Men, where do you fall on the Kinsey scale of homosexual tendancies?

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by NandTfromCA

I though you were poking fun at me to some degree. I was obviously defensive so I apologize for not giving you more benefit of the doubt. Surrender

I have a sense of humor - but admittedly, it only ocassionally makes sense

Outside of my head, that is...

Originally Posted by NandTfromCA

100% on board with you. To each their own...accept your inner freak...whatever color it is, and accept that everyone is not like you

Exactly! The idea of swinging is simple - HAVE FUN! If you are doing that - who cares what other people are doing or thinking. If it is for you, be about it. If it is not, no skin off your nose. I'd rather share a beer with someone than try to force my personal feelings on them

And in the end - if we can all just share a beer - these debates are simply academic...

Spoomonkey

[viajero]

Hi folks,

I've been lurking for ages now and never pipe up for any discussion. I love your openness to the subject of sex. I’d like to set things straight or gay or bi about this subject since I’ve read extensively about it.

First of all for all the straight men I will say yes there are guys who are all straight. I expect my dad, my brother and my brother-in-laws all fall into that category. I on the other hand do not.

I prefer men but lately I’ve been thinking that the ultimate sexual experience would be to do a woman while sucking a man. Now you have to understand that I’ve been almost exclusively gay since I slept with a stunning Brazilian model about 20 years ago and I couldn’t get hard. I had tons of opportunities with very attractive woman and turn them all down. Yet, when I started to get to know a few swingers I started having sexual dreams about woman again. The real thought that turned me on were women who were turned on by guys going at it. Once I realized women could get turned on by who I am it the bi fantasies started to crop up again.

Meanwhile I’ve always walked a thin line between the straight and gay world. I’ve had lots of straight male friends who have openly discussed whatever sexual desire they might have. I’ve also found myself having sex with guys who I thought were all straight. I even found many gay men who admit that they would have sex with the right woman if the time were right. The more open people are sexual the more you find they will admit such things.

I am not implying that everyone is a little bi. It is just that we constantly heterosexualize everything and bury any thing remotely bi. It is not just heterosexual but many homosexuals who are guilty of this. I’m not talking about homophobia or biphobia, I’m talking about everyone assuming that anyone who is not like them must be a freak. I’ve come to the conclusion that there is a homo and hetero erotic component to most (not all) people’s sexuality. For the majority the hetero component dominates. But the stats we see are wrong. If people were open sexual we would probably find at least 50% had some curiosity about the same sex. This seems to be what the results of this poll shows, and most of you are heterosexual.

Forgive the gay men who think everyone has a little homo in them. I know without doubt the vast majority of men are either all straight or their bi tendencies are so minor it only comes out in their dream. But I also know that there are far more closet cases anyone can imagine.

You guys are great because you talk and explore. I just moved from Miami(where I met swingers for the first time) to a small southern city and let me tell you, it ain’t like that in the bible-belt. Here the effeminate guys are made fun of and the rest marry. Many of the latter cheat on their wives with guys later in life. I’d have to say 8 out of 10 of the non-heterosexual men I meet here have kids either from a current or previous marriage. So yes there are plenty of red blooded heterosexual but there are also a number of closet cases. My guess is 10 to 20% of the population would be gay or bi in a sexual free society. perhaps another 10% or more would have some curiosities and then the curiosities become more and more minor as we move up the scale. 50 to 70 percent have no same sex curiosities and never will. This by the way is how most of your polls end up and I don’t expect any homosexuals participate. Actually I forgot the percent of asexuals. They are presumed to be hetero but sometimes you get the impression most Americans don’t even like sex.

Take care all and have an erotic time.