Is Every Man Gay or BI?

[Mico]

I was just devastated to learn that the man I've been in love with and lusting after is either bi or gay. Devastated because I don't think he'll ever fuck me. Do gay guys fuck women too? I would like him to fuck me up my ass cuz I'm VERY tight and I'm dying to suck him off. WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN?

[havefuninsun]

I couldn't find the troll icon.

(and, it sounds SO girl-like)

[BorisNatasha]

It means, good sir, that you've found the wrong board on which to discuss your fantasies.

[Chicup]

I thought I needed a

:beatdeadh

after reading the thread title.

After reading the post I really needed a



or maybe a

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Mico

WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN?

I had a friend with a gay room mate, and I always wondered if that was an uncomfortable arrangement - until I went to a party at their place. In the center of the room was a group of gay men (and frankly, the pressure on gay men to be fashion-model-hot is incredible) and standing around them was this cloud of disappointment (read: women). My straight friend simply had to be a shoulder to cry on; to pick up the pieces if you will...

What a set up!

I don't know if this is really all that trollish because I have heard women, through a haze of depression, lust and Zima, ask the same question a dozen times. Do they? Not always - and once they come to grips with their sexually why would they? Gay men are the same as anyone - attracted to whom they are attracted.

Sure - this is probably a throw away thread with a throw away question, but there is actually an answer to her question - and a very smart straight man waiting to "pick up the pieces"

You go, boy...

Spoomonkey

[Mr. Truelove]

This is one sticky situation!!!!!!!!! WOW

[intuition897]

This is like spotting a polar bear in Hawaii. I thought Bots only inhabited Yahoo chat rooms! Wow!

[bigjoehd]

Just the one's who are gettin laid,all the REAL MEN are wasting their time trolling & honing their bone

[HappyPeople]

Dear god... Trollish as this post may seem, I will reply as my alter ego rather than my usual posting self...

*cue dramatic music*
*enter Captain Obvious*

Bisexual men are attracted to men and women. Gay men prefer only men.


Also, there are some kinky discussions on Craigslist that you may find interesting.

[bufferoo]

"Do gay guys fuck women too? I would like him to fuck me up my ass cuz I'm VERY tight and I'm dying to suck him off."

Boy...that's mighty strong talk for a jehovah's wittness.

[WesternSwing]

Spoo is completely right. And to add to it, gay or bi men are no more attracted to every guy than a heterosexual man is attracted to every woman or a hetero woman is attracted to every man.

On a second note, here in Utah there are allot of LDS men that try to live "the right way" and they publicly deny their sexuality, get married, have kids, and do all the things a good Morman male is supposed to... Except, they never really feel good about themselves. Eventually they either come out of the closet and divorce, or they stay miserable their whole lives.

This is enough of a growing trend where it has made news stories recently with both those that have tried to "stay the path" with their wife and family and those that have embraced their sexuality and moved-on, also allowing their wife to move-on. Others go through "reorientation" programs the LDS Church has set-up.

Anyway, it's a sad state of affairs when people are not allowed to be happy.

Mr. WS

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

Anyway, it's a sad state of affairs when people are not allowed to be happy.

Mr. WS

Well since this thread was DIA to start I'd like to comment on this.

I don't think anyone is 'not allowed' to be happy. The mormons have their way, and as agressive as they can be with their members, it is a big country and anyone can escape if they like. Mormons are very quick to excommunicate members who don't follow their rules, but its not like they put you in a cage.

In the end if you are in self denial the only one not allowing yourself to be happy is you.

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Well since this thread was DIA to start I'd like to comment on this.

I don't think anyone is 'not allowed' to be happy. The mormons have their way, and as agressive as they can be with their members, it is a big country and anyone can escape if they like. Mormons are very quick to excommunicate members who don't follow their rules, but its not like they put you in a cage.

In the end if you are in self denial the only one not allowing yourself to be happy is you.

True, but the threat of excommunication goes very deep. For one, your soul is damned for eternity.

But on a more earthly plain, you lose your family, your friends, your neighbors, and if you work for a Mormon owned business, chances are you'll lose your job, too. Everyone that yesterday was your "best friend" now openly denounces, criticizes, and condemns you.

Basically, you lose everything. The threat of this is what keeps the "faithful" inline. So for many it is better to live a lie and be unhappy, then tell the truth and be even unhappier. At least for the short term.

Mr. WS

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

True, but the threat of excommunication goes very deep. For one, your soul is damned for eternity.

But on a more earthly plain, you lose your family, your friends, your neighbors, and if you work for a Mormon owned business, chances are you'll lose your job, too. Everyone that yesterday was your "best friend" now openly denounces, criticizes, and condemns you.

Basically, you lose everything. The threat of this is what keeps the "faithful" inline. So for many it is better to live a lie and be unhappy, then tell the truth and be even unhappier. At least for the short term.

Mr. WS

But isn't this a bit like what we are risking as swingers?

I'm not in fear for my immortal soul but the above is quite true for a lot of us. I'd take some hits if it came out, Mrs. Chicups family would be utterly horrified and blame me. So we happily stay in the closet.

So the gay mormon who wants to stay in good graces makes up some medical excuse for not being able to have kids and takes a lot of vacations to south florida

Is it ideal? No, but one quote from a novel I read many years ago has stuck with me. The thing I hate about whipped puppies is that they allow themselves to be whipped .