"WATCH OUT FOR HOME WRECKERS!"

[Gracy]

<img border="0" alt="[sad]" title="" src="graemlins/sad.gif" /> Hello everyone, my name is Gracy and I have been married a few months. we are both in our 30's and 40's. My husband introduced me to a couple he was with prior to us meeting years ago. We decided to swing together and the other wife appeared warm and sincere!I realized her interest in my husband increased more and more I felt it in my stomach especially when she did not congratulate us to our wedding. I was offended by this but overlooked it. After a few weeks I realized that she resented me and was jealous of me!!She and He had some serious ISSUES from their swinging life etc I was not aware of. She does not like her husband I said to my Hubby!!Long story short I refused to see them again, my husband has been caught e-mailing this woman etc, on the phone&gt;&gt;&gt;blah, blah, he admitted that he enjoys screwing her and wants me to reconsider. I said NO, I do not trust her she wants a new husband. I e-mailed her to say leave us alone!!!Her husband according to her is in favor of the three of them meeting. My husband says he will not swing without me however why do I believe that he is hooked on this black widow!!!PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!I am so heartbroken over this behind my back how should I go about it?My husband has accused me of trying to control him...Any advice??????????Love, Gracy

[kitty]

Hi Gracy, I don't always put my two cents in however this is crazy. Your feelings should mean something,and your husband should understand that. I't sad to think that someone in this lifestyle could be so rude. I think your reaction was the right one. Your in this lifestyle together(key word ) together! and when one of you says no the other should understand. End of story! just my two cents.. I'm sure it will workout itself out .. D.kitty

[kitty]

Hi Gracy, I don't always put my two cents in however this is crazy. Your feelings should mean something,and your husband should understand that. I't sad to think that someone in this lifestyle could be so rude. I think your reaction was the right one. Your in this lifestyle together(key word ) together! and when one of you says no the other should understand. End of story! just my two cents.. I'm sure it will workout itself out .. D.kitty

[L&K]

First thing Grace, if only have been married few months, I question why are you swinging? You two have not had time together by the sounds to know each other that well let alone bring others into your bedroom. My two cents would be that you two need to talk, and you need to try to think through what you are feeling. Your very upset right now and I know when I am upset I can not always think stright. As for the other couple I think you both need to step away from them and he should understand that for your sake for now anyway. the trust between the two of you is starting to break up and it is easy to loose but very hard to earn back. Talking to each other is the only way to deal with this with out others interfearing.

S.

Hope this helps you . this is a fear I think we all deal with male and female alike.

[FlyBiNiter]

Wow Gracy... I feel for ya.... my guy and I had a "close call" with a lady once. We never got to the actual playing part because she admitted (after leading ME on) that she was really interested in my man, and wanted to send me off with someone else. My guy did the RIGHT thing. He told her no thanks, sent her on her way, and stayed by my side. Your hubby should do the same.

In ANY situation where one of you is uncomfortable, your partner should be willing to walk away from the potential playmates, in favor of his/her loved one.

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[ciscosv]

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by FlyBiNiter:
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In ANY situation where one of you is uncomfortable, your partner should be willing to walk away from the potential playmates, in favor of his/her loved one.

<img border="0" alt="[evil]" title="" src="graemlins/devil.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Damn straight!