Men swingers and bisexuality

[Robin1302]

Originally Posted by hmr

I (the female half) love to see bi action between males. The male body is beautiful. I love watching two or more of them intertwined in physical sexual contact. Just watching their muscles flex as they pull and push their bodies together then away again makes me hot. facelick Seeing them give head to one another is exciting for me.
We have found there are many more bisexual men in swinging than you would think. A lot do not put it on their profiles or say anything about the curiosity until after meeting because of the double standard in the swinging lifestyle. Bisexuality is accepted, almost expected among women, but it is still taboo for men. Maybe it is me, but I just don't get it. If it is suppose to be ok for women to be bi, and straight women are suppose to accept f/f play anywhere it occurs (according to most men) without being upset or intimidated in anyway....what is problem with m/m play? Anyplace we have ever been, the bimales never do anything without asking first!!! Most of the time they are in their own little space anyway. I just wish adults would act like adults when it comes to this matter!! Everyone would be more relaxed and have a lot more fun, more often!

mrs hmr

I have never ceased to be amazed by the number of women who enjoy seeing their man with another guy, and it has been my experience many times that this IS the case
I've been in threesomes and moresomes where women have actively assisted their man engage other men anally. Personally, as a bi man, I find it a big turn on knowing the woman/women present are turned on by seeing men together .. to engage with a woman orally while one is being anally penetrated by her man (or another male present) or is being orally engaged by a guy, is extremely exciting.
Many, if not most men, enjoy seeing two bi women together.
Why shouldn't women enjoy the same?

[SecretAsianMan]

Y'know ... it's always been a matter of personal preferences for everyone involved.

Some will never find this a turn on... and that's not a big deal. Others find this to be incredibly erotic... and that's cool too!

We're not here to pass judgements on one another for what we choose to do in the semi-privacy of our sex lives that we share with our partner(s).

[thebinkfords]

At some point I mentioned to A that I have had a few male on male experiences as a teenager. I guess I considered it a phase that I went through and never persued it into adulthood. Now she is very keen on sharing another guy with me.

Most of the people that I know take it for granted that I don't take much seriously. So when I say something, it's usually accepted as a joke. When I tell them that hetero and homsexuals are prejudiced they crack up. (Can you say heterophobe?)

To each their own. Pleasure is pleasure and how you find it is your own thing.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by thebinkfords

To each their own. Pleasure is pleasure and how you find it is your own thing.

Well stated. And this is a sentiment to which I agree.

[Infidelsgonewld]

The women that I have spoken to that love to see their men with another men, tend to love it partially because it takes alot of confidence in their man's sexuality to suck cock(or whatever), and as a bi man I(and my girl) have to agree. I am not attracted to guys in the same way I am to women. I was confidently straight for most of my life and only recently explored the bi side of my sexuality and to boldly explore that can take alot of courage(or alot of alcohol lol!).

The first couple we had an experience said they were turned off by MM action. You can imagine my surprise when the guy started to jerk me off during our group shower! We later traded blowjobs and his fiancee(who told me that MM action COMPLETELY turned her off) admitted it was kind of hot and it didn't really turn her off as much she thought it would. It makes me think that perhaps quite a few couples are like that. They have a kind of mental block about it that a drunken(or sober) male on male exploration could possibly cure. That doesn't mean I think that that there are couples who truly would never enjoy that. I don't even think that a guy who sucks a cock or two in the heat of the moment is definitely bi-sexual. I just take the, don't knock it till you try it, stance.

However, I think it is important to be open and honest about being bi/bicurious or not in ALL swinger situations. Could prevent a really awkward situation, not to mention it's a good idea to size up people's likes and dislikes when you meet them at a club or online.

[pxjcp]

I am Bi and have nothing to hide when meeting couples or select singles males for my wife. As one poster noted be honest up front if it's a "no no" in your meeting respect the other couple or person and keep your hands and other body parts to yourself.. I find it odd, that there are so many Girl Girl allowances and accepted by darn near every couple, but don't even think abuot guy guy. So "taboo" to so many people. The way we look at it. It's sex, pure sex.

I live in Orlando FL and SC and the wife really thought it was hot watching two guys please her and in turn pleasing each other. As long as she got a lot of attention and had her orgasms she enjoyed it and didn't care what the guys did.

[eraserxx7]

I am a single swinger and I m very inyerested i getting fucked by nother man and to se able to suck other mens cocks. I prefer big cocks and only white males. Please write if interested

[DiscreetDesires]

I (Mrs. Discreet) am VERY turned on by men enjoying themselves with each other.
The Mr. has no desire to be with another man, and I respect that. He knows that if he ever has a curiosity about it, then I will be right there with him giving him full acceptance.
He is not homophobic and does not mind playing with a couple where the male half is bi, but would rather the guy be honest about it, as long as the other guy knows there will be no play between the two of them.

The Mr. knows this is a turn on for me and finds no issues with me enjoying the male/male porn if that is my thing.
I still have yet to see the action in person, but can't wait until that day comes for me to watch.

[GerdOEvert]

WE had half a dozen or more bisexual relationships at swinging parties or at gatherings with another couple at their or our place.

The thing I noticed is that the guys did not advertise, and it was done behind closed doors without an audience.

OI hve never been butt fucked. Too dangerous., But I have sucked and been sucked. Sexy.

Both of us are bi, but it is easier for the women because not so much stigma.

Otto & Eileen.

[Pleasure King]

Originally Posted by hmr

I (the female half) love to see bi action between males. The male body is beautiful. I love watching two or more of them intertwined in physical sexual contact. Just watching their muscles flex as they pull and push their bodies together then away again makes me hot. facelick Seeing them give head to one another is exciting for me.
We have found there are many more bisexual men in swinging than you would think. A lot do not put it on their profiles or say anything about the curiosity until after meeting because of the double standard in the swinging lifestyle. Bisexuality is accepted, almost expected among women, but it is still taboo for men. Maybe it is me, but I just don't get it. If it is suppose to be ok for women to be bi, and straight women are suppose to accept f/f play anywhere it occurs (according to most men) without being upset or intimidated in anyway....what is problem with m/m play? Anyplace we have ever been, the bimales never do anything without asking first!!! Most of the time they are in their own little space anyway. I just wish adults would act like adults when it comes to this matter!! Everyone would be more relaxed and have a lot more fun, more often!

mrs hmr

Good point. The bar is already much higher for males to have success in the lifestyle. Now they're supposed to suppress their true sexual identities as well?

[wild stud]

Originally Posted by hmr

I (the female half) love to see bi action between males. The male body is beautiful. I love watching two or more of them intertwined in physical sexual contact. Just watching their muscles flex as they pull and push their bodies together then away again makes me hot. facelick Seeing them give head to one another is exciting for me.
We have found there are many more bisexual men in swinging than you would think. A lot do not put it on their profiles or say anything about the curiosity until after meeting because of the double standard in the swinging lifestyle. Bisexuality is accepted, almost expected among women, but it is still taboo for men. Maybe it is me, but I just don't get it. If it is suppose to be ok for women to be bi, and straight women are suppose to accept f/f play anywhere it occurs (according to most men) without being upset or intimidated in anyway....what is problem with m/m play? Anyplace we have ever been, the bimales never do anything without asking first!!! Most of the time they are in their own little space anyway. I just wish adults would act like adults when it comes to this matter!! Everyone would be more relaxed and have a lot more fun, more often!

mrs hmr

very well said from both of us and we do agree.Bi and swinging go togather like milk and cookies.We or both bi and still love a good mfm 3 some more than a fmf 3 some.we also enjoy 4 somes with bi couples.
DONNA & DON

[bi4me2]

(him) On all of our ads out there I list myself as straight, not sure why but in reality I am fairly 'straight'. Now that being said, and in the heat of the moment I have no problem with a guy guy thing .... I mean if it feels right who cares?

The funny thing is some of my earliest sexual experiences were 'guy guy' but that was a long time ago. In present day I would say it is 95% / female and 5% / guy I am interested in. There's just not that much about guys that interest me whereas a silky smooth woman makes my blood boil.

Alone she and I have tried everything, and that means anal play on me and yes it is great but (and sorry about this) I have no interest in 95% of the guys out there. But every once and a while a guy comes along that both she and I can enjoy ... granted it's few and far between but it is there.

Am I a hypocrite for saying I am straight in my ads? Considering my 'tastes' I honestly don't think so.

[SecretAsianMan]

Originally Posted by bi4me2

(him) On all of our ads out there I list myself as straight, not sure why but in reality I am fairly 'straight'. Now that being said, and in the heat of the moment I have no problem with a guy guy thing .... I mean if it feels right who cares?

The funny thing is some of my earliest sexual experiences were 'guy guy' but that was a long time ago. In present day I would say it is 95% / female and 5% / guy I am interested in. There's just not that much about guys that interest me whereas a silky smooth woman makes my blood boil.

Alone she and I have tried everything, and that means anal play on me and yes it is great but (and sorry about this) I have no interest in 95% of the guys out there. But every once and a while a guy comes along that both she and I can enjoy ... granted it's few and far between but it is there.

Am I a hypocrite for saying I am straight in my ads? Considering my 'tastes' I honestly don't think so.

Considering that 95% of the guys you're going to encounter will not fall into your "tastes" and therefore will not be engaged in any sort of bisexual activity - I don't think it's misleading to say you're "straight"

[lardub]

The Mrs wants to see it, and I do believe given the right guy and the right time its going to happen...

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Considering that 95% of the guys you're going to encounter will not fall into your "tastes" and therefore will not be engaged in any sort of bisexual activity - I don't think it's misleading to say you're "straight"

To play devils advocate, 90% of women don't fall into my tastes either, but I still call myself heterosexual