Question for the females who have experienced oral sex from both sexes.

[akamgaxoxo]

I can totally understand the whole woman are more tender thing, however I like the way my husband is strong with his tongue and hands and his general play when it comes down to it! I actually prefer this, he is gentle in his own right, but the woman was just tooooo gentle and well that left me wanting more. So I decided no more bi experiences and I'll stick with men...cuz I gotta say I LOVE 'EM! hahah facelick

[GeorgiaCouple]

Well I can agree with you on that respect, I love the way my husband does it, he is firm yet gentle, and very strong with his tongue. I to have also met women that can be to gentle, I have found that some women can even kiss to softly.... and it leaves something lacky. That's why when I play..hubby is always there to pick up any slack....LOL But for me, as a bi-woman, its not about how well the woman can do oral...its being with a soft, sensual woman that is the turn on...... When another woman is involved it is always with hubby there.... for back up...LOL Sometimes he just watches, but I know in the back of my mind....if she is lacking.. all i gotta do is point at him and he will fill in for sure....

[DBL D]

To akamgaxoxo:

That is why they call it Bicurious.

At least You went, You saw, You came (I hope).

There are, however, other more aggressive women out there, BTW! It probably isn't any different for a woman with a woman than with a man: you still may ask if you're doing it the way they like...or even give instructions.

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[GeorgiaCouple]

Yeah, communication is a big part of it...... sometimes a little encouragement goes along way..... I know I like to be given directions..that way I know im doing it just the way she likes it.....

[imsnowman]

Originally Posted by shygirl0305

ok. I don't have as many experiences with women as I do men but so far my hat goes off to the men. I enjoy a woman's touch but so far it has not compared to that of a man's. Women have made me feel good but men make me melt.

~shygirl

Dito from Mrs Imsnowman

[TwaKanPlay]

No one can give pleasure better than a man who KNOWS what you like. The audance thing would be a fator I think, as it is usually more privite with my partner and I and we are both more focused on the sex art.

[LaStrata]

I think just as there are some men better at it then others, there are also some women who are better at it than others as well. The best oral I recieved from a woman was from a lesbian - she was confident, experienced and knew what she wanted. Some bi females I've been with seem like they are just 'performing a show' for thier spouses rather then being really into it.

[energizerbunny]

Hands down, the women I've been with have been far better.

Well, I hate to say 'better' because I have met some very talented male mouths in my day. But there's definitely a different quality in the technique from most women, and I'm not sure that I can articulate it.

There are a few obvious differences that I can describe. With some (but definitely not all) men, it's apparent that they're down there with a specific goal or reason: because they think it's expected, to get you wet/aroused for intercourse, or to get you off. When most women go down, there's no drive toward a goal - it's simply to be enjoyed, and thoroughly. (This approach, of course, is more likely to get me to the end zone, ironically...)

Course I'm speaking as a 'hasbien' who dated lesbians...not sure if it would be different with a "sometimes-bi-but-really-straight" coupled woman or not.

[Barb & Jim]

I have been told by more than my share of woman that I'm 1 of the best when it comes to giving oral sex to a woman

[ready2play]

I think a woman knows what a woman likes. But my man does me best after many years of practice. The times we were ever with another couple it is usually me that gives oral to the woman. I have only have had it a couple of times by a woman, she did not seem very exprienced in the act.

[carandre]

Hi everybody! I'm Andrea, I have some bi sexual experience and my best experience with a woman was once that we were just the two of us in the bedroom, completely alone. I could let myself go and we practised oral sex which I would say was great,to give and receive.... And I think that a woman does it softer than a man, and I like it,though sometimes I also need the strength of a man. Kisses to everyone!!

[JacobSky]

This poll was a great idea. I love the responses. Ah, and the naughtyness factor one woman licking another does throw me over the top! I can't wait to see one woman rim another.