Do you ever suck or fuck the other guy in a mfm?

[mjsocal]

I would love to watch him do it!

[bruncouple_nj]

We enjoy MFM the most because of attention Cher can get...in our 2nd one we played out one of her fantasies as our new friend was open to bi contact. after they both came the first time, and after some recovery he began to fuck her in spoon position and just like
Cher dreamed it, i went down on her while she sucked me and he fucked her...then his cock pops out and i slip it back into her and really enjoyed it...then his cock pops out and i give it a suck before pushing it back into her...she loved the tongue and cock action, i really enjoyed the eroticism and 'servitude' and he returned the favor later while cher was sitting on my face...we haven't had as much bi action since as most aren't really open to MM contact...at least not at first but it definitely is one or our most memorable times

[oc1234]

My wife and I have a close male friend we have MFM threesomes with. I guess it
is actually MMF threesomes since our male friend and I also play with each other
during the threesomes.

Part of this MM play consists of one of us fucking my wife while having his balls
rubbed or sucked by the other. My wife really gets turned by MM action so we do
oral on each other while she watches.

It does make it much more enjoyable when we are all free to play with each other
during the threesome.

[ballman123]

I can tell you that I am a male and I am constantly thinking about sucking a male and enjoying his cum. I personally think most women would be extremely turned on by watching their husband/partner sucking another man.

[CBYLW]

I agree, I think lt all about the lady. I have been playing with one couple for a couple of years now. I'm bi, the husband is passive. If the lady wants me to perform bi, I do. If not I do not even touch. Sometime we will go a couple of months without bi activity.
Other times it is frequent. What ever turns her on at the time is fine with me. It's just another tool to have sexy fun with. I love it all.

[az469]

when you are in a mfm ,its natural that will happen .
men love women on women.so why should there be a double stanard.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by gnc703

We're new on here but she just has to answer: YES! It is a big turn on to see 2 guys (or more) having sex with one another! I mean sucking and fucking and kissing and everything. As a bisexual woman, who believes as consenting adults, men and women should enjoy everything about themselves and other consenting adults. So what if my man should happen to lick/suck/fuck another man?? WOW! That just makes me even hotter and more wet!! Think about it guys: you just love to see two women get it on, don't you? Well, then why shouldn't some of us women love to see two men do the same? My hubby used to be the 'poster boy' for heterosexual men: until he let me show him the pleasures of bisexuality!! Why not?? Life is too short not to experience as much pleasure as you can milk from it- as long as everyone consents to the situation. And at least try everything at least once; if you don't like it, then don't do it again. But when you're too old to do anything except remember when, you won't have to wonder.....
Being bisexual doubles your pleasure!!

I agree you said it best, makes sense but I am not so certain about seeing it. If it somehow happened in the heat of things I wouldn't freak or anything but...

My man has been pressing a bit for a fmf and I get that guys love it, we do mfm but guy do not do guys, not certain how I'd like it or him either. Any way so far my hubby has not and I have not asked. I know it sounds weird but it doesn't seem very manly. I think it would change how I look at him... Anyone else get that?

I often earn when he is with other women, it also gives me good visuals to use when we make love and not using mirrors or live video.

So gals why would your man doing another man be such a thrill, I mean that our thing -sucking guys, I don't get it? And your man doing another guy anally, that’s also our thing. I may be able to see my man getting done anally simply because a guy would probably have better control, technique, and feel for it that I would with a strap on.

I'm open to listen please explain???

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by herpob

I know it sounds weird but it doesn't seem very manly. I think it would change how I look at him... Anyone else get that?

We think most men who want to experiment probably feel that way, and clearly some women do as well. Men are probably afraid of even bringing up the subject with their wives because they are worried about this type of reaction. In our case the Mrs. has stated that watching male gay porn in the past was a turn-on (don't ask why she was watching gay male porn... lol ). The Mr. is still not interested, however.

[cuminmd]

if the person is bi than yes to the ? if not i try not to get to close to him acidently bumping is ok. but if he is bi than its a free for all as who get to play the most with him

[mature nudist]

nothing wrong with sucking a guy, no anal but best in a mfm and always enjoyable, some look as it being gay but not true,it enjoying both sides and feeling free, 69 is great as playm8 said, and age has nothing to do with it, more enjoyable at our age thanks

[steve as is]

i came very close once to doing it maybe next time i can clean it up after he finishes my wife off so i can taste both there juices

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by mature nudist

nothing wrong with sucking a guy, no anal but best in a mfm and always enjoyable, some look as it being gay but not true,it enjoying both sides and feeling free, 69 is great as playm8 said, and age has nothing to do with it, more enjoyable at our age thanks

Just out of curiosity, if there is nothing gay about giving and getting a bj from a guy, just what exactly is gay?

I find it interesting that the male homosexuality stigma so strong that even in an anonymous forum, bisexual males deny attraction to the same sex.

[bellady]

Being Gay and Bi are very different. Gay men want to have relationships and love other men. Bi men just like the sex and there is nothing wrong with that. It is just most men are afraid of admiting that they would want sex from another guy.
My husband who is very masculine and the last one you would ever thing is gay, is Bi. We started swinging about 6 months ago and a few months into it he asked how I would feel if he had sex with a guy. I love watching and participating in it. We had the pleasure of having a MMF with another Bi guy and it was a great time had bi all! (pun intended)
He is very discreet about it and will only admit to being bi to other bi men. We have a couple of male swinging friends who are very homophopic and hubby would be devestated if they ever found out. It's just not something men do according to some.
These same men love to see women together, why the double standard?

I on the other hand am not that into women. I am what they call socially Bi. I will play with a women in the heat of the moment but it is not what I seek out to do.

So as a couple we are opposite of most who swing. It takes all kinds

[herpob]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Just out of curiosity, if there is nothing gay about giving and getting a bj from a guy, just what exactly is gay?

I find it interesting that the male homosexuality stigma so strong that even in an anonymous forum, bisexual males deny attraction to the same sex.

I have to say IT – come on people - Sex is Sex is Sex (not talking about making love but raw no strings or stupidity attached having fun SEX), if you take out the emotions, if you take out the opinions, if you take out the stereotypes, labels, stigmas, the preferences, and you simply love sex, honestly now wouldn’t you let ANYONE eat, suck, or f*** you however you/they wanted? Also in the heat of the moment all hot and bothered couldn’t ANYTHING be possible? I know I’ve done some things over time that would NOT have happened had I not been in the heat of the moment. As bella said…

I love the way bellady put it,”I am not that into women. I am what they call socially Bi. I will play with women in the heat of the moment but it is not what I seek out to do.”

DITTO!!!

I am VERY much into men, I have been involved group sex several times mostly men but on occasion women have been involved. Up till recently I never knew for certain that any ladies had ever messed with me, I am always focused on the men I am enjoying. I have never sought sex with a woman though my husband has repeatedly pressed me for fmfs. I considered it just for him but it didn’t ever happen until recently. Our first fmf worked out fine, yeh bodies’ touch, fingers go places, juices get swapped, mouths share things, but still little f/f even accidently occurred, HE had a blast and both we gals did as well. I figured it was only fair after all the mfms I have had. We’ve had a few more since July 4th and all has gone well.

Soooo let’s say a girl did eat me out while I’m sucking my man off, jerking two other’s off, and I orgasm like mad all over her face thoroughly enjoying it. Does that make ME bisexual? I think NOT! I am in no way attracted to other females, maybe their shoes or outfit, etc. Okay same goes for a guy in reverse with three ladies and it is a guy sucking him off, he enjoys it tremendously, cums All Over, because someone just gave him a professional blow job, gheez it DOES NOT make him bisexual.

I’ll take you a step further, you are in a 69, guy or girl, and the same sex slips up during your oral festivities and ravages you anally, orally then penetration. You ABSOLUTELY Love the orgasms you have only and you didn’t even know who to thank except for the person in the 69… Are you BI?

I’m telling you I have recently discovered and resolved myself to the fat that Sex is Sex is Sex, and if it feels goods, it feels good. I found out recently that I have been f***ed by several girls while my other end was overly occupied getting guys off. But I remember those nights and whoever did what they did felt GOOD and I came many many times. I AM NOT BI, though as bellady put it - I can go with the flow if something just sort of happens. There is no way I am not going to put a damper on the night by flat out refusing getting my pussy ravished in the heat of the moment, by anyone! I mean for goodness sakes we are swingers people, aren’t we here for the killer sex and the people we can experience it with?

Originally Posted by bellady

Being Gay and Bi are very different. Gay men want to have relationships and love other men. Bi men just like the sex and there is nothing wrong with that. It is just most men are afraid of admitting that they would want sex from another guy.
My husband who is very masculine and the last one you would ever thing is gay, is Bi. We started swinging about 6 months ago and a few months into it he asked how I would feel if he had sex with a guy. I love watching and participating in it. We had the pleasure of having a MMF with another Bi guy and it was a great time had bi all! (pun intended)
He is very discreet about it and will only admit to being bi to other bi men. We have a couple of male swinging friends who are very homophobic and hubby would be devastated if they ever found out. It's just not something men do according to some.
These same men love to see women together, why the double standard?

I on the other hand am not that into women. I am what they call socially Bi. I will play with a women in the heat of the moment but it is not what I seek out to do.

So as a couple we are opposite of most who swing. It takes all kinds

I have had threesomes where I had the guys’ lay butt to butt, legs over crossing,, penises together, rock hard, and double sucked them, both writhing, and grinding legs,. Butts, and rubbing cocks together in my mouth and hands, as cum leaked all over both of them from the other, then of course when they orgasmed mutual cum went everywhere mixing all over. Even taking the cum using it as a lube to do each of them anally right their. I have kissed guys with another’s cum in my mouth, swapped it, etc. I have rubbed different cum all over guys. NONE of them are bi or gay, though it does help. It is hot and sexy to me and they wanted everyone to enjoy, were hot and bothered, and went with the flow.

The best so far has happened a couple of times where I was getting DPed and one of the guys’ penises slipped out. The other guy helped out by stuffing it back in me – lol. Another one kept slipping out and the other guy not only stuffed it back in several times finally stuffing it in and holding it in place to help. It was GREAT! And none of them are bisexual or gay.

I’ve seen straight guys in a 69 with a guy’s wife, the guy cums, flops out on the face below, even seen 69 guys’ wives feed them the sloppy penis. They took it in stride and are not bisexual.

Over time I have seen several straight guys who love anal sex get done anally by the women at the party, in between eating ladies in the heat of things the men would beg for more anal action while getting their penises sucked, and get done anally by men. And they loved the feeling, the action, the orgasms, and they are not gay or bi. They are not into guys at all. It was in the heat of the moment and according to them it was some of the best anal sex they had ever had. I have also seen stacks or chains where people where poking everyone every where and some straight guys got done by guys. Everyone was all hot and bothered and no one freaked. I asked one of them about it later and he said he was cool with then but now that we were not all wild eyed and crazy he’d much rather let me do him than a guy. And he said he had some good orgasms from it. So there you have it.

Guys can be involved in sex where penises touch, get sucked together, handled by other guys, cum exchanged, even done anally, and NOT be Gay or Bisexual. Obviously if a guy is attracted to guys or desirous of doing guys in any manner then for certain he is at least bisexual. Getting done by a guy because it happened in the heat of things, ehhhh I’d not label the bloke. Sucking a guy is perhaps questionable but as I mentioned two paragraphs above, I’ve been a witness to it and the guys are straight!

Hope all that helps!

[Chicup]

Even taking the cum using it as a lube to do each of them anally right their.

even seen 69 guys’ wives feed them the sloppy penis.

and get done anally by men.

I’ve been a witness to it and the guys are straight!

I think we will have to agree to disagree on that one.