will guys lose respect for another guy if they saw him having bi-sex

lovinher · 03-26-2007, 01:50 PM

I wouldn't call not wanting to do anything orally or anything else for that matter with a guy prejudice or homophobic, it's just a preference not to do it. What kind of bugs me is when a guy states he isn't into that sort of thing he is labeled homophobic or has homophobic tendencies. When a woman says she isn't into women at all the homophobic label isn't brought up at all. I'm not homophobic at all. I would have no problem playing with a couple if the male was bi but I would make sure my preference is known and my opinion of him would not be affected. But male to male contact does nothing for me and I'm not interested, or do I believe that women who want nothing to do with another woman are homophobic. It's just a preference and not a prejudice IMO.

magnum · 03-27-2007, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Tia Vampire

We have seen the question, "would a woman lose respect for a guy if he wanted to be done by another guy, if so then why?" At times it has gotton very nasty on here because of this question. So, I would like to know more from the guys point of view. If you walked into a room and one of your guy friends was being done by a guy, would you lose respect for him? Could you still hang around with him? Alright guys your turn.

Interesting question...I have a male friend that is gay, he is a great guy and a very good friend, I would rather not see him getting drivin to
Pittsburg, if you know what I mean.

I would rather not see a straight male friend getting drivin to Pittsburg either, I am not sure if I would lose respect for him??? I would surely look at him a "bi" and I would be a little shocked, at least initially.

Thrax · 03-28-2007, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by magnum

Interesting question...I have a male friend that is gay, he is a great guy and a very good friend, I would rather not see him getting drivin to Pittsburg, if you know what I mean.

Hmmm...never heard that phrase before, but I can guess what you mean. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge. :rollseyes

You best be careful there. You might have offended some folks in Kansas or California. Or was that your intent?

Thrax

**Alura** · 03-28-2007, 10:45 AM

Well, alright! I'm not too embarassed to ask, since I'm just a hick Okie. What the hell does "being (driven/drivin') to Pittsburg" mean?

Mr. Alura

magnum · 03-29-2007, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Thrax

Hmmm...never heard that phrase before, but I can guess what you mean. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge. :rollseyes

You best be careful there. You might have offended some folks in Kansas or California. Or was that your intent?

Thrax

I did not mean to offend anyone...That is a phrase I heard back in high school, it can also refer to heterosexual "play" as well.

LOL_OMG · 03-29-2007, 11:33 PM

Heh, thank goodness there was no h on the end of Pittsburg, I can almost see the Steeler tailgaters heading towards Denver.............JK

Mr.

LOL_OMG · 03-29-2007, 11:48 PM

It's a long long way to Pittsburgh.

Oh wait that's Tipperary. Meh /shrug

Mrs

itbus69 · 03-30-2007, 07:33 AM

My wife and I looking for our 1st mfm she knows I want to give to the guy getting him ready for her and she is fine with that turns her on when we talk

LOL_OMG · 03-30-2007, 10:19 AM

Back to the subject at hand. The only way I would lose respect would be if, after I made it clear that my door doesn't 'swing' that way, the guy tried to push it. Having said that though, the same thing applies to pushy couples. The thing that scares me the most about m/m is aids. I know a lot of it was media hype but when aids first came out it swept through the gay-male community. It may be just my own mind making me feel better, but it seems to me if I steer cleer of bi-males and hardcore drug users that things are a bit safer. This is not meant to offend anyone, just an opinion.

Mr.

cutecouple39 · 04-01-2007, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Alura

Well, alright! I'm not too embarassed to ask, since I'm just a hick Okie. What the hell does "being (driven/drivin') to Pittsburg" mean?

Mr. Alura

well I will have to say the only thing I could figure out by the "Drivin to Pittsburg quote is that there is an amusement park in PA called Hershey Park...

Thrax · 04-01-2007, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by cutecouple39

well I will have to say the only thing I could figure out by the "Drivin to Pittsburg quote is that there is an amusement park in PA called Hershey Park...

That is true, but there's no Pittsburg in PA.

Of course, maybe it's the trend in Denve, CO, to drop the last letter in city names if he was referring to Pittsburgh.

Thrax

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03-26-2007, 01:50 PM	#31 (permalink)
lovinher Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 766 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim Swing Lifestyle Name:Lovinall	Re: will guys lose respect? I wouldn't call not wanting to do anything orally or anything else for that matter with a guy prejudice or homophobic, it's just a preference not to do it. What kind of bugs me is when a guy states he isn't into that sort of thing he is labeled homophobic or has homophobic tendencies. When a woman says she isn't into women at all the homophobic label isn't brought up at all. I'm not homophobic at all. I would have no problem playing with a couple if the male was bi but I would make sure my preference is known and my opinion of him would not be affected. But male to male contact does nothing for me and I'm not interested, or do I believe that women who want nothing to do with another woman are homophobic. It's just a preference and not a prejudice IMO. __________________ I know I was born. I know that I'll die. The in between is mine. (PJ)

03-28-2007, 10:45 AM	#34 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,165 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Married to Mrs. Alura	Re: will guys lose respect? Well, alright! I'm not too embarassed to ask, since I'm just a hick Okie. What the hell does "being (driven/drivin') to Pittsburg" mean? Mr. Alura __________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers

03-29-2007, 11:33 PM	#36 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 950 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: will guys lose respect? Heh, thank goodness there was no h on the end of Pittsburg, I can almost see the Steeler tailgaters heading towards Denver.............JK Mr. __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

03-29-2007, 11:48 PM	#37 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 950 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: will guys lose respect? It's a long long way to Pittsburgh. Oh wait that's Tipperary. Meh /shrug Mrs __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

03-30-2007, 07:33 AM	#38 (permalink)
itbus69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 11 Location: tn Status: couple	Re: will guys lose respect? My wife and I looking for our 1st mfm she knows I want to give to the guy getting him ready for her and she is fine with that turns her on when we talk

03-30-2007, 10:19 AM	#39 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 950 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: will guys lose respect? Back to the subject at hand. The only way I would lose respect would be if, after I made it clear that my door doesn't 'swing' that way, the guy tried to push it. Having said that though, the same thing applies to pushy couples. The thing that scares me the most about m/m is aids. I know a lot of it was media hype but when aids first came out it swept through the gay-male community. It may be just my own mind making me feel better, but it seems to me if I steer cleer of bi-males and hardcore drug users that things are a bit safer. This is not meant to offend anyone, just an opinion. Mr. __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

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