Question about bi experimenting.....

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Originally Posted by BUNNyinmi

Like everyone says it is about being comfortable and communicating with everyone involved, especially your husband. And your husband respecting your wishes as to how you would like to do things or not do things.

I have to interject here... I'm not sure how you mean the "respecting your wishes as to how you would like to do things or not do things.", but it sounds as if you are saying that if she wants to do it without him present, he should automatically be accomodating to that wish.

I have a problem with that. Respecting wishes is a two way street. If they don't play apart (neither couple does according to her other posts in the thread), then she should respect that. There is nothing wrong with asking, but if the husband of one or both couples do not want for the women to play apart, that should be respected as well.

Perhaps you didn't mean it like I think, and if that is the case, my apologies for my misunderstanding.

And to be fair though, if he really wants it to happen, he'll realize that if she won't do it with him present, that she probably won't do it at all.