Question for the females who have experienced oral sex from both sexes.

[mwsw4ever]

My question is for BI-females or women who experienced another woman going down on her. Who ,males or females, you feel is the best at oral sex hands down,or should i say heads down facelick, and why?

[DBL D]

I'll Bite

You often will hear how a woman has such a softness about her and knows the right spots to hit. Pretty weak IMHO because your man should know all the "RIGHT" spots! A man can be just as sensitive towards a womans pleasure as a woman can be.

All I can say is that if a woman wants to be with a woman it is usually because of something besides how well she does oral.

Male D

[shygirl0305]

ok. I don't have as many experiences with women as I do men but so far my hat goes off to the men. I enjoy a woman's touch but so far it has not compared to that of a man's. Women have made me feel good but men make me melt.

~shygirl

[DBL D]

Hi Shy,

Well I think...

The experience of your partner and her desire for you will have a definite effect on how everything goes.

I think some of the girls may be just experimenting with bi and that may keep them from really getting into it, but I'm sure the heart is pounding during their first encounters even if all they do is pet each other!

Male D

[GeorgiaCouple]

Okay,
I had to get in on this one.... speaking from a bi-womans side...seeing as I am an open bi-woman.

The woman has a softer touch bit, is very true....

Let me see if I can explain this to your satisfication..... A bi-woman isnt in it just for how well a woman can go down on her.... for a bi-woman, there is a time when she wants the softness a woman can bring to intimacy.... Yes men can be all sensitive and soft but sorry not as soft as a woman can be. Women are sensual creatures from the get go....born that way..will always be that way....

For a bi-woman its being with a beautiful sensual creature just like herself... I personally enjoy when a man (my hubby) goes down on me simple because most of the time I like his strong tongue and when he uses his strong fingers.... but when with a woman, you want that soft sensual licking that only a woman can provide....

Just my two cents worth..hope this helps some.

[mixedcouple3426]

Wow!
I thought the women would be leading this poll by a landslide.
It's alot closer than I thought it would be.
It sounds like from the replies so far that it isn't so much about technique but more of a state of mind and being.True,men will never be women and I believe that as a man ,theres a realm that we just can't grasp.Are women better than men at cunninglingus?Probably for the most part.Can a man be just as good as a woman technique wise?I think so.I think one category is missing in this poll;Some men are just as good techniquely<--not sure that's a word though

[piggy]

This is a tough one to answer. I don't think that you can make a distinction by gender. I think it's really an individual thing. The very best, in my humble opinion, is Kermit

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

I voted for men hands down. I would have thought the women would be better but in my "very limited" exposure to being with women in our play I have found that is not the case. My first experience was with a woman of a couple and as Mr Spoo noted (him and the hubby watched us) it was a very tender and intimate exchange between the two of us. But since then I have yet to find a woman who does it as well as a man or does it gently
Honestly I have found this to be true in other areas out side of the lifestyle which is why I don't go to female doctors either, the ones I have gone to are not neccessarily as kind (bed side manner) or as gentle.

While I have fun when we play with couples and everyone (mostly the women since Mr Spoo isn't even remotely bi) mixing it up I still love men!! Especially Mr Spoo!!! What can I say . . . you guys are great and sometimes I think you just end up getting the rap so to speak

Mrs Spoomonkey

[funwthusok]

I thoroughly enjoy the feelings i get from oral sex with both man and woman and for much different reasons. Both sexes can hit the right spots , physically, but what separates the two is the bigest sensual organ in the body, the brain.
To me, this is what adds the flavour to things.. a woman approaches things with a different goal in mind than a man does, she is slow and deliberate while maintaining her soft and gentle nature... he is more direct and even when being gentle, he is firm.
And my brain changes the whole picture too. What i think about is different depending on whether it is a man or woman pleasing me. The "naughtyness" of being with a woman adds to the experience...
With all that said, and take it as you will, there is one person who has been able to please me COMPLETLY, and that is the MR.
Sorry ladies, but he's good.

the MRS.

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by piggy

I don't think that you can make a distinction by gender. I think it's really an individual thing.

Sheryl agrees with this. Regardless of gender, some individuals are more talented at cunnilingus than others. However, she does concede that being with a woman can be more exciting psychologically, probably because it doesn't happen as frequently for her.

[Vespertine]

I voted: "Can't tell the difference".

I don't think the sex of the giver makes that much of a difference. It all depends on their experience with oral, and how much they enjoy giving it.

I have found, that if someone (man or woman) really enjoys eating pussy- chances are they'll be very good at it.

[JustAskJulie]

I've never gotten off as easy with oral as I do with actual sex or manual stimulation, but overall when it comes down to it, there's really only been one woman that really got me off giving me oral. I don't know how much of that can be contributed to the fact that more often when recieving oral from a woman there were other people around watching than is likely when getting oral from a man. Maybe I need to do more research.

[rounder]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I've never gotten off as easy with oral as I do with actual sex or manual stimulation, but overall when it comes down to it, there's really only been one woman that really got me off giving me oral. I don't know how much of that can be contributed to the fact that more often when recieving oral from a woman there were other people around watching than is likely when getting oral from a man. Maybe I need to do more research.

I have wondered about that, too...do you think it makes a noticeable difference if the two females are alone together (as opposed to being on display for hubbies or others)? I remember several years ago on the Bob Berkewitz sex talk tv show that a wife called in saying that she had just had a threesome with husband & another woman...she said that she enjoyed the sex with the woman but was just too nervous to really let go with husband watching...she said whe wanted to experience it again & was considering getting together with the woman (a mutual friend of her & husband) alone. I have also read on this forum about husbands sometimes leaving the wives alone in the bedroom to play together. Anyone have thoughts on this? Does the "audience' factor make a huge difference...especially in first bisexual encounters?

[JustAskJulie]

The one time I did get off with another woman it was just the two of us, but that isn't the only time I've ever been alone with another woman (and those other times I didn't get off), so it's hard to say but I do think it probably affects it.

[mwsw4ever]

After posting the poll and question,the Mrs. told me her answer.She said most of the men we meet and myself are great,but she has to give the best experiences to being with women.She said that being with a woman is more intense from the feeling that she is doing something naughty. facelick