Not very high-flying experience at Trapeze!

[tncinmd]

Originally Posted by incommunicado

I re-read your post and realized it was not an outright attack like some others, so I thought it deserved a polite response. If you note, by the quote you chose, I was simply being clear about our preference, without meaning insult to what we were not looking for. This is no different than saying "listen, we have nothing against, but just aren't attracted to... [insert ethnicity here]"

And the kinda not in Ken and Barbie range stems from neither of us being model tall, and me being a bit thinning up top. But my wife is very strikingly beautiful and sexy (not only by my admission, but because I can't keep men away from her). I am cute in features, and run 4-5 miles a day, 5-6 days a week, and do pilates, and we are both professional dance instructors who run our own company, so hard body isn't too far off the mark.

And, if you re-read my post, at no time were we looking to be "found attractive" by others. We just wanted to be surrounded by others while we had sex with each other. That eliminates the issue of "why should they choose us?"

So, in that we are definitely near the proper attractiveness range that we wished to cavort with (which is, of course, subjective) and because we were not expecting anyone to want us anymore than we wanted them, I think our expectations, or at least our desire for such, was not unrealistic.

Again, I appreciate your polite approach and hope I have answered your questions effectively.

Disagreement is never a reason to be rude. ANd if you just wanted to have sex with each other, looking at older, larger folks like us should been more of an inspirations, as in "We better have lots of sex now before we become like them". ....just a JOKE folks.

We seriously would never believe photos of folks at the club being all those young hardbody types. Advertisers have been known exaggerate now and then .

[incommunicado]

[QUOTE One thing about the "young 20-30 something hard bodies" that you were looking for..... their "strike zone" is probably from late teens to around 30. That means they're looking for girls who still have tight flat tummies and perky boobs and men that have 6-packs and full heads of hair and can go all night long. Even if your bodies are in really good shape, your hands, feet, skin, teeth, and libido are still in mid-life. "Early 40's" is only a few years younger than their parents.

O.K., I realize this is just going to be a case of he said/he said, but, we are really not just mid-lifers who are trying to dodge mid-life. We actually do look like we are in our late 20's (her) to early 30's (me), along with the in shape bodies. At least that's what we get from everyone who discovers our ages (and they aren't even trying to get us into bed!) that's skin, teeth, hands, feet, AND libido (O.K. our 2 year old son does a number on that)

Does it seem ironic to you that percentage-wise, the people you wanted to hook up with (20's-30's) were about the same age difference from you as the ones you considered "much older" (50's) and wanted to avoid?

Actually, no. Because we look and much more like 20-30 year olds, and relate to them much more closely than to the 50+ set. Even though it's only 10 years in the opposite direction, as you say, 50 plusers seem much more in the range of our parents age (early to mid-sixties) than the do ours. They also talk and act like they are old enough to be our parents. Again, I don't remember writing about actually seeking to hook up in my original note. We wanted to be in a room, full of hot people having sex, to fuel our fire and, hopefully, for us to fuel theirs. But, actually partnering with others wasn't what we were going for. MAYBE if we were looking for partners, we would have been more forgiving, because personality does enter into it for us if we actually want to have sex with people. But, since we were going for the view only, that never entered into the equation.

I still think your story was pretty funny. I wonder what was said (or done) that got that guy clocked?[/quote]

Not sure. Maybe the guy hit on him? The whole bi thing is standard amongst the women, but not so welcome amongst the men.

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by incommunicado

I still think your story was pretty funny. I wonder what was said (or done) that got that guy clocked?

Not sure. Maybe the guy hit on him? The whole bi thing is standard amongst the women, but not so welcome amongst the men.[/quote]Could be, but my gut tells me that the fat guy intruded into a space where he wasn't welcome, was told to back off, and retaliated. Generally, guys who are having sex are pretty mellow, guys who want to have sex but aren't are pretty aggresive. It's nature at work. Deer and dogs are the same way. "Let me in, or I'll blow your house down"

[incommunicado]

"Could be, but my gut tells me that the fat guy intruded into a space where he wasn't welcome, was told to back off, and retaliated. Generally, guys who are having sex are pretty mellow, guys who want to have sex but aren't are pretty aggresive. It's nature at work. Deer and dogs are the same way. "Let me in, or I'll blow your house down"

Very astute. I never would have thought of that. I wasn't too confident in my theory, but didn't really have anything to go on. The skinny guy was very mellow, despite the bruising and the larger guy was definitely incensed.

We'll, it made for a good story, and, it's like they say, "it's never fun until somebody loses an eye."

[it'sso]

I used to get a kick out of the gals at the clubs where I went who wanted to jump the bones of any guy who was slim and trim. I used to look pretty good with my clothes on when I was around 175 pounds with a 30" waist.
The shock on some of those "Ken doll" searchers faces when they spied my 4.5" cock was priceless.

[Chicup]

We are never disappointed at clubs because we always assume the crowd will be 50+ years old and over weight.

That way we can be pleasantly surprised if they are in fact in our age range In another decade+ I'm sure we will fit right in.

Don't take the attacks to hard, you should see what happens when you chime in on a diet thread here some times. This thread has reminded me though I need to really get serious on my diet again, I'm about 10-15 lbs outside of 'swing' range myself right now.