Don't Hate Me 'Cause I'm Straight

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by biblonde

spoo you are just to funny! i love reading your posts! lol

You're supposed to say I'm cute...

Can't you tell I'm fishing here???



Spoomonkey

PS - thanks for the kind words. I have to thank those who inspire me... My wife and Amber Bock...

[biblonde]

ohhh, sorry...you are just the cutest most adorable, charming person (monkey) on the board!

Is that better?? lol

[stoutgatte]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

So - I trust this thread will stay in the form of a friendly debate

So do I... Please...

The misconception above is that every man who goes to prison for any significant stay will have homosexual relations... That is simply not true. Some do by choice, some do by force, but not every man in a same-sex environment decides to "get a little gay".

True, but it goes either way, it proves that some 100% straight men are willing to do bi-sexual if no females are around, and that other 100% straight men will not...

Thanks for the example Greg & Sheryl. Have been thinking about it for a while, and really struggled to come up with a solid example. This is one...

Of course - just thinking about that makes a good shanking almost palatable...

You keep saying these little things that make me think: "Hmmmm... "

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by stoutgatte

True, but it goes either way, it proves that some 100% straight men are willing to do bi-sexual if no females are around, and that other 100% straight men will not...

Or does it...



Could it prove which men are REALLY 100% straight and which ones aren't? There is a saying that who you are is truly revealed in extreme circumstances...

Spoomonkey

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by biblonde

ohhh, sorry...you are just the cutest most adorable, charming person (monkey) on the board!

Is that better?? lol

That is ever so much better

You have made a monkey's day and you didn't have to pick one tick from my fur!

Spoomonkey

[leftcoastcouple]

I'm jumping in late here because I just discovered the thread, but since it's not been brought up, and at the risk of uttering the word "Kinsey" (talk about words likely to cause arguments!): I was taught years ago in college that sexual orientation isn't black and white, but that it exists on a continuum:

http://www.biresource.org/pamphlets/...aph.html#using

Under this theory, some people fall on one end ("100% straight," such as Spoomonkey), while others fall at the other (completely homosexual). Most of us, the theory goes, fall somewhere in the middle. Most of us are, to varying degrees, bisexual.

Studying this concept in a human sexuality class way back when caused me some stress, probably because, as I faced up to years later, I wasn't at the Spoo end, but somewhere closer to the middle than a typical college guy wants to admit to--to himself or anyone else. Now, however, it brings me comfort, with the belief that having occasional bisexual fantasies or feelings isn't "abnormal," as I was raised to believe.

This is a theory espoused by Kinsey, which of course to many is a red flag right off the bat. But based on my life experience and observing those around me, I think it's largely valid.

Hell, who'd have thought just a few years ago that women would be so relatively free to declare themselves bisexual? Maybe with that barrier broken down, society will continue to evolve, allowing men to be more honest in their sexual self-exploration and more free to declare when they discover that their orientation is "somewhere in the middle." At least I hope so.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by leftcoastcouple

I was taught years ago in college that sexual orientation isn't black and white, but that it exists on a continuum:

I completely agree with this... In fact, one could look at gender and say that there seems to be enough "blending" in some places (transgendered people, hemophradites (sp?), etc.) to suggest that gender itself is a continuum. I'd be willing to buy that.

But the point is - there has to be "extremes" for there to be a middle... I am the straight guy by which all bi men can measure themselves

The issue for me is when people insist that we are ALL in the middle somewhere. Frankly, I would think that this would be every bit as insulting to homosexuals and bisexuals as it is to those of us who are straight.

To be honest - I respect the courage of a bisexual male in the lifestyle - as much as I respect the courage of a homosexual male in the business world. That ain't easy... But as much as I respect it, I can't accept the idea that I am simply "not open" to my own bisexuality... I'm open to it - it just isn't there...

But that's okay... Monkey lovin' is illegal in 42 states...

Spoomonkey

[Mephisto]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

...But the point is - there has to be "extremes" for there to be a middle... I am the straight guy by which all bi men can measure themselves

Another reason for all of us Newbies to look up to Spoomonkey!!!

But that's okay... Monkey lovin' is illegal in 42 states...

Spoomonkey

Poor Spoo -- damned if he does, damned if he does

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by mrs good times

Uh Oh, Mrs. Spoo I think their on to us.

Good then they can start planning too




Mrs Spoomonkey

[Vespertine]

This thread reminds me of an old joke.


Go up to a male friend and ask them (you also have to be male):

"If you woke up tied to a tree with a condom hanging out of your ass would you tell someone or keep it to yourself?"

(They need to answer)

If they say that they would keep it to themself ask them if they want to go camping.

Sorry, I know its cheesy. The camping posts & the m/m thing made me do it.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

This thread reminds me of an old joke.

Camping is definitely getting a bum rap on this thread...

Spoomonkey

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Mephisto

Another reason for all of us Newbies to look up to Spoomonkey!!!

Of course, the original reason being that if you don't look up, I may fling poo from my tree...

Spoomonkey

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Of course, the original reason being that if you don't look up, I may fling poo from my tree...

Spoomonkey

Spoo -

Life would be so boring for you if you weren't a monkey.

You can get away with anything you lucky SOM.



LM

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Camping is definitely getting a bum rap on this thread...

Spoomonkey

That's kind of sad since one of my favorite scenes in a Ginger Lynn porn movie was two couples on a camping trip doing it around the fire

Mrs Spoomonkey

[good times]

It's been my experiance that if I make sure the Monkey gets his good eye on mrs. GT before me I don't have to worry about that poo flinging thing, because as soon as he see's her he's to busy "spanking the monkey" for that poo flinging business.