Do you ever suck or fuck the other guy in a mfm?

[mysticon]

Damn, I just read through this whole thread; and it really turned me on I'd love a 3 way (MFM) with everyone free to stroke, lick; and suck everyone else- but no way my fiance would do it. I've expressed to him that two guys together is hot, and that I'd like to see him sucking a cock; but that got shot down with a big NO!!! . I can't even get him to do a MFM 3 way with me, because in his mind, just the fact that another guy is involved is "gay". I'm referring to a situation where both guys are straight, and only doing stuff to a woman; how in the hell is that "gay"? It's been a fantasy of mine for years, to do what's already been mentioned in this thread: to have one guy fucking me, while another eats me out; like I could be up on my knees and another guy could be under me eating me out- while another fucks me from behind. I can't wait to try that one

[habibalby]

Originally Posted by mysticon

Damn, I just read through this whole thread; and it really turned me on I'd love a 3 way (MFM) with everyone free to stroke, lick; and suck everyone else- but no way my fiance would do it. I've expressed to him that two guys together is hot, and that I'd like to see him sucking a cock; but that got shot down with a big NO!!! . I can't even get him to do a MFM 3 way with me, because in his mind, just the fact that another guy is involved is "gay". I'm referring to a situation where both guys are straight, and only doing stuff to a woman; how in the hell is that "gay"? It's been a fantasy of mine for years, to do what's already been mentioned in this thread: to have one guy fucking me, while another eats me out; like I could be up on my knees and another guy could be under me eating me out- while another fucks me from behind. I can't wait to try that one

it's a fantacy of mine and i have expressed it to my wife and my wife likes the idea very much.but fortunately, we are still fantasying 3some FMF, MMF fucking her hard and i'm doing her from behind, but not yet into the life style.

mysticon, while i'm reading your post, i really turned on

[mysticon]

Thanks Habi, glad my post turned you on do you think you and your wife will be taking the plunge into the lifestyle soon?

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by mysticon

Damn, I just read through this whole thread; and it really turned me on I'd love a 3 way (MFM) with everyone free to stroke, lick; and suck everyone else- but no way my fiance would do it. I've expressed to him that two guys together is hot, and that I'd like to see him sucking a cock; but that got shot down with a big NO!!! . I can't even get him to do a MFM 3 way with me, because in his mind, just the fact that another guy is involved is "gay". I'm referring to a situation where both guys are straight, and only doing stuff to a woman; how in the hell is that "gay"? It's been a fantasy of mine for years, to do what's already been mentioned in this thread: to have one guy fucking me, while another eats me out; like I could be up on my knees and another guy could be under me eating me out- while another fucks me from behind. I can't wait to try that one

Let me help you out a bit, it won't happen because its a bit gay.

Not the MFM part, but the whole guy goes down on you WHILE you get it from behind.

Shockingly straight men really don't wan another guys balls bouncing off their head while their face is a few millimeters from his penis.

[mysticon]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Let me help you out a bit, it won't happen because its a bit gay.

Not the MFM part, but the whole guy goes down on you WHILE you get it from behind.

Shockingly straight men really don't wan another guys balls bouncing off their head while their face is a few millimeters from his penis.

LOL @chicup. I realize that the logistics of having one guy fuck me, while another performed orally on me; would have to be worked out. I know that a straight guy doesn't want another's balls bouncing off their head, so we'd have to get into a position; where that wouldn't be an issue. It might take some doing, but I think it could be worked out

[habibalby]

Double post

[habibalby]

Originally Posted by mysticon

Thanks Habi, glad my post turned you on do you think you and your wife will be taking the plunge into the lifestyle soon?

Thanks for posting back off course we will, but not with Arab or with people from the same country as discreet is NO#1 for us then our lifestyle rules. We are planning to go out this year, we might try it while we are out, hope that will be a real turn on for both of us.

[funfiend69]

Well any time a guy licks your pussy while your getting fucked is pretty gay. I personally dont give a fuck, I wouldnt want some ones balls slapping around my forehead either.

This would be a lot better, have you (the lady) ride your guy reverse cowgirl and then the other guy can get at your clit. If the oral guy is careful he could possible avoid all contact with the guys cock... but still I dont see a guy doing that unless he was ok with contact happening.

I can understand where your man is coming from with that, but I think its unfair for the guy of a relationship to be all about getting two ladies but will never give the idea of a MFM 3way a chance. Its flat out selfish lol

Im a polyamorous person so I am completely fine with any lady I am with wanting to get fucked by another guy, and I love pleasing women so teaming up with another guy once in a while to fuck a ladies brains out is just good fun

[okcurious]

Okay, I have to admit that so far my wife and I haven't tried the LS. We are curious about it, but so far it's still relegated to fantasy. Having said that, I really don't have any problem with the idea of going down on a guy in the heat of the moment. It's weird, but things I would never consider under normal circumstances suddenly become a turn on in the heat of the moment, so I can definitely picture it happening. There isn't much I wouldn't be willing to try when I get turned on.

[jessicat78]

Jess and I have no issues with m/m (or any other combination) sexual activity! Makes for a much more interesting night if all partners are open!

[Lascivious L&L]

It doesn't matter how long I've been swinging...it still amazes me the fear some men have of being near another cock, being touched by a man or his balls or his cock. All of us guys have cocks...what is there to be afraid of?

My personal feeling is that any man who wouldn't suck a cock to please his woman is a coward. Many women are turned on by men sucking men. It seems such a small gift to offer the one you love. The one who has likely done at least as much to please you.

Is it fear you might actually enjoy it? I certainly enjoyed it the first time my mouth encircled a cock. Wow, a whole other landscape to sex! I am so glad I didn't go to my grave never having experienced such a simple and powerful sensual treat. And the first time a man came in my mouth, it was near a spiritual awakening in understanding my own spurting, to feel it firsthand from the other perspective. It's not about gay. It's about awareness, knowledge, experience, perspective. And taste.

Any man without the curiosity to at least try, taste a cock, taste this completely new perspective, is a man with heavy blinders on his sexuality. To even call it bi misses the point. It's omnisexual.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Lascivious L&L

Any man without the curiosity to at least try, taste a cock, taste this completely new perspective, is a man with heavy blinders on his sexuality. To even call it bi misses the point. It's omnisexual.

Any man without the curiosity to at least try, fuck a goat, fuck from this completely new perspective, is a man with heavy blinders on his sexuality. To call it bestiality misses the point. Its pansexual.

Let me splain for the 100th time. Both your statement and my parody of it hold equal attraction to me.

To put it into prose....

I could not would not, in a house.
I would not, could not, with a mouse.
I would not do it with a Fox.
I would not also like to suck cocks.
I would not blow them here or there.
I would not blow them anywhere.
I would not suck one or get schtupped.
I do not like them, Chicup.

[Lascivious L&L]

An interesting perspective to chose bestiality as the parody equivalent to sucking the cock of a member of your own species and sex. It very effectively highlights the fear I mentioned in my post. Thank you for providing such an effective and clear demonstration of culturally programmed sexual fear.

That fear is a fascinating demonstration of the level and instensity of cultural programming toward sexuality. We might assume that the sexual playfulness of those on a swinging board would include a basic and natural curiosity of playing with one's own sex. Yet it is clear that negative sexual programming extends deeply into this board.

Why some remain prisoners of these fears and others step beyond them is an interesting mystery. I certainly grew up thinking I'd never suck a cock, and yet with the gentle, loving help of a mate I found those fears had no potency once stepped beyond. I am so glad I let my curiosity taste life and sex.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Lascivious L&L

An interesting perspective to chose bestiality as the parody equivalent to sucking the cock of a member of your own species and sex. It very effectively highlights the fear I mentioned in my post. Thank you for providing such an effective and clear demonstration of culturally programmed sexual fear.

That fear is a fascinating demonstration of the level and instensity of cultural programming toward sexuality. We might assume that the sexual playfulness of those on a swinging board would include a basic and natural curiosity of playing with one's own sex. Yet it is clear that negative sexual programming extends deeply into this board.

Why some remain prisoners of these fears and others step beyond them is an interesting mystery. I certainly grew up thinking I'd never suck a cock, and yet with the gentle, loving help of a mate I found those fears had no potency once stepped beyond. I am so glad I let my curiosity taste life and sex.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Lascivious L&L

Why some remain prisoners of these fears and others step beyond them is an interesting mystery. I certainly grew up thinking I'd never suck a cock, and yet with the gentle, loving help of a mate I found those fears had no potency once stepped beyond. I am so glad I let my curiosity taste life and sex.

The fact that some folks don't care for the same things you do doesn't make your choices bad. There's no need to try to recruit them to try something they don't care for.

We choose to swing, however there are many, many couples that it couldn't work for, and we'd never tell them they were prisoners of their own fear. It's their choice, and we respect them for it (and actually encourage their monogamy).

I'm sure there is some sexual act that doesn't do it for you, that others find enjoyable. One thing that absolutely turns my stomach is the fad in porn movies for a woman to spit on a cock or pussy while performing oral. I guess there are those that enjoy that kind of thing, but I certainly don't feel like a prisoner of my fears for not liking it.

Bottom line: You like it? Good. Enjoy it. Don't worry about what others like or dislike. They'll be just fine.