In swinging groups, are bi females like single males?

[FloridaFlirt]

Hi Tybee--check the other thread for my response about relocating.

As far as the decisions I've made, I started thinking about the people that are already in our membership. If I had a rigorous screening process that kept out couples that ONLY played with other women, I would have missed out on knowing lots of great folks. I can see from my own personal experience and from reading other people's experiences here on the board that it takes all kinds of folks to make a good swinging group work.

So....I am continuing the way I have been--admitting couples and single women who are in the lifestyle, and single men will be admitted as space and balance permits. I am being more aggressive in "recruiting" couples that are the traditional full swap kind of folks, mainly for my own selfish gain (LOL), but welcome any lifestyle couples that are REAL. (The word "real" makes me want to start a whole new thread on "wannabe swingers", but I'll save that rant for another day

[darlindebi]

just as a quick post-mortem here on an already overlong thread :
As a dedicated couple with an avowed bi-fem - We've encountered many more bad experiences with single males in the life style than with bi-fems within couples.

[good times]

Originally Posted by darlindebi

just as a quick post-mortem here on an already overlong thread :
As a dedicated couple with an avowed bi-fem - We've encountered many more bad experiences with single males in the life style than with bi-fems within couples.

While I am not surprised that you have found this to be so in your case, if your female were straight you might not find the same to be true. Our experience has been that we have had more problems with overly aggressive bi-females than single males. We attribute this to the fact that single males are regulated by a pretty strict set of rules at most clubs or parties, which isn't the case for bi-females. Our experience has been that bi-females get away with things that a single male would get thrown out of the party for in a second. In reality, we have had relatively few problems with either, the large majority of bi-females and single males are just fine and are not a problem, but anytime you have a bad experience it tends to stand out in your mind and color your opinion of others in the same category.