How bi are you?

adventureUS2 · 01-28-2005, 04:16 PM

Alot of women and some men that swing claim to be bi sexual. The question is how bi sexual are they.

My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bi sexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner.

Me on the other hand call my self a situational bi sexual, for lack of a better term. Men do not turn me on, but my wifes enthusiasm to see two men haveing oral sex does turn me on. I have been known to recieve the oral pleasure(from a man) and the reaction from my wife really gets me off.

So the question is How bi sexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy?

northindycpl · 01-28-2005, 04:26 PM

I am situationally bi. It is fun to play with a girl, on occassion and while swinging, but I want a man. I would desperately miss all that men offer. I have had just FF experiences, and honestly, The lack of penis presence bothered me and made me long for it!

I could not see any type of emotional attachment (like partnering with) a woman, beyond that of of considerate friendship.

biblonde · 01-28-2005, 05:19 PM

I concider myself bi to very bi although I would never concider having a woman as a "partner" so to speak. I enjoy women very much..not just the sex but to look at and admire. I find the woman body very sexy and sexually attractive. I really love going to the mall and picking out the sexy ladies for each other to stare at and flirt with and tease. I really love the attention from the ladies also. I think I pick up on more women than hubby does and flirt with them when he isnt around so I am not doing this just to turn him on although that is an extra benifit!! As much as I love playing with women though , I NEED a man. I am not satisfied with just women. They are fun to get things going but when it comes down to it I need a man to get me over the edge!!

just my 2 cents!!

01-28-2005, 05:44 PM

I consider myself Bi, I enjoy being with a woman, touching her, sucking her nipples, etc. But I do not like to lick pussy. And I very much enjoy cock. So thats that.

Spoomonkey · 01-28-2005, 07:14 PM

I am not bi...

Or should I say I am "over my dead body" bi...

My wife is playfully bi - or adaptively playful. She will play with a woman, but only in a group situation. She doesn't have any interest in playing with just a woman.

But - she is really good at keeping the entire room entertained

Spoomonkey

biblonde · 01-28-2005, 07:19 PM

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But - she is really good at keeping the entire room entertained

Spoomonkey

from the looks of her pic I bet she is REAL entertaining

hfire269 · 01-28-2005, 07:53 PM

I am very bi. I love being with a women or a man. Being that I was in love with a women when my hubby and I got together I could deffently be with a women emotionally too. I love the taste of a women. The softness. I also love the taste and the strength of a man. Although as of lately I've been way more interested in women then men. I have one man dont think I could put up wiht another.. lol

Mrs Spoomonkey · 01-28-2005, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by biblonde

from the looks of her pic I bet she is REAL entertaining

Thank you

Mrs Spoomonkey

**two4youinswva** · 01-28-2005, 08:50 PM

Mrs two4you enjoys bi-play, but still has a stronger love of MF play.

Mr two4you enjoys watching the GG action, facelick but has no desire for MM activities.

looking2swing · 01-28-2005, 09:01 PM

I would consider myself bi. I love to touch a woman and have one touch me. But man do I love the cock!

xxoticangel · 01-29-2005, 11:50 AM

My wife is very bi in a swinging situation, loves the touch and taste of another woman and has had bi expierences with no males present but would never consider another woman for a long term emotional relationship. I am situationally bi and will trade oral with another male while swinging with my wife but would never consider a one-on-one with another guy.

jrw · 01-29-2005, 12:07 PM

I am sexually bi-sexual but have no desire for an emotional connection with a man.
I deeply enjoy the deep emotional connection I experience with my wife but have no desire or inclination to seek such a connection with another man or woman., and should she pass before me I will probably connect with another woman.

24play · 01-29-2005, 02:32 PM

Interesting thread,
Here in South Africa, when advertising on personal sites, one would easily classify the woman of the couple as being bi-curious, meaning, that she is bi in the swinging scene, not in her total pesonal sexual orientation (as in she could marry a male or a female)
So, if you call yourself totally bi - in our terms it means that you most probably have had a relationship with another of the same sex.

Therefore, I would classify myself as Bi-Curious, as I enjoy the ladies interaction but only when we are swinging and would never be able to have a relationship with a woman.

confunktion · 01-31-2005, 11:55 AM

The Mrs. is right-down-the-middle bi. Loves me, wants to be with me forever (although I still can't figure out why...), but needs to have equal doses of feminine fun. If that satisfies her needs and desires and makes her happy, I'm all for it.

Mr. Funk
Uniting our nation, one groove at a time...

DBL D · 01-31-2005, 02:07 PM

Fem D is only with women in swinging situations so far but I wouldn't have a problem with her being more bi in the real world; as in commenting on how another lady might be in the sack. She just isn't comfy with that aspect yet, if she ever will be.

When I see her interact with another woman I know she is doing it out of genuine desire. It makes me feel good to know that she can and will do that. I know that she will always have a big need for me in her life and all I can do is be as supportive of her curiousity as possible.

Male D

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01-28-2005, 04:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
adventureUS2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 159 Location: Elkton MD Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:adventurUs	How bi are you? Alot of women and some men that swing claim to be bi sexual. The question is how bi sexual are they. My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bi sexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner. Me on the other hand call my self a situational bi sexual, for lack of a better term. Men do not turn me on, but my wifes enthusiasm to see two men haveing oral sex does turn me on. I have been known to recieve the oral pleasure(from a man) and the reaction from my wife really gets me off. So the question is How bi sexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy? Last edited by adventureUS2 : 01-28-2005 at 07:57 PM.

01-28-2005, 04:26 PM	#2 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,424 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM Swing Lifestyle Name:northindycpl	Re: How bi are you? I am situationally bi. It is fun to play with a girl, on occassion and while swinging, but I want a man. I would desperately miss all that men offer. I have had just FF experiences, and honestly, The lack of penis presence bothered me and made me long for it! I could not see any type of emotional attachment (like partnering with) a woman, beyond that of of considerate friendship. __________________ Mrs. Indy

01-28-2005, 05:19 PM	#3 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918	Re: How bi are you? I concider myself bi to very bi although I would never concider having a woman as a "partner" so to speak. I enjoy women very much..not just the sex but to look at and admire. I find the woman body very sexy and sexually attractive. I really love going to the mall and picking out the sexy ladies for each other to stare at and flirt with and tease. I really love the attention from the ladies also. I think I pick up on more women than hubby does and flirt with them when he isnt around so I am not doing this just to turn him on although that is an extra benifit!! As much as I love playing with women though , I NEED a man. I am not satisfied with just women. They are fun to get things going but when it comes down to it I need a man to get me over the edge!! just my 2 cents!!

01-28-2005, 05:44 PM	#4 (permalink)
smileytattoo Posts: n/a	Re: How bi are you? I consider myself Bi, I enjoy being with a woman, touching her, sucking her nipples, etc. But I do not like to lick pussy. And I very much enjoy cock. So thats that.

01-28-2005, 07:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: How bi are you? I am not bi... Or should I say I am "over my dead body" bi... My wife is playfully bi - or adaptively playful. She will play with a woman, but only in a group situation. She doesn't have any interest in playing with just a woman. But - she is really good at keeping the entire room entertained Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis Last edited by Spoomonkey : 01-28-2005 at 07:21 PM.

01-28-2005, 07:53 PM	#7 (permalink)
hfire269 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 264 Location: Mount Wolf, PA Status: Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hfire269	Re: How bi are you? I am very bi. I love being with a women or a man. Being that I was in love with a women when my hubby and I got together I could deffently be with a women emotionally too. I love the taste of a women. The softness. I also love the taste and the strength of a man. Although as of lately I've been way more interested in women then men. I have one man dont think I could put up wiht another.. lol __________________ Blessed Be!

01-28-2005, 08:50 PM	#9 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,425 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads Blog Entries: 1	Re: How bi are you? Mrs two4you enjoys bi-play, but still has a stronger love of MF play. Mr two4you enjoys watching the GG action, facelick but has no desire for MM activities.

01-28-2005, 09:01 PM	#10 (permalink)
looking2swing Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 140 Location: Reno Status: happily married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:badswamper	Re: How bi are you? I would consider myself bi. I love to touch a woman and have one touch me. But man do I love the cock! __________________ Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

01-29-2005, 11:50 AM	#11 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 362 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxoticangel	Re: How bi are you? My wife is very bi in a swinging situation, loves the touch and taste of another woman and has had bi expierences with no males present but would never consider another woman for a long term emotional relationship. I am situationally bi and will trade oral with another male while swinging with my wife but would never consider a one-on-one with another guy. __________________ Multiple orgasms are proof that God is a woman.

01-29-2005, 12:07 PM	#12 (permalink)
jrw Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 41 Location: indianapolis indiana Status: m.male	Re: How bi are you? I am sexually bi-sexual but have no desire for an emotional connection with a man. I deeply enjoy the deep emotional connection I experience with my wife but have no desire or inclination to seek such a connection with another man or woman., and should she pass before me I will probably connect with another woman.

01-29-2005, 02:32 PM	#13 (permalink)
24play Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 21 Location: South Africa Status: Couple	Re: How bi are you? Interesting thread, Here in South Africa, when advertising on personal sites, one would easily classify the woman of the couple as being bi-curious, meaning, that she is bi in the swinging scene, not in her total pesonal sexual orientation (as in she could marry a male or a female) So, if you call yourself totally bi - in our terms it means that you most probably have had a relationship with another of the same sex. Therefore, I would classify myself as Bi-Curious, as I enjoy the ladies interaction but only when we are swinging and would never be able to have a relationship with a woman.

01-31-2005, 11:55 AM	#14 (permalink)
confunktion Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 358 Location: Wisconsin Status: Widower	Re: How bi are you? The Mrs. is right-down-the-middle bi. Loves me, wants to be with me forever (although I still can't figure out why...), but needs to have equal doses of feminine fun. If that satisfies her needs and desires and makes her happy, I'm all for it. Mr. Funk Uniting our nation, one groove at a time... __________________ The cool points are out the window, and I'm all twisted up in the game...

01-31-2005, 02:07 PM	#15 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: How bi are you? Fem D is only with women in swinging situations so far but I wouldn't have a problem with her being more bi in the real world; as in commenting on how another lady might be in the sack. She just isn't comfy with that aspect yet, if she ever will be. When I see her interact with another woman I know she is doing it out of genuine desire. It makes me feel good to know that she can and will do that. I know that she will always have a big need for me in her life and all I can do is be as supportive of her curiousity as possible. Male D __________________ "Just nod if you can hear me..." David Gilmour

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