Do women share a fantasy of seeing their man have sex with another man?

[The Fuse]

Originally Posted by Chicup

So while the women I know in swinging are repulsed by MM contact, and as far as I can tell genuine about this feeling (to the point they once turned off a HBO show featuring some MM contact because it was a turn off) you won't here too many of them say 'hey no thanks'.

"Hey, no thanks".

Seriously, a few days ago I thought of responding to this thread with a simple "No, I don't have this fantasy", but then thought that by itself wouldn't be much of a post. Chicup's post motivated me.

If Mr. Fuse ever expressed any interest in sexual contact with another man, I would support him, at least in theory. But I seriously don't have any urge to see it.

[Greg & Sheryl]

This scenario was a fantasy of Greg's previous wife, but he declined to indulge her. No such fantasy has come up in our current marriage.

[Merric]

Interesting point Chicup

[themariner]

that is one of the biggest fantast of women is to watch there man have sex with another man. mostlly sucking each other off. men love to watch two women having sex together. it does not take a genius to figure a woman would enjoy watching two men having sex.

[jdavisauto]

I would love to watch my husband get suck by another man as I am being fucked by the same man. I know that this would never happen with him. He's not homophobic and has no problems being around other men or even gay men. It's just not his thing. I keep asking him and he tells me "not only no but hell no".
The Lady half.

[lovinher]

I'm all for fulfilling my wife's fantasies but this is about the only one I could not do....sorry babe.

[NymphoWind]

For my partner, it is a huge turn on, she has often told me that she wants to see me give oral to another male, and to see another male suck me off..

She has this huge fantasy of watching me play with another male, and if/when she gets horny enough she would want to jump in and get served by both of us..

Although i consider myself straight, and normally would never play with another male, i think if the situation is right, and she was there and would go wild, i suppose i am curious about it..

But yes it is her fantasy to see me with another guy..
I think this is very common with a lot of women out there, its just like guys, and how we love to see a girl on girl..
We're attracted to females, so whats better then just one when you can see or have two at the same time?
Its the same thing with women..

[JKlovers]

I wanted to reply to this because my husband is bi-sexual and has been since birth (his first sexual experience was with a male childhood friend of his when he was very young). I had been dating my hubby for about a year before he admitted to me that he was bi. I was totally shocked when he first told me because I never would've guessed in a million years. At first I wasn't sure how to handle the news. I wouldn't say that I was homophobic, but the thought of my man having sex or giving or receiving oral sex with another man was just very weird for me at first.

The first week after he told me I had a rollercoaster of emotions. Sometimes I would cry, sometimes I would be okay, sometimes I was just grossed out. Then I started realizing that his sexual preferences really didn't change who he was or how I felt about him. He is bi, but he has never had a romantic relationship with a man. His experiences with men are purely sexual, and then he has always had emotional relationships with women.

Over the years I have become very comfortable with my husband being bi. In fact, I even find myself getting turned on by it and will admit that i've fantasized about him being with another man.

My husband is nervous about being with a man in front of me. He said he worries that I will find him vulnerable or weak. It's something that we have talked about doing in the future (MFM threesome that is) with another bi-sexual man, but we just haven't taken the plunge. Maybe someday

So, to answer your question directly, yes I have fantasized about my hubby being with another man. I don't know that I would say all women have this fantasy though. Before I met my hubby and he admitted his bi-sexuality to me I never even entertained the thought of my man being with another man.

[bruncouple_nj]

Originally Posted by jdavisauto

I would love to watch my husband get suck by another man as I am being fucked by the same man. I know that this would never happen with him. He's not homophobic and has no problems being around other men or even gay men. It's just not his thing. I keep asking him and he tells me "not only no but hell no".
The Lady half.

That scene is definitely on our list

[chakka]

I would love to see my man do all of the above. I have fantacys about it all the time. Yes, he knows I think about it. He may try it some day, but for now, he's not into it.

[websterswingers]

My wife flip-flops on the subject. Before we were married, she brought it up and in my young bravado, i said no flippin' way. Now that I'm older, i wouldnt be opposed to fooling around with a bi guy. We still talk about it, but she isnt sure she wants to see me with one... she doesnt know how she will feel about it. So, I guess we will just leave it at that.

[Jstbcz]

Originally Posted by lovefest04

My wife gives this fantasy a big thumbs up.

She get's very turned on by the idea of watching two men get it on, especially kissing and oral, but has mentioned anal sex as well.

Something about men being gentle and caring to each other.

Ditto.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by blondie77

Merric,

Watching my husband with another man is a fantasy of mine for many reasons, and I guess the top reason is I've never seen it before. Not with my husband nor any other man. It's the unknown I guess. It's something that's a little "naughty" maybe, or perhaps it's just because I know he'll never do it, so there's that little part in the back of my mind that thinks "but wait! That would be awsome!" A fantasy is something that's safe, it doesn't do anyone any harm and it gives me a little thrill. I've noticed that the idea of two women being together is considered alright, even sexy, but whenever anyone mentions two men, it's almost taboo. I would like to see my husband with another man probably for the same reason my husband (or most men) would like to see two women: it's different, it's not something you see everyday, and it's a little "forbidden" which makes it all the more enticing. Knowing it will never happen doesn't really make the fantasy any less exciting...perhaps it even makes it more exciting because my brain can come up with things that are WAY hotter than anything that's apt to happen to me in real life..haha.

Anyways...thanks for being interested in my response. I hope I was able to "enlighten" you a little more. Blondie

Like blondie77 said it’s a bit “naughty,” kinky as well.

I agree with her about this and I've said it before and I'll say it again. If the guy wants female / female action he should be willing to return the favor with a little male / male action. Why does a guy want this? Same for us.

My guy has had many mfm and mfmm and more - mmmmmfm - get the picture? So guys and there stuff will make contact with you. He has no problem with it. If no condoms are the preference then guys are gonna get other guys' cum on them as well. While underneath females in 69s and another male doing her over him, he has had "things" happen that he would have preferred not happen but no biggy to him. But I noticed the more it happens the more excited I get.

Recently I have seen guys help the ladies suck him off while he was busy under her taking care of her. I have also seen people doing stuff to him anally together male and female. Now this has really been a source of great excitement for me. I can get off just watching it.

Not to long ago I finally gave in to my husband's desire for me to be more involved with the females in our sexcapades. I finally went for a fmf only. Well that only sparked a greater interest for me to see him with a guy or at least not stop them from playing with him (it was sort of our deal).

I really love to watch my husband enjoy himself and pleasure himself. I am the one who introduced anal sex to him and encouraged him to explore it. I also introduced him to cum. People often ask me why on earth? It is very simple after I the first guy I performed oral anal on went through the roof - I knew I had discovered something amazing about guys. Homophobic or not, when I am a performing oral on guys and tease them anally every one of them go absolutely ape. As far as cum – it’s a huge turn on for me. Cum on a guy drives me nuts.

When I married I taught my man everything I knew about anal play, sex, and oral. I guess it has been a natural progression towards wanting to see him getting pleasured by guys. I does not have to go down on guys or do them but I do not see why he should ever oppose them doing stuff to him. I think a guy could pleasure him better than a dildo or strap-on ever could. I'd love to see him enjoy it as much as I do and I feel like a guy could do it the best.

Someone made the comment recently, "he might turn gay." Oh my gosh what a goof. Sure he might enjoy it, errrr isn't that is sort of the point? But he is not attracted to men in the very least. Same with me and females, of course I can look at a woman and notice a nice body and beautiful features but I am not attracted to them. Recently, I have been with several females sexually (new for me) and I am not attracted to them but I’ll have sex with them now. Why? Because my husband really enjoys it, it’s fun, it's different, it adds more variety, for me more kink, I’ve been into the cum thing for a while so it makes for a lot of crazy fun with that. As I mentioned earlier I even got him doing that.

Hope that sort of explains where I am coming from and several of the reasons I’d like to see it and be a part of it.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by herpob

I agree with her about this and I've said it before and I'll say it again. If the guy wants female / female action he should be willing to return the favor with a little male / male action. Why does a guy want this? Same for us.

You can say it again but you are still wrong here.

My wife has enjoyed some FF play. Key word, ENJOYED. I would not enjoy MM play. Even if it were a fantasy of hers for MM play I wouldn't owe her anything because she did an FF.

[safireblues]

I love it so much I married a bi guy. I love sharing cock with him, I love seeing him enjoy it, I love the look on a guy's face when he sees a woman see him do something so taboo.

BIG FAN!