How many people are only into girl/girl?

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by arvcpl

Maybe we were nieve but we thought swinging was going to be lot about swapping and group sex involving everyone but what we have been seeing is mostly women on women with the guys just watching.

arvcpl, we went out of town last night to an on-premise club that was new to us. We had a very interesting evening. During the course of it, I thought of you and this thread!! I thought I'd share our experience with you, since you were on my mind. Maybe the way it worked out for us, could work for you. It's something you may want to try, the next time you feel like the scene is too girl/girl for you and you want to see if you can turn things around.

This club was having a special event, and it was busier than average there. We knew of one other couple who was going, a couple we'd met at a party in the past, had mutual attraction vibes with, but had not been sexual with, yet. We IM-ed with them before the event.

When we got there, they were already there and with another couple (cool with us). The other two women were all over each other. There was a lot of heavy flirting, kissing, feeling up, etc. going on between them. Their husbands were just kind of "there". I'm sure you know what I mean. We Tybees were kind of 5th-6th wheels with that (even though I'm bi), but we had a great time talking, especially with the husband of the couple we already knew from before. He was very interested. Instead of getting in on the bi thing going on and "blending in", I was just feeling especially hetero last night, and had a great time dancing with my hubby, with the other hubby, and just flirting it up.

Instead of feeling left out, and instead of trying to go with the flow of what was going on, we just went with our own vibe. It didn't matter if we hooked up with anybody at all - in fact, we went there fully expecting that nothing outside of the two of us was going to happen. My husband and I were getting very turned on dancing with each other and carrying on. We had some fun with some icing on the cake that was made for the special event. Basically, we were just being Mr. and Mrs. Hetero-and-Horny. Just doing our own thing.

We ended up in a very sexy situation, just the two of us, in the back. We were in an open area, but on a bed that was draped in sheer netting. It was very erotic, just doing our thing and observing all sorts of things through our see-through love nest. All the way across the room, the other two couples we were hanging out with earlier (including the attractive couple we knew - let's call them Mr. and Mrs. H) were still doing the girl/girl making out thing, with the men just sitting on sofas being mostly left out. I didn't know this at the time, but Mr. H was watching us more than the girl/girl stuff in front of him. He talked to his wife, and he and Mrs. H came over to our netted bed and joined in with us. We just looked up from what we were doing and lo and behold, there they were! From there, we four had some amazing hetero sex. The men were anything but left out - they got it all. I have to say, it was the best experience so far in the lifestyle. Now, there was a little girl/girl play going on with our foursome, mainly some momentary kissing and touching here and there, while we were engrossed in the men and what they brought to the table. And oh my...what they brought! facelick

By just doing our thing -what we most wanted to do that night - we ended up drawing that to ourselves. A couple that had been stuck in the girl/girl focus all evening up to that point, became intrigued and joined in. They ended up having the highlight of their evening, too.

[screaminggood]

I must admit that we started out with g/g because it was the first fantasy to be explored. We've moved on from there! So it may be that it's the "safe" way for the girls to get started.

But I've also noticed a disturbing trend in clubs....many, especially the 20's girls, seem to be "nipple-lickers," my term for the girls who flirt to that point and then go home. The entire thing appears to be a way to get the hubby excited, but of course, it doesn't work for the other girl/couple!