The "bi" subject

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Rockme

Am I the only one who finds it ironic that we are talking about how “normal” or “abnormal” bi sexual men are on a swingers board?! All this talk about not wanting to give new people the wrong idea when they come to the board. We are arguing a subcategory of a socially unexpected topic on a board dedicated to swinging, which is a socially unaccepted topic in its self!
Everyone needs to take a breath and enjoy life.

Nope, I don't find it ironic.

We may be an socially abnormal group in terms of our sex lives, but within the group there are expectations and limits. We are discussing those expectations and limits in this thread and many others on the board.

That doesn't mean we are uptight about it either, and I'm enjoying life just fine.

[Dooode]

Originally Posted by Rockme

Am I the only one who finds it ironic that we are talking about how “normal” or “abnormal” bi sexual men are on a swingers board?!

Is it ironic? Sure it's ironic. And here's why:

http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ults&pollid=12

207 out of 707 who responded to this poll actually enjoy full-swapping with ALL PARTIES. That's damn-near a third.

Not so unusual!

Of course, (again) it's not mainstream swinging but who's to say that all swingers go to clubs? There are other means and methods of finding partners, ya know.

Mainstream swingers pointing out what is "abnormal" borders on hypocricy when society itself considers mainstream swinging "abnormal". Following Mainstream's reasoning, and according to this poll, voyeurs, soft-swingers and newbies are the lowest on the swinger totum pole.

And yet there is .. *ahem*.. "concern" that newbies are going to be affected by topics such as this?? Nonsense. They'll go whichever route they want to go, regardless of what "mainstream" says. How do I know?

The poll says so.

And EVERYONE was a newbie once!

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Dooode

And yet there is .. *ahem*.. "concern" that newbies are going to be affected by topics such as this?? Nonsense. They'll go whichever route they want to go, regardless of what "mainstream" says. How do I know?

The poll says so.

And EVERYONE was a newbie once!

We discussed this poll in this thread (not directly but the results) looking for reasons as to why this doesn't seem to pair up with swinging reality.

[good times]

Originally Posted by Rockme

Lighten up!! I could say the sky is blue and you would be ready to jump me!! I get the fact that you don’t like my post, me or anything else I may say. To be honest, I don’t care! My post was not a call to arms for all bi men to pickup and go to war against straight men. As I have said before 99% of my play is with women! This thread can and will go on without me. Surrender

Sorry you took offense Rockme, You asked a question, I answered. If you are so sensitive that you take offense at a straight answer to a question you asked, then why would you ask? I don't see how I in any way "jumped" you, you said you found this thread ironic, I told you why I didn't, I don't see how I could be any lighter than that.

[ANGEDKY(mr)]

Wow......

This is like a train wreck, I just cant look away