Long time cumming..first MM

[gsu22]

I experienced my first TRUE MM tonight in my first 3 sum in quite sometime.....a bi couple I had met on-line. Early 30's, quite attractive and both were bi. Went into the night being very nervous knowing some MM action was about to take place.

Had dinner, drinks and talked for about an hour and a half before heading back to their place. Started off with her on the couch while he watched and after a while of some incredible foreplay she decided it was time for the men to try some 69 action.......my heart was about to pound out of my chest but I tried it and did enjoy it. I was on bottom and at first it was a little difficult b/c of the angle/way I almost choked/gagged....I had shared a small amount of oral with a woman one time on a man but nothing to this extent....we went at it for a while before she joined in and all of us were touching/sucking....extremely pleasureable for all involved. One of the things I was comforable with involving this situation was the guy shared my feelings exactly regarding mm..(oral/touching only...no kissing or anal) and during dinner we had discussed some rules for each of us and it seemed we all clicked very well....I do hope to swing with them again soon....However, one thing that was dicussed after all of the activity was the possiblity of the two of us men meeting once in a while for some mm oral "stuff" when maybe she might not be around....I asked her directly if she had a problem and she said not at all...it actually turned her on very much.....I told them I'd think about it but having just started experiencing mm oral activity I don't know if I'd be comfortable or ready to engage in just MM activity alone.....having a strong need for a woman I feel I'd need one there and the idea of just us men makes me a little uneasy?!? ANyways, just wanted to share....I was excited and really enjoyed experiencing something new AND swinging for the first time in a WHILE!!!!!!!

[BradAndJanet]

Hey, good for you! I'm glad you had fun.

-B

[Vespertine]

Congratulations!

I'm glad you had a fun time. Trying something new is always a little scary... but at least you took that leap and tried a fantasy of yours. Good for you.

If you don't think you'll be comfortable just having "guy time", don't commit to it if you're not 100% sure it's your thing. You enjoy this couple, the three of you had a fun time. You'd like to have future MMF's with them, I'm sure. If by chance you meet the guy for a little one on one and it makes you uncomfortable, or it doesn't go well, it might strain your relationship with this couple. Hence, no future MMF's.

My advice: You have a good thing going on now. Don't mess with it.

[Miss_Piggy]

There's no harm in telling them that you don't think you're ready to be alone with the guy but that you'd love to get together with both of them again. Maybe in the future when you're more comfortable with the MM thing you'll be more interested. Just be honest with them about where your comfort lies.

[gsu22]

Yeah, I've thought about it all day and I'm going to tell them I feel more comfortable with all 3 of us there......just me and him felt weird to me as I thought about that possibly happening.....

And Vespertine, i agree completely....I think it could strain it and after the fun we had I really don't want to mess things up.

[gsu22]

Well, i talked it out with this couple earlier tonight and they were fine with my decision to have her there during MM action....I expressed my interest in exlporing more things with the both of them and they were very open to that. Looks like Saturday night will be round # 2 for the three of us and I can't wait! And with a giggle she said she wants to be the complete center of attention this time! LOL

He, like myself, is into mm action(oral) but has had several experiences and is comfortable with it by now.....he understood my stance on it and that I'm still alittle "skidish" and nervous....his whole idea about having "alone guy time" was to A.) turn her on b/c she likes that and B.) to have a "friend" to share oral with when he got in the mood and if she might be busy or away....I told him I love/need pussy there and he laughed.

[montresor]

I had "guy time" with Mr 9 last fall -- Ms P got really excited when I called from work and told her he and I had just discussed it on the phone, and would she have a problem with it. Her reply: "Do you want the house? I'll find something to do!" So out she went and Mr 9 and I had fantastic bi-male sex, did each other every which way while talking about fucking our female partners!

BUT... there was a downside. Ms P, it seems, spent the evening shopping her li'l tushie off at the mall....

[curious24]

I'm jealous!