Men swingers and bisexuality

[CABob]

Every party I've ever attended, Bi-sexual activity between men was a no-no. And most of the women I've asked have said it's a turn-off to watch 2 men go at it. So what is with all this acceptance here on the Board? And why is this not a true reflection of the negative attitudes towards Bi-sexual activity between men? Perhaps it's because here it's not REAL, it's not YOUR partner sucking some guys cock. So that makes it OK to say your open minded about it, when in fact, out there in the real world, you're not. I would love to go to a party and feel free to have safe sex with another man, but that's not the way it is.

[Chicup]

I'll be honest, I'm one of those 100% straight men who does not want to see male bi-sexual content. Likewise my wife, who is bi herself, has no desire to see bi-male activity (and before anyone says shes trying to please me, trust me on this, I know from her reactions).

I would not attend a club where there was bi-male activity as it’s a turn off for me, and I'll assume it’s a turn off for most since it seems most clubs do not allow it.

So for me, polls like this make me think. I have always thought that women are naturally bi, and my experiences in life back this up, while on the other hand I thought it was far more rare in males. Since I myself have absolutely NO desire to be with a man, end of discussion, so its hard for me to think the same for males. The other males in swinging I've met have acted/stated the same thing, but perhaps they are just lying to fit the mold.

[mfmyeahbaby]

HELL NO.

[CBYLW]

I think Cracker brings up some interesting points. One is the thought of masculinity. I have a feeling that we (the male) have the hang up about our masculinity more than the ladies do. I'm in my sixties. Example: When I grew up, men didn't cry and had a macho attitude to some degree, and women liked that persona. Now it seems that many women still like the strong type, but also like the more sensitive male. Men that are more in touch with thier feelings. I'm sure thier are women turned off by male bi sexuality, but I have not been encountered them since I have been active bi.
I to, have no interest in becoming involved with another male except sexually. I don't want to kiss and cuddle either. I don't mind oral from another man, but mostly I like giving oral to the other man. I have seen couples that complain about "cock pictures" in swinger ads. I don't. Physicly, that is the only thing that I am intersted in. I have not had anal with a man, although I think that I would like to try. I have had very pleasurable anal sex with women, but I have no desire to be on the giving end with a man. At least so far.

[ALilOEverything]

The results of this poll really surprises me... Only 22% saying No.

I don't think it makes a man any less masculine, but then again I've never actually witnessed any mm play and it's not likely I ever will. I'm intrigued though.

[FlaPlaya561]

Hi everyone
Found this neet site and joined and wowww weee i love this topic. I have met so many women that love to see a man sucking another mans cock. Ive been there and done that before ..Would LOVE More

[greatesc]

I don't understand how you could be seen as less masculine. Unless you go for it and she's not into it. I still work out, and I don't have any desire to skip around the neighborhood, just a desire to please her, and it's really cool. It's always by her asking

[kas]

I didn't vote... Hubby and I have been talking about our fantasies of swinging for a few years now, and are hoping to experience some of them soon. Anyway, I was reading about DP two nights ago, and thought I would like to try that... I mentioned it to him, and he said he was very willing to try it. I was kind of surprised.

[eroticsensation]

im a male.
MAJOR turn off.

[Perseus]

This topic touches home for me. I am a single male swinger and the subject is very touchy. When I place an ad, I am always conscious of how to put the fact that I am bi, but it is not a requirement from to have fun. I think I have found a good balance, but you never know. Many of the men is the swinging community have such a 'gut' reaction to the subject, you have to be careful. I know I would never bring it up at a party, for instance. And I know that I would never cross a boundary without clear indications that is it is ok. I am sure not every guy who reads my ad gets that though. Surrender

Anyway, I have found it can be very sexy in the right situation. It's just not something for every swinging situation.

Jim

[goodgurl]

This is a very good subject and I have often wondered how women feel about this. I as a woman find it to be a turn on. I find it very erotic to see two men together. This is about enjoying another human in a sexual way. I find it very masculine for a man to be sexually open. I am not one for labels on anyone and I don't consider my husband bi......I consider him a very sexual person.

watching their husbands have bi sex would be a turn-on or a turn-off.

I find this to be a huge turn on.

a poll asking the men who are bi, how many would suck only, how many would only want to be sucked and how many would want both, and the same for anal, would you give, receive or both? And would kiss, cuddle and hug be part of your activity?

The experience we have had is oral both ways and anal giving. Kiss, Cuddle and Hug are not part of the activity.

[Vespertine]

I'm all for m/m activity.

My husband, on the other hand, doesn't share my enthusiasm.

[wetmouth]

i had mine sucked by a guy a few times as a kid and i had woman do it toi then there was niot difference except who likes it more and i let a woman massage my ass and finger me there too and she said that is anal sex by a woman for a man .i let a another women do me with mouth on chest nipples and suck me there big deal ok i let another women tell me things and she wanted to do was afraid to ask ok

[menher1559]

I think if we keep everything in perspective here, everyone will realize what satisfies one doesn't satisfy another. We are all different and we must come to that realization. My wife and I enjoy the presence of another male with m2m contact. However we have swinging friends where hubby and the hubby of the other couple have absolutely no contact with each other..It really just depends on how comfortable everyone is with the issue.. My husand is bi, and I enjoy sharing him with another man...I'm basically straight, however I do occassionally enjoy another woman.

I think the key is here to be sure that all parties are in agreement.. If it feels good and no one objects then do it...If there is a problem with, fun can still be had by all.

[Sweetalker45]

my first bi experience came in a mmf with a married couple. We had played str8 before and the wife half of the couple admitted she wanted to share his cock with me. I had never even thought about it until that day.

When she fed me his cock and I saw her reaction... and felt his.. I was hooked.