Stood up by a single female

[ktimephoenix]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

I noticed ya'll used texting as a way of talking to "her". Did ya'll ever get a chance to actually talk to her or something to confirm that it was actually a unicorn?

It sounds like someone playing games or may have some un-yet seen drama.

yep, texting was her way of communicating. when we setup and confirmed the meet that day, we called.

[Vjklander]

That is why we always set up first meetings at a place we like to eat. If they don't show up we have a nice meal and interesting conversation. Then go home and fuck. If they do show up we have a nice meal and interesting conversation. Maybe go to a hotel and fuck.
No biggie, just gotta learn to manage your expectations and everything works out in the end.

Vjk

[Edison Carter]

Ed here-- Please note, I wrote to speak over the phone -- one hour or less -- before the meeting time. Not a few hours before. And I do mean to speak with the person, not just a text message. Just my thoughts.

[sexychoclit]

Just from a courtesy standpoint, I feel that making another waste their time waiting for you is always unacceptable. In this modern age of technology there is no excuse to not let a person know that something has come up or to reschedule your meeting time.

As a UNICORN, I must say that I have never stood anyone up. I don't agree to meet with many people either. If I don't feel comfortable after chatting via e-mail or phone then I don't waste my time. It is better to be safe then sorry. I turned a couple down once and the next thing I knew I began receiving nasty-grams (rude e-mails) from them because they were pissed that rejected them. I blocked their profile on line and they opened a new account in order to send me more hate mail. That experience set in motion a lot of rules and regulations that I continue to live by today.

Bottom line, she should've called and she should've been ashamed about the fact that she didn't.

[theflamekasters]

we follow a pattern. I am the one who usually contacts or comunicates with the prospective cpls (we dont do singles) Usually i start with online chatting, then text and phone calls. If a cpl doesnt want to talk to me or the mrs. then we back off and make them come to us. If a couple makes an effort then we will meet them. ALso around here it is a small circle, so some one always know;s some one, and i do a fair amount of research about a cpl. \


Plus something that helped us is we have a few stock questions. THey mainly involve rules. That seems to give us a good idea of if we are compatiable with another cpl!!

[petra6998]

I agree with Julie that it could have been cold feet. I know I still get that feeling before we go meet someone or go to a social. But I have hubby to joke with about. Being a unicorn there is no one. Course our first time I had to almost drag hubby into the party. LOL

[ktimephoenix]

A very, very funny Byline (no pun intended) to this story. this girl was from a town about 4 hours from the city we live in. this weekend we were visiting another couple in their home town, a town not far from this "unicorn's" home town. we were out enjoying a band with the other couple, when lo and behold, the "unicorn" strides in the door of the pub we were at... what are the chances of that???

she caught mr p's eye first, and he asked Mrs P "is that the chick we were supposed to meet a few weeks ago?" Mrs P took a second look, and confirmed it was. we didn't pay her any more notice, until the man of the couple we were meeting with got up to go to the bar (the unicorn and her friends were seated directly behind him).

with him gone, she noticed us, the colour drained from her face, she wispered something to her friends, and they all RAN out of the bar, never to be seen for the rest of the night. Mrs P and I were on the floor laughing at how juvinile the reaction was, and thanking our stars that more didn't come of the intended meeting... we definately think we dodged a bullet there.

now in this town, the bar we were in is the only bar open after midnight according to our hosts (the incident happened at about 1am), so basically, the unicorn and her friends cut their night very short just to avoid us. we probably should be offended (we're surely not that bad ), but we just find it so amusing. our hosts did too. when we saw them the next day (they were very good hosts, ensuring we weren't left "bored" in their home town.), everyone would just erupt into laughter about it at random times.

So in short. Bullet dodged, lesson learnt. A friendly, down to earth, considerate, hospitable couple are worth spending time with. pretentious unicorns? forget it