Do you ever suck or fuck the other guy in a mfm?

[emperor47]

Yes, I have enjoyed performing oral on a guy in a MFM situation. It was something that I wanted to try from the first. I got to do it in our first threesome, and have never looked back. While we never made it a requisite for our trysts, oddly enough, it just seemed to happen in most of our encounters. And it happened naturally, as it should.

I have not gotten to try anal with another guy, but I am not adverse to it. Have had other use fingers, dildos, vibes, etc., on me back there and it was over the top.

Does this make me gay, bi or any other label? No. It makes me a human who wants to give pleasure and receive pleasure based on the enjoyement of all involved. That is all the label that I desire.

[biornot]

I have agree with ever one.I tryed it when I was a kid one time with the boy down street.A year ago I tryed it in a MFM and injoyed it when ever it is OK with other guy I do and she like witch. I'm not gay it is part of MFM 3 some.

[montresor]

Always! If he isn't bi, my (F) partner and I aren't interested!

[RkeVaCpl]

Wouldnt be adverse to trying oral on a man, especially if he was pumping away at my wife and I was licking her clit.....

[vysper]

I hate the whole straight-Bi-Gay label. It seems to me that people should use a percentage if anything. Perhaps 0% for completely straight to 100% for completely gay. To be honest, I think that people on either end would be a little neurotic.

Yeah, labels definitely get in the way. Nobody has to be one thing or another to have a good time or enjoy one's self. Kwim? I think another point that should be made is that when a woman is with another woman or thinks about it, she doesn't automatically assume she is now a lesbian or even bi. I've been with a woman and I enjoy looking at women, but I don't know that I would label myself bi...not yet anyway What's amusing is that when men are approached with the idea of being with another man, they automatically associate it with being gay Why the extreme? It's very odd.

[TheGeek]

My wife and I are still newbies and haven't fully "hooked up" with anyone yet, but one of our mutual fantasies that came out when we were talking about swinging touches on this topic.

Y'see, we're not really interested in MFM at all - mainly because she's not as interested in other men as other women, but we'd both be turned on by a MMFF monkey-pile in which everyone played with everyone else. I imagine it's going to take a long while to fulfill this fantasy.

And yes, I'd happily suck or be sucked, fuck or be fucked. I've never even come close to having an actual sexual experience with another man - I don't find men attractive, only their dicks - but early in our marriage my wife fucked me with a strap-on, and boys -- I never MOANED during sex before that night.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by TheGeek

...we'd both be turned on by a MMFF monkey-pile in...

Monkeys in piles is a good thing

For us - we let the women be the connection. Mrs Spoo will play with the other woman and that can connect us all just fine.

MM stuff isn't of interest to me/us.

Spoomonkey

[2much]

Originally Posted by Spacemanspiff19

I hate the whole straight-Bi-Gay label. It seems to me that people should use a percentage if anything. Perhaps 0% for completely straight to 100% for completely gay. To be honest, I think that people on either end would be a little neurotic.

Am I Bi? No. Do I see men and think "damn, I want to have sex with him"? No. On the other hand, I have been in a MFM while I was on my back with my eyes closed getting a bj when I realized that there were two mouths at work. It raised an eyebrow for sure, but it felt good. Later, with the same couple, I was licking her clit while he was fucking her. With all the up and down motion I ended up hitting his shaft a bit. Again, it was all part of the experience. It is not something I persue and to be honest, I'm not sure how I would really feel about actively participating with the man for any length of time other than a grab or two or a bit of licking incidental to the whole experience.

I would guess that there are a lot of other men here that feel the same way. I would also imagine that while not not as open, there is a fair deal of brief oral between men during swinging (especially if one man is fucking the lady while the other man is licking her clit). Not so sure about anal between men. But there are definitely 50%'ers around as well as men that just want to give it a go to see how it is.

Spaceman - I don't think I could have put it any better myself; I am straight - which means I love women, am attracted only to women, want to have sex with women only. On the other hand, I like watching my hot wife take another man, I even appreciate & enjoy seeing another man's cock, provided it has a good appearance. And yes, in 3somes I have rubbed up against, touched & even in a crazy heated moment sucked another mans cock. Does this mean I am gay or bi? I am sure most people would say "uhh, yes" but I just don't see it that way. I don't look at guys and think "man, I want some of that" even when playing in mfm. If the moment says go, you go.

[CandTinLorainCo]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

For us - we let the women be the connection, and that can connect us all just fine.

MM stuff isn't of interest to me/us.

Spoomonkey

Dito

-C

[magnum]

Originally Posted by CandTinLorainCo

Dito

-C

I agree...NO!!! In a MFM situation, it is all about the woman...

Magnum

[gnc703]

We're new on here but she just has to answer: YES! It is a big turn on to see 2 guys (or more) having sex with one another! I mean sucking and fucking and kissing and everything. As a bisexual woman, who believes as consenting adults, men and women should enjoy everything about themselves and other consenting adults. So what if my man should happen to lick/suck/fuck another man?? WOW! That just makes me even hotter and more wet!! Think about it guys: you just love to see two women get it on, don't you? Well, then why shouldn't some of us women love to see two men do the same? My hubby used to be the 'poster boy' for heterosexual men: until he let me show him the pleasures of bisexuality!! Why not?? Life is too short not to experience as much pleasure as you can milk from it- as long as everyone consents to the situation. And at least try everything at least once; if you don't like it, then don't do it again. But when you're too old to do anything except remember when, you won't have to wonder.....
Being bisexual doubles your pleasure!!

[enigma69]

and lets not forget that being bisexual doubles the number of potential playmates out there too <EG>

[Sweet_Candy]

Originally Posted by gnc703

Think about it guys: you just love to see two women get it on, don't you?

Can't say two women pleasuring each other does anything for me. Now a foursome...thats another story. facelick

Sweet

[Dynamar]

Originally Posted by gnc703

We're new on here but she just has to answer: YES! It is a big turn on to see 2 guys (or more) having sex with one another! I mean sucking and fucking and kissing and everything. As a bisexual woman, who believes as consenting adults, men and women should enjoy everything about themselves and other consenting adults. So what if my man should happen to lick/suck/fuck another man?? WOW! That just makes me even hotter and more wet!! Think about it guys: you just love to see two women get it on, don't you? Well, then why shouldn't some of us women love to see two men do the same? My hubby used to be the 'poster boy' for heterosexual men: until he let me show him the pleasures of bisexuality!! Why not?? Life is too short not to experience as much pleasure as you can milk from it- as long as everyone consents to the situation. And at least try everything at least once; if you don't like it, then don't do it again. But when you're too old to do anything except remember when, you won't have to wonder.....
Being bisexual doubles your pleasure!!

gnc... I totally agree with this line of thinking!

Not to go all Femi-nazi or anything... but the double standard between how people view bi-girls and how they view bi-guys is something that occasionally gets under my skin. A majority of guys will say "Hell yeah!... bring on the girl-on-girl." But heaven help the guy whose dick brushes up against him. Somehow, methinks a goodly number of these same guys "doth protest too much."

For me, because I'm very much a "let's get naked, and get in a pile" kind of girl... I'd rather be with men who can at the very least be open in mind to mild bi-sexual activity. I don't think that's asking too much, but if it is... ok, see you later and have a nice life.

[sir_dragonfire]

[b][i] I think labels are some thing we put to much thought into. Technically speaking I'm bi. My wife is very turned on by bi-male sexuality & we both enjoy adding 3rd person, a bi-male for alot of fun for all! It can be difficult to find 3rd bi-male to play with.