How bi are you?

[cplapsry]

I'm the male partner of this couple and think I could be a situational bi sexual. Men don't turn me on but I have fantasized about helping her suck a guy facelick . I also would love to feel a man cum in me, like my wife, the only way would be anal so that is how it would have to be. How I would feel afterwards is a good question, I know AFTER a fantasized masturbation I am not as turned on with this senario as with others. :rollseyes

[Plumeria]

Interesting question. I've never thought about trying to "break it down" before.

I would say I'm sexually bi-sexual, in that I could be equally as sexual with a woman as with a man. Also, I could be sexual with a woman, without a man present, but I would only want a long-term, emotional relationship with a man. However, in a three-some type situation, having the men interact with each other (kissing, touching, etc.) would be a total turn-off for me. In fact, as far as a three-somes goes, I'd prefer MFF over MMF for that reason, I suppose.

[gsu22]

Like cplapsry said.....Same with me; I've wanted to give oral to another guy with his wife and have masterbated to this many times, however, afterwards I'm not nearly as turned on.....

[CliffandKeira]

I'm very much bi, hubby is "over my dead body bi"....I agree with our South Africa friend (sorry forgot to quote you) when it comes to the meaning of being bi-sexual. My highschool sweetheart was a girl...we were together 3 out of the 4 years we were in highschool.

Keira

[DBL D]

Keira..."...we were together 3 out of the 4 years we were in highschool."

That's kinda cool. What has happened with you two since you left H.S.?

Male D

[CliffandKeira]

Well, we broke up Sr year, remained friends....she wanted more "variety" out of high school. I went in the service right after graduation, met hubby a couple of years later, got married. We're still great friends...although I can't stand her taste in men.... ...other than that...everything's pretty good.

Keira

[DBL D]

OK, thanks. I didn't mean to get too personal but BiBlonde has had an effect on me.

Just wondered if you would still would like to be with her or not. We have a friend who we feel the same way about her taste in men. Still...she's our friend.

Male D

[CliffandKeira]

Would I like to be with her again? In a New York minute...she's great in bed; however her current b/f of 2 years, sees me as a threat. Needless to say we don't get to see each other much.

Keira

[DBL D]

Well, that's a shame. Funny how things turn out.

Thanks again.

Male D

[biblonde]

OK, thanks. I didn't mean to get too personal but BiBlonde has had an effect on me.

hey hey hey DBLD.....just because I am one of the noseyest people on earth...behave..he he he he

[SnozzberryBlu]

I am a real bi... sex, emotion, etc.. can fall in love either way... head to toe, women are incredibly beautiful to me.. .

Yet, I need that extra touch from a man. ... We have no problem being with couples where the woman is not interested in me... Now if we only wanted one set of swinging friends, that would be a problem lol.. but I do like the guys very much! And, once I have been with a woman I have a very deep need to be with a man. I just want it all I guess lol!

[JacobSky]

I am situationally bi. Another term that I have found on the net concerning bisexual categorizing is "hedonistic bisexual". Basically, I am by far predominantly attracted to women. I have had a couple of experiences with males with no women present. I do not intend to do that again. I am not emotionally attracted to males. I do find it easier to talk to males because I am not intimidated by them, and some women do intimidate me.

I have been debating on whether to openly state this or not. I do believe that there are lots of couples out there that I would click with that would not swing with a bi male, even though I'd only desire contact with the wife. It could make things tougher for me by metioning such things, but I'm all about honesty. I could be in completely str8 situations without making anyone feel uncomfortable.

Bi women really turn me on. GG action is so sexy. I do feel that a bi fem would make the best LTR partner for me, but I'll just have to wait and see.

[fantazielvr]

I saw a listing somewhere on the net for 'hedonistic bi-sexual'. It's definition was that the bi-sex was erotic and enjoyable to the participant(s) but not a total lifestyle regimen. That is what I call myself. I love to watch hubby with another woman and just want to jump in and have some fun. When not in a swinging situation, I don't think that much about being with a woman by myself unless it's the fantasy to surprise hubby when he gets home.

[tweedle]

Just have to stick my two-pence worth in...

I often wrestled with this question... Having enjoyed the hightened excitement stage in which nearly anything goes anywhere...

Bottom line. I have zero desire to kiss a guy. Period.

Isn't if funny that one could actually enjoy sucking another penis, yet find smooching somewhat repugnant !!!

Now, there's no end to the oral contact I enjoy with women (from head to toe)...

So, it's situational. I guess. At least in my case.

That's kind of how I figured I'm not what one might call "gay".

[lonesomedove341]

Originally Posted by adventureUS2

My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bi sexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner.

So the question is How bi sexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy?

I would have to say that I the female am totally bi..I have had relationships with both males and females. And I would have to say that it is the female that turns me on more than the male. Although dont get me wrong I like the guys too...

Amy