Outted myself in a most horrifying way...read on

[intuition897]

UPDATE:

Spoke with my friend tonight and there was no mention at all of the weirdness. Turns out she's prengant again, so she's got other things on her mind! I was nervous to call her up, but it turns out that it was business as usual. Talk about having a horseshoe up one's ass.

And in other news, the other friend I mentioned that I had lost (because she couldn't respect me for swinging) sent me an email! I was pretty surprised. She apologized and said she'd been acting like an ass, passing judgment on me when she had no business doing so. I didn't argue with her. I did forgive her, though. I'm not in the habit of allowing myself to be used or abused by people, but in this case it was simply that she didn't understand and she didn't know how to see past this part of me. She still doesn't agree with it, but I think she is now able to at least deal with it. That's all I wanted.

You know, maybe I should have a girls night in or something. Get the guys to take the kids to Grandma's place or something and invite them both over. Rent some movies, drink some wine...non-alcoholic wine for Ms. Prego, of course. I think I need something like that... Just as long as friend #1 can remember to shut up and not tell friend #2 about our "hobby". lol Do you suppose I set myself up for this shit or what??

[ncmd_couple]

Ituition,

I think is is wonderful that you can carry on with them as friends

S

[robel12550]

In all honesty, I haven't read the whole thread, but I did scan well all of Intuition's messages. Just don't have the time right now to catch everyone's messages. But a topic of being "outted" and when it's originated by "Intuition", it HAS TO BE READ.

For starters, sorry to hear this unfortunate situation occurred to you. Your comments over time have been very helpful and informative in many areas.

Please keep in mind that 2 minutes and 47 seconds is pretty much less time than one modern song. If your friend can't repeat a new song she hears word for word after hearing it ONCE, then you're clear. The bigger problem is that your conscience, for lack of a better word right now, is bothering you more. This will trip you up more than a 2 minute 47 second sound bite. If your friend acts like it's business as usual, you should be doing the same and move on.

By the way, (belated) holiday wishes to you and yours in whatever meanner you celebrate them.

[JustAskJulie]

Glad to hear things are working out. That's how you know your real friends, you may have issues from time to time but in the end you can agree to disagree and just drop certain subjects. I don't think you have to worry about hte one that knows saying anything to anyone else, and I think a girls night in is a great idea and could help you rebond and rebuild with both of them.