I finally got to try mm bj with my girlfriend watching

[pervgeeks]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Now change the above statement to "a woman" and apply it there also. It holds true for both sexes.

I agree completely. I'm a bi woman and before I would so much as try to hold another woman's hand, I ask something along the lines of, "Do you like girls?" If someone said no, I'd not go further. Why hit on strait people who aren't into it? It's not only disrespectful to people, but kind of a waste of time.

[bill&sabrina]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

I also don't know what I am missing out on since I have never had a football team run over my chest... Or experienced rape in a prison shower... Or eaten the warm entrails of a constipated cocker spaniel... But that's okay. There are some things in this world I can happily live without experiencing.

Spoomonkey

Why did you have to get gross? The last sentence would have perfectly expressed your point.
Bill

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by bill&sabrina

Why did you have to get gross? The last sentence would have perfectly expressed your point.

“It is the ability to take a joke, not make one, that proves you have a sense of humor.” - Max Eastman

Spoomonkey

[Semod]

What I find funny is the fact that so many straight guys feel they have to chime in. The topic heading is very clear as to what the posting is about. Why would a straight guy bother reading the post, and then go through the trouble of posting a reply slamming the OP? If you're not into MM, that's great. I like reading about peoples sexual adventures and celebrate what this lifestyle has to offer. If it's about something that I find really offensive, I just move on.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Semod

What I find funny is the fact that so many straight guys feel they have to chime in.

I beg to differ...

Originally Posted by The OP

Guys you dont (sic) know what your missing if you havent (sic) emptied a cock in your mouth!

I was responding to this line in the original post.

I do not find MM sex offensive at all. I simply do not agree with the implication that engaging in MM play is for everyone. To each their own - would you agree?

Spoomonkey

[lovinher]

Originally Posted by mywildside

Guys you dont know what your missing if you havent emptied a cock in your mouth!

I disagree. I do know what I'm missing and that's fine with me. If you like it, that's fine with me too.

Originally Posted by semod

What I find funny is the fact that so many straight guys feel they have to chime in. The topic heading is very clear as to what the posting is about. Why would a straight guy bother reading the post, and then go through the trouble of posting a reply slamming the OP?

I believe the OP is making a statement to us straight guys in the above quote. Hence the responses.

[Semod]

Yes, you're both right, you were responding to the OP. Fair enough. And to each his own and I'm happy that the OP was sexually pleased. But I guess the point I'm trying to make is if you're not into MM, why did you open this post to begin with unless you're somewhat interested? I may be answering my own question here, but I opened it because I like reading about peoples sexual exploits. And if some guy got pleasure out of giving a BJ, good for him. I on the other hand have never had and am sure that I never will have another guys cock in my mouth. But it's OK with me that someone else did. I'm not trying to slam anybody here, I'm just curious.

[Randies']

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

I also don't know what I am missing out on since I have never had a football team run over my chest... Or experienced rape in a prison shower... Or eaten the warm entrails of a constipated cocker spaniel... But that's okay. There are some things in this world I can happily live without experiencing.

Spoomonkey

Wow, When I give my guy a bj I never feel that I am experiencing a prison rape or eating warm entrails of a constipated cockerspaniel. He loves it and I used to enjoy doing it for him.

Perhaps you shouldn't have had that last three drinks before you replied there spoo.

[lovinher]

Originally Posted by randies'

Wow, When I give my guy a bj I never feel that I am experiencing a prison rape or eating warm entrails of a constipated cockerspaniel. He loves it and I used to enjoy doing it for him.

I'm assuming you are a woman then.

......right?

In case somebody don't get it....that was a joke.

[Randies']

LOL, I guess I didn't say but yes this is the randi girl. Hey that is a good name huh?

[crazycatz]

Originally Posted by pervgeeks

We've had so many experiences in just months of the being in the lifestyle of my strait husband getting hit on by other (supposedly strait) men that frankly, we've had to be pretty specific regarding our displeasure at this.

If you're a man who wants to have sex with men- go for it. My husband is strait. If he were bi and it turned him on, I'd support it, but he's not. Please don't make assumptions that all men want, need, or should do this. Not everyone's interested.

I don't see why you're getting upset at his suggestion that men don't know what they are missing? Does sucking cock make you bi? Not necessarily. I think what the OP is getting at is that this is just a sexual experience and one that is highly pleasing and it is quite different than getting a bj from a woman. I've always held that men are better at giving bjs than women and females are better at giving oral sex to another woman than men are....because we're more familiar with the anatomy. I think this is what the OP is trying to get at here, or at least what I'm taking from it.

[lovinher]

Originally Posted by crazycatz

Does sucking cock make you bi? Not necessarily.

Once, maybe not.
Twice, definitely.
If your a woman? Definitely not.
Unless of course you are a woman who sucks pussy.

[bill&sabrina]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

“It is the ability to take a joke, not make one, that proves you have a sense of humor.” - Max Eastman

Spoomonkey

OP saying guys don't know what they are missing taking a shot in the mouth=your joke.

You saying I'll happily miss out on some things=me not finding humor in what you said.

Bill

[Cerberus]

If my wife got off on seeing it I would try it..but she doesnt so I wont.

[pervgeeks]

Originally Posted by crazycatz

I don't see why you're getting upset at his suggestion that men don't know what they are missing? Does sucking cock make you bi? Not necessarily. I think what the OP is getting at is that this is just a sexual experience and one that is highly pleasing and it is quite different than getting a bj from a woman. I've always held that men are better at giving bjs than women and females are better at giving oral sex to another woman than men are....because we're more familiar with the anatomy. I think this is what the OP is trying to get at here, or at least what I'm taking from it.

I'm not upset. I'm kind of cool as a cucumber about this stuff. I'm a woman who likes having sex with both men and other women, so I identify myself as bisexual. If I had a husband that was into guys, I'd be the first one in line supporting him and being into it with him. He's not though and I kind of resent the handful of guys in the lifestyle who told him they wanted to suck his cock or grabbed his ass and call themselves strait. Why can't they be honest with themselves and their partners? Maybe they're be less stigma if all the bi/bi-curious lifestyle dudes could claim openly just who they are, what they want, hook up together and get their needs satisfied instead of calling themselves a strait guy that occasionally likes to suck dick (or call themselves a strait guy, then hit on another dude). It's pretty much an oxymoron, isn't it? Just be honest and be whomever you are. There's nothing wrong with being bisexual- male or female.

I have zero problem with anyone's preferences, but I'm not going to tell anyone- strait, gay, bi, whatever, what I personally think their preferences SHOULD be. Nor would I disrespect someone by hitting on them when I know I'm not a part of their preference.