will guys lose respect for another guy if they saw him having bi-sex

[cutecouple39]

Originally Posted by at-a-kiss

I do not know why guys are so up tight or lack the ability to enjoy another way of being pleased. Alot to be said about having a mans penis in you, as you ladies know facelick . Al of you guys with this problem should give it a try, you will never come so hard Example. I do not like to kiss another man, I do not feel that way about them but I do like the feel of a rock hard penis in me. I enjoy my wife using toys with me very much. I love to be on top Try it guys! Open your self up to new things, you will love it if it is done right!

This whole statement is absolutely absurd that would be just like someone into beastiality or pedofilia telling everyone on this board that they should try it cause they might like it, that is just ludicrous.

At a kiss.....just because a straight guy wants nothing to do with a dick in their ass does not mean we are uptight or lack the ability to try new things. Your statement is BS. I guess a guy who likes to fuck donkeys could say the same about you if you apply your way of thinking.

agian I have to agree with lovinher

[at-a-kiss]

No one says anything about his personal attack on atakiss. ex: fucking donkeydicks! That was out of line!

[Alura]

I don't think so, at-a-kiss.

One evening, when I was in Air Force basic training, a group of airman were sitting on foot lockers lying about their conquests as seventeen-year-olds will do. One fellow, a farmer's son, had been very quiet until he joined the group.

"Y'all can talk all y'all want about yer girl pussy, but there ain't nothin' hotter than good ol' cow pussy. I got this heifer named Bessie. She's all stump-broke, y'know? ...an' I wanna tell y'all, she loves it!"

He went on at length, eventually telling about his concern when his father told him Bessie was pregnant. Despite a veterinarian's assurance that "it don't work that way," he spent a nervous gestation period.

I still chuckle when I remember that evening but I never lost respect for him. He was serving his country just as I was and he never tried to fix me up with a heifer.

Don't try to fix me up with a man, and don't call people "asshole" and we'll get along just fine.

Mr. Alura

[lovinher]

I was not attacking you at all and I'm sorry you took it that way. I don't understand how you came to that conclusion. I was pointing out that just because somebody isn't into what you are into doesn't mean they have hang ups or need to lighten up. Now if a guy who fucks donkeys said to you "man you should really lighten up and fuck my donkey" how would you respond? Would you believe you have hang ups because you don't want to mess with his donkey? An extreme analogy but the point is the same. I have no interest in having a dick in my ass or mouth. Come to think of it I don't even want to watch it (guy on guy). Maybe that is a hang up but I could care less. But I could also care less if another guy does it and my opinion of him would not change. Now if he DID fuck donkeys all bets are off. Call that what you want and you can call me an asswhole.
Lighten up dude.

[lovinher]

Alura that was great! The thought of some guy worrying that he got a cow pregnant is priceless. I imagine he was worried about what his kid would look like!

[Alura]

Yep! That was it, Lovingher.

He was afraid the offspring would be half cow and half human. The real scary part, to the airman, was that the human part would look just like him. He waited until the vet was away from his dad and asked if a horse and cow could have a half and half colt/calf.

He said the vet smiled, obviously having heard the question from young teens before, and told him different species (including humans) couldn't mix; the pregnancy just won't take. I guess it was only when the calf was born that he relaxed and went back to fucking Bessie.

Mr. Alura

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by Alura

I don't think so, at-a-kiss.

One evening, when I was in Air Force basic training, a group of airman were sitting on foot lockers lying about their conquests as seventeen-year-olds will do. One fellow, a farmer's son, had been very quiet until he joined the group.

"Y'all can talk all y'all want about yer girl pussy, but there ain't nothin' hotter than good ol' cow pussy. I got this heifer named Bessie. She's all stump-broke, y'know? ...an' I wanna tell y'all, she loves it!"

He went on at length, eventually telling about his concern when his father told him Bessie was pregnant. Despite a veterinarian's assurance that "it don't work that way," he spent a nervous gestation period.

I still chuckle when I remember that evening but I never lost respect for him. He was serving his country just as I was and he never tried to fix me up with a heifer.

Don't try to fix me up with a man, and don't call people "asshole" and we'll get along just fine.

Mr. Alura

Do you have any idea how difficult it is to clean Corona off of a monitor?

[sereneiders]

Originally Posted by Alura

Yep! That was it, Lovingher.

He was afraid the offspring would be half cow and half human. The real scary part, to the airman, was that the human part would look just like him. He waited until the vet was away from his dad and asked if a horse and cow could have a half and half colt/calf.

He said the vet smiled, obviously having heard the question from young teens before, and told him different species (including humans) couldn't mix; the pregnancy just won't take. I guess it was only when the calf was born that he relaxed and went back to fucking Bessie.

Mr. Alura

Well, it seems reasonable to expect a kid to born already clothed with a leather jacket.

[Alura]

Curiousagain wrote:

Do you have any idea how difficult it is to clean Corona off of a monitor?

My guess is it's a bit easier than Classic Coke, Curiousagain. I commend you for your good taste in beer.

The evening ended abruptly when "Taps" blew and the airman announced:

"Boy! All this talk about cow pussy has got me so horney I'm just gonna climb up in my bunk and beat my meat."

He did just that. If nothing else, he was to be admired for his candor.


Mr. Alura

[sereneiders]

This is way too funny.

I wonder if some of this has to do with the combat pilot's taste for leather jackets

[at-a-kiss]

Lovinher, I apologize and I apologize to the board. I read the post wrong and acted out of line, I understand after rereading your post and the response of alure and others. maybe my actions are my own hang up. I took it personaly and should not of. Please do not think i'm a bad person, I really am a nice person I just took your post the wrong way. Again I apologize to you and the board for my responce.

[lovinher]

You don't have a hang up, just an opinion.
All is good

[Alura]

No problem, At-a-kiss. We've all made similar mistakes. It takes a strong person to admit a mistake and apologize.

We look forward to reading a lot more of your posts. Stay with us!

Mr. Alura

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by at-a-kiss

Lovinher, I apologize and I apologize to the board. I read the post wrong and acted out of line, I understand after rereading your post and the response of alure and others. maybe my actions are my own hang up. I took it personaly and should not of. Please do not think i'm a bad person, I really am a nice person I just took your post the wrong way. Again I apologize to you and the board for my responce.

Thank you for stepping up, it says a lot about you. It's always important to take a moment when reading posts on a board like this and think through them before responding. It's all too easy in these situations to get the wrong impression or to misread what someone said.

That said, Welcome to the board! You can count yourself a real member now, you've been involved in a misunderstanding and survived!

[Happypair]

Then there was the cowboy who confessed to a friend that on those weeks-long solo cattle drives, he would ocasionally become intimately acquainted with his horse. "Really?" replied his buddy. "Is it male or female?" "Female, of course," snapped the cowboy. "Ya think i'm gay?"
So we all have our prejudices and taboos, this writer included. I'm wondering if we can get back to the original question (or at least that general area), that being, just how tolerant we straights are regarding male bisexuality. Madame and I are both straight (call her a bit bi-curious, but she's not really comfortable with the whole thing). That said, we like to consider ourselves tolerant of the choices of others. And yet...
We met and chatted with a couple some time ago at a meet & greet. They were in our (50-plus) age range, reasonably attractive, and we enjoyed chatting with them... had quite a bit in common. We also discussed the fact that his ad mentions that he is orally bi. Yes, he said, but only orally, and he would never try to 'convert' anyone. Unless a swing partner requested it, the subject would never come up. (BTW, he also said he'll blow a guy, but no kissing.)
Sooooo.. I'm not prejudiced.. (and notice how the next word is always 'but')..
but that was months ago and we've been consistently 'too busy' to set something up with them. Am I more homophobic than I care to admit? Perhaps, but there is something else, and I never see this discussed on the board. We are a long-term couple and prefer that in partners, friends-first, quality-over-quantity, blah, blah, blah. In short, we are selective, then if those we select are of similar mind, we prefer our sex bareback. We ALWAYS respect the wishes of others who prefer safe sex, but from our standpoint, if we feel the need to glove up to protect ourselves, we're going to either wait until we know you better, or just move on. But what about our new friends? Based on every other impression, we would be intimate with them, and do it without latex. But yes, now we're nervous about catching bad things that are associated with male homosexuality. And yes, he's only orally bi, not that risky in itself, but how do we know that applies to all his friends, that some of them, while respecting his limits, may be fully bi, and of course swinging with his wife?
We certainly respect this couple for their honesty; had they not been upfront about his bi side, I am sure we'd have mixed it up with them long ago, condom-free if they desired. So, without getting into the whole safe-sex in general debate (that's a horse that has been whipped to death), I would like to throw out a few questions:
Is this 'quiet' prejudice common.. we respect your bi-ness, just won't get it on with you?
If so, is it not because of what you do, but fear that you're in (or on the fringe of) a high-risk group?
If you (male) are bi (even just orally), is there a moral obligation to disclose this right off the bat, or in ads?
And finally, are there straight-male couples who do swing, or have, with bi-male couples, and what are your thoughts?