Do you ever suck or fuck the other guy in a mfm?

[ronkaren]

It would be a real turn on for me to see Ronny do it with another guy, but he gets the 'I'm not gay' thing going. When we talk about fantisies, he says that he would like to eat me while I was getting fucked, which he admits would mean eating the other man's cum, and licking his dick. He's even said he would suck his cock if I wanted him to, which I would like to see. I'd really like to watch someone fuck him. Do couples do this, or is this outside the lines?

[tweedle]

Great Inquiry !!!

Back in those days when I did the gamut with my first wife, there was similar ORAL contact as to what you mentioned.

The penetrating idea of "getting fucked" or fucking the other guy never came up or got explored.

I'm very curious too, as to what sort of feedback you'll get !!!

[Vespertine]

I just wanted to let you know that I moved your thread to the 'Sex Questions' forum, I think you'll get more responses here.

As for the question you pose: I admit, this is a fantasy of mine, but one I won't be able to live out because my husband definitely doesn't share it.

[tweedle]

For clarification ~ the first time I was under a lady (licking away) whilst her husband was fucking her "doggie-style", I noticed a gush of warm and slightly salty "flow". I thought she was having a quiet but wet orgasm ~ not fully realizing her husband had "cum" (quite silently) and I had "consumed" all the outflow before figuring-out what must have occurred.

Not long thereafter, both of our wives decided they'd like to see us suck each other in a "69". We obliged them, but for some reason I've long forgotten, we didn't take it to completion (probably because we stopped to appreciate the female 69 that ensued ~ and the rest is his/herstory)...

Personally, I've guessed that the "penetration" thing might have gymnastic potential IF (for instance) the one being penetrated was simultaneously penetrating his wife or whomever... Interesting !!! Even being sucked upon might be delightful (I suppose, since I have not "been there - done that") !!!

[eyesonus]

We're searching for our first MFM and are newbies in all but fantasy and thought. Dogwood (he) and Baby are looking for some soft swing, oral, touch, and Dogwood wants to be able to touch and be touched by the other guy,while both guys please Baby, you know, a true threesome, all together. We imagine that our selection of a playmate may limit us in our search. Baby doesn't want to see Dogwood fucked or fucking anybody, male or female, except Baby, but all else is ok. Baby isn't particulary turned on by the thought of Dogwood giving a BJ to someone, but is willing to have fun in the moment. Good luck in your search. eyesonus

[webbguy]

The best I have ever had was to have the lady sit on her guys cock, facing his feet , and have her lay back while I am licking her clit! She went wild! And I also licked his balls while she watched, made her cum more than once, lol. facelick

[mf69_98]

Originally Posted by ronkaren

It would be a real turn on for me to see Ronny do it with another guy, but he gets the 'I'm not gay' thing going. When we talk about fantisies, he says that he would like to eat me while I was getting fucked, which he admits would mean eating the other man's cum, and licking his dick. He's even said he would suck his cock if I wanted him to, which I would like to see. I'd really like to watch someone fuck him. Do couples do this, or is this outside the lines?

There are those of us who are not gay, but into sucking other guys - we're called bi-sexual. I have done it in most of our swinging play and really enjoy getting and receiving oral (no anal) MM action.

[Fornafair]

Hello all, I'm a a bi guy who prefers women, but enjoys giving and getting head and anal on occasion. I have found it hard to meet a couple who want a 3way with a bi guy or woman who likes bi men. Most couples seem to want either a straight couple or a bi woman. Even a lot of bi women aren't interested in meeting bi guys. Judging from ads I've seen on various bi sites, there are a lot of bi men out there, many of whom are married or attached but not telling their spouse or partner.

I would definitely enjoy going down on a man while his partner watched or sat on his face or whatever turns both of them on. I can think of a lot of other enjoyable possibilities. All I can say to those guys reluctant to try it is just enjoy it. I did and am glad I didn't let the whole "gay thing" bother me. As for those women who want their man to try it, but he isn't sure, if he thinks it will really turn you on, who knows, that might do it for him.

[9167jay]

I think I would enjoy having another M come in to our place. Im not gay at all, but why not explore the possibilities of another dude? I have never had the chance to do it, but I would not think twice about it. The whole gay thing does not bother me at all. Infact I prefer to have gay or bi friends since they seem easier to get along with, and with most of them you can talk anything. If I ever get the chance to "fuck or suck the other guy in a MFM" I would do it. Not so sure my wife would be into it, but Im sure in the heat of the moment she would be all for it?!?

[Spacemanspiff19]

I hate the whole straight-Bi-Gay label. It seems to me that people should use a percentage if anything. Perhaps 0% for completely straight to 100% for completely gay. To be honest, I think that people on either end would be a little neurotic.

Am I Bi? No. Do I see men and think "damn, I want to have sex with him"? No. On the other hand, I have been in a MFM while I was on my back with my eyes closed getting a bj when I realized that there were two mouths at work. It raised an eyebrow for sure, but it felt good. Later, with the same couple, I was licking her clit while he was fucking her. With all the up and down motion I ended up hitting his shaft a bit. Again, it was all part of the experience. It is not something I persue and to be honest, I'm not sure how I would really feel about actively participating with the man for any length of time other than a grab or two or a bit of licking incidental to the whole experience.

I would guess that there are a lot of other men here that feel the same way. I would also imagine that while not not as open, there is a fair deal of brief oral between men during swinging (especially if one man is fucking the lady while the other man is licking her clit). Not so sure about anal between men. But there are definitely 50%'ers around as well as men that just want to give it a go to see how it is.

[sunnyflcpl]

Hey Spaceman, there is a scale, it's called the Kinsey Scale. You can get a very brief run-down on it at this link: http://www.lgbtcampus.org/resources/...sey_scale.html
We are both bi, and prefer to play with other bi couples, so this has not been a big issue with us, though we are rather new to swinging.
As for me, personally, if I were to find myself in a situation were I did not know how that person felt about it, I would ask first. This can be a very emotional issue for some, and I am certainly not out to shock or offend. I am strictly hands-off unless I know, and am very up front about it, to avoid being in that situation.
I find it interesting though, that a large number of ads list the guy as straight, yet they will answer our ad and talk about the guy being either bi or bi-curious. So I think there are likely to be a lot of guys out there that would like to play that way, and for whatever reason, won't normally admit it.


John (and Donna)

[NakedInSeattle]

We agree, Spacey. Labels suck. We like to use the terms "totally sensual" or "totally pleasurabe." The % thing has merit, though. Might try it. Thanks to all who have admitted what makes them happy.

[shiiek]

Once, while dringing with a friend and his girl friend we got into a game of truth or dare. She was the one to dare us to suck each other and we did. I also licked her while she was being fucked. We did about any thing she asked. After it was over, we where talking and she said that she had one more fanasty. She want her boy friend to do her while I did his ass. If they hadn't broke up shorly afer that (she move out of state) we would have most likely had done it. Both my friend and I enjoyed it.

[LKNcouple]

Kind of similar topic, I saw a porn movie that starred Jill Kelly. In once scene a guy finished off inside her then she scooted up and sat on his face.

Just on a long shot does anyone know the movie?

[PlayM8s]

Having enjoyed a few MFM's, I have enjoyed the view from under while 69'ing. In all cases, there is some M to M contact. Testicles resting on your nose and such. Its likely that when the top M pulls out, the bottom M will catch his cock on the face. Its been my experience, that the woman then sits up and you get to enjoy a smothering by a soaking wet pussy! Hey, its all for pleasure. Depending on the people, it can be very sensual. I have no problems with it!

Anyone who worries about M to M contact during a MFM shouldn't be playing!