back and everyone they meet and talk to they have to make a comment....You don't know what you're missing, you should try it, it's wonderful. Yeah, maybe to them it was. SCUBA diving holds NO appeal to me but, I wouldn't stomp on someone's enthusiasm and excitement about it, just because it's not my thing.

A simple...It's not my cup of tea but I'm glad you had a good time, would have done just fine here in this thread.



Teresa

[crazycatz]

Whatever a person choses to identify themselves is ok with me...afterall, it's their decision.
Labels are for clothes, IMO. And if a man who likes to suck an occassional cock wants to call himself straight, then that's his business.
Sexuality is more fluid I think and can't be reduced to watertight categories.

I agree that people should respect the preferences of others and shouldn't make anyone uncomfortable by making unwanted advances but this is not what the OP was getting at.

EDIT: well said TNT

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by bill&sabrina

OP saying guys don't know what they are missing taking a shot in the mouth=your joke.

You saying I'll happily miss out on some things=me not finding humor in what you said.

Fair enough...

So you are saying I chose an appropriate quote

Spoomonkey

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Semod

I may be answering my own question here, but I opened it because I like reading about peoples sexual exploits.

Then you know why I opened this thread. Why I responded would be another question - and I answered that above

Spoomonkey

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Randies'

Wow, When I give my guy a bj I never feel that I am experiencing a prison rape or eating warm entrails of a constipated cockerspaniel. He loves it and I used to enjoy doing it for him.

So...

You used to enjoy giving a man a blow job. I have no problem with that. Good for you - male or female - good for you. I was simply expressing my aversion to doing so myself as well as commenting on the assertion that I "don't know what I'm missing."

Spoomonkey

[graygo98]

Originally Posted by crazycatz

I've always held that men are better at giving bjs than women and females are better at giving oral sex to another woman than men are....because we're more familiar with the anatomy..

Don't know that I buy this. My wife is familiar with her "anatomy" and knows what works for her. I am familiar with many women's "anatomies" and know that its a bit (sometimes a lot) different each time. The fun is in the uniqueness of each experience.

Could be wrong, but I would bet that I am (way) better at giving a woman oral than my wife is. As for me, I have been the owner/operator of a penis for a really long time. I know what it likes, but would not have a clue what to do in the extremely unlikely (in this lifetime) event I suddenly found someone else's in my mouth.

As for the OP, you're right. I don't know what I am missing. So far, I am ok with that.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by graygo98

I know what it likes, but would not have a clue what to do in the extremely unlikely (in this lifetime) event I suddenly found someone else's in my mouth.
.

I do.

Bite.

Hard.

[fun4Ds]

[quote]

Originally Posted by TNT

As is the norm around here, anytime anything is mentioned about bi-male sexuality, there are those who become over sensitive to the topic and have to profess just how straight they are. On an open message board, they do have the right...I just wish they'd be nicer about it at times.

ya know Teresa, this is how we guys communicate. i worked with a bisexual man. a 6'5" manly man. you can imagine all the slamming that went around on the job site.he would often reply "I'm bi not gay" one day a fellow worker made the comment" suck one dick and yer gay " his reply was "you don't understand" and he was wright most don't understand bisexuality. i had to work with him in close quarters once and looked him straight in the face and said "your about as exciting as toe nail clippings to me" he looked at me and said "good your not my type" honestly we both laughed or asses off and went to work.

In this particular thread, IMO, the OP's enthusiasm and excitement over having experienced something that he obviously had been wanting to experience was missed. I don't believe that he was purposely trying get anyone up in arms over bi-male sex.

i don't think so either, when i first read spoos reply, here is how i saw it.

the o.p. was telling us how exciting this was for him. from a mans point of view. spoos response and others was a reply that says how unexciting it is to him/us from a mans point of view.... nothing more. i didn't see it as bashing in any way.

He was excited about something he experienced and he just wanted to share...much in the same way that say someone who had always wanted to try SCUBA diving ...they finally got to try it and it was a total rush to them...they come back and everyone they meet and talk to they have to make a comment....You don't know what you're missing, you should try it, it's wonderful. Yeah, maybe to them it was. SCUBA diving holds NO appeal to me but, I wouldn't stomp on someone's enthusiasm and excitement about it, just because it's not my thing

.

but were guys, its how we communicate. scuba diving, hell no there are sharks down there, big sharks and lets not leave out pharanas. no way I'm not going in the water. i would sooner smash my dick with a hammer
its how we communicate that were just not into it.

A simple...It's not my cup of tea but I'm glad you had a good time, would have done just fine here in this thread.

like chicups post, as a guy reading that, it translates in man talk to "its not my cup of tea" nothing more.

i would think the o.p.'s view as a man, would understand the male language here. were guys posting to another's guys thread. I'm hoping he has laughed a Little with us.

[bill&sabrina]

To this business of thats just how men communicate. Women run the show in swinging, so playing by their rules would be to our advantage. That just means be a Gentleman. I've learned that moreso in swinging women want men, not the pushovers you see in the vanilla world.
Bill

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

this is how we guys communicate.

Thanks for "getting it". I'm used to the sanctimonious responses to these types of threads, but I am glad to know I'm not the only one who sees these things for what they are.

As I've said in other threads, I have a lot of gay friends - some are as close as family to me. I guess I am used to them being fairly thick skinned - and knowing how to give as good as they get...

Spoomonkey

[Semod]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

- and knowing how to give as good as they get...

Spoomonkey

More humor. I get it!!!

[lovinher]

Good post fun4Ds. I have wanted to say something to that effect more than once around here.

I have to go now because but my buddy is coming over for tea and watch the View with me.

[TNT]

[quote=fun4Ds;294792]

ya know Teresa, this is how we guys communicate.

Not all men.

I didn't point out any specific poster in my post...I said "those", meaning more than one. I also said they had the right to post what they wanted and I expressed a "wish" that it be done in a nicer way.

Just as you pointed out how you perceived things in this thread...so did I.



Teresa

[fun4Ds]

I also said they had the right to post what they wanted and I expressed a "wish" that it be done in a nicer way.

you are wright, we know you and Ted both, to be some of the nicest people we have ever met. i feel a little humbled to say the least if not embarrassed.

actually I'm not sure that i didn't just get the nicest,kindest spanking iv ever had.


mywildside, if you are reading this. i hope ya can overlook my vocabulary, and clear up my question from my first post. are you a married bisexual male in a poly relationship?

you see, i find that interestingly unusual. i would think that your input on some threads here would be from a totally different angle that I've never seen.

[TNT]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds;294810d.

actually I'm not sure that i didn't just get the nicest,kindest spanking iv ever had.

Teresa