Stood Up

WesternSwing · 10-20-2006, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss

Three days later he writes me this email apologizing for leaving us hanging. I sent him one back saying "thanks for the apology, but it turns out we may not be compatible after all. I wish you all the best."

He sends one back saying "Just like a damn woman, always playing a game."

So my question, Did I play a game and not realize it? Should I feel bad about changing my mind?

No, he played a game. Plain and simple. He's a jerk, you did the right thing, and after that comment I would block him, too. And although I always try to take the high road, I would have a hard time not "warning" our close swinger friends about him (they can tell whoever they want

). Not only is he disrespectful of your time as a couple, he was disrespectful of women overall with that comment.

Mr. WS

NandTfromCA · 10-20-2006, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss

He sends one back saying "Just like a damn woman, always playing a game."

He is a fuck stick. I wonder if he would say that to you in person...with the Mr. standing there.

Mr.

LOL_OMG · 10-20-2006, 03:39 PM

JUST like a guy....giving up sex for, erm. No wait. I don't know any guys like that :p Or maybe I just don't wanna...

Seriously, Chicup is right. Some people are single for a reason.

Mrs

**rpu3** · 10-20-2006, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MrsVan

I would be more than willing to share MrVan as long as I can come and watch

As MrVan stated we have found some of the best MFM and MFF to be with couples as "good single guys" are hard to come by.

Wow, I know it's not a new idea, but one we should have considered (sharing, that is). Heck, I'll share RPU99 - I don't even need to watch, unless that's what you like!

(Hmmm, should probably warn the spousal unit though).

Rebecca

Tybee Swing · 10-20-2006, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Chicup

Some people are single for a reason.

Big Dito !!!

What a Neanderthal!! The "block" feature was just made for a guy like this one.

ShellyM · 10-21-2006, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by MrsVan

I would be more than willing to share MrVan as long as I can come and watch

As MrVan stated we have found some of the best MFM and MFF to be with couples as "good single guys" are hard to come by.

In time you will find a good single guy until then be patient and just have fun with couples in mixing it up if everyone agrees and is comfortable.. facelick

MrsVan

Woo-hoo!
I already said he needs to be cloned lol

ShellyM · 10-21-2006, 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by VanHlebar

You know...MrsVan might be willing to lend me out..all in the name of helping a fellow board member out I'm sure.

Oh crap...I forgot you wanted a "good" single guy

HEY, I didn't say anything about single men!
JK Van

ShellyM · 10-21-2006, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

A pre-game baseball party or sex?

LOL! When Jay read that he was like "is he crazy?" lol.
I don't know about the rest of the gents here, but I don't care what Jason is doing, nothing takes priority over sex. Well, only the children.
Other than them, if the panties hit the floor forget it. Ed McMahon could be at the damn door, and Jay would be "hold on a minute Ed, I'm gettin me some"
lol

Edison Carter · 10-27-2006, 03:57 PM

Edison here-- Hmmm ? Sex or hanging out drunk with my buddies ? Sorry, I'm getting laid. Plus, it's a threesome. Yet, you cannot fix stupid.

intuition897 · 10-27-2006, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss

He sends one back saying "Just like a damn woman, always playing a game."

All that tells me is that he has quite a bit of experience pissing women off and never learning why they got pissed off in the first place. Kinda says something about his IQ, don't it?

"Just like a woman", eh? Sounds more like he was the one who enjoyed the games...blowing off a perfectly good possible threesome so he can go to - what??? - a pre-game party where he'll drink half a keg and puke on his own shoes. Mmm-hmm. What a winner. :rollseyes

Hope you have better luck next time, MLK!

NoVACouple · 10-27-2006, 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss

...going through the whole "get really pretty" process. Hair done, nails done, shaved and trimmed properly, blah blah.

I wanted to scream "HELLO, are you really like that? You make plans with one person and then blow em off last minute when something better comes along?"

Is it me or was this just plain rude?

So my question, Did I play a game and not realize it? Should I feel bad about changing my mind?

1. It sounds like he missed-out on a great experience.

2. He was "just plain rude" and then made it clear that in addition he is a no-class cretin.

3. You did not play a game. Do not feel bad.

nice_cpl_n_bama · 10-27-2006, 11:44 PM

Wait a second. This guy thought going to a ball game was something better than spending an evening with a beautiful woman in the mood to play? Setting aside all the unbelievable rudeness of the little jerk, SOMEBODY needs to have his priorities examined.
Imagine, picking a BALLGAME over a beautiful, playful woman!

ShellyM · 10-28-2006, 08:38 AM

Every time I read this I laugh. You know, it makes me wonder if other women were there. Because, either this guy is crazy or just plain stupid. Jay would crawl on his knees on nails to make love to a hot, willing woman. I could call him from Austin, and he would probably hitchhike to get there lol.

bill&sabrina · 10-28-2006, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by nice_cpl_n_bama

Imagine, picking a BALLGAME over a beautiful, playful woman!

NO!!! I'm not going to imagine that, and you can't make me.

Isn't it a rule, that you can be as mean as you want to someone suffering from self induced stupidity?

bostonerotic · 05-08-2008, 08:28 PM

You are not serious are you? You were stood up plain and simple. The games were on the other side of the court.

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10-20-2006, 03:39 PM	#33 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Retired Mod Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,000 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: Well, I was wrong JUST like a guy....giving up sex for, erm. No wait. I don't know any guys like that :p Or maybe I just don't wanna... Seriously, Chicup is right. Some people are single for a reason. Mrs __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

10-27-2006, 03:57 PM	#39 (permalink)
Edison Carter Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 543 Location: Bloomington, Il Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:EdisonCarter Blog Entries: 1	Re: Well, I was wrong Edison here-- Hmmm ? Sex or hanging out drunk with my buddies ? Sorry, I'm getting laid. Plus, it's a threesome. Yet, you cannot fix stupid.

10-27-2006, 11:44 PM	#42 (permalink)
nice_cpl_n_bama Where's the party! Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 198 Location: Huntsville, AL Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:nice_cpl_n_bama	Re: Well, I was wrong Wait a second. This guy thought going to a ball game was something better than spending an evening with a beautiful woman in the mood to play? Setting aside all the unbelievable rudeness of the little jerk, SOMEBODY needs to have his priorities examined. Imagine, picking a BALLGAME over a beautiful, playful woman! __________________ FATAL ERROR: WITTY LINE NOT FOUND (A)bort, (R)etry, (F)ail

10-28-2006, 08:38 AM	#43 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat Swing Lifestyle Name:lost_j1	Re: Well, I was wrong Every time I read this I laugh. You know, it makes me wonder if other women were there. Because, either this guy is crazy or just plain stupid. Jay would crawl on his knees on nails to make love to a hot, willing woman. I could call him from Austin, and he would probably hitchhike to get there lol. __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

05-08-2008, 08:28 PM	#45 (permalink)
bostonerotic Registered User Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Massachusetts Status: Couple	Re: Well, I was wrong You are not serious are you? You were stood up plain and simple. The games were on the other side of the court.

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