The Scammers That prey on our lifestyle

[GotBatteries?]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Your husband may want to rethink his approach if he wants to meet real people.

Yup. Thas kinda why I was showing him what he was doing 'wrong'. He had no idea asking for pics or being graphic in chats was impolite. His argument was 'We are looking for people to have sex with? Can't we talk about sex with them?' which led to the its-not-what-you-say-so-much-as-how-you-say-it argument.

Happy Birthday!

[RANDJ4FUN]

Originally Posted by biblonde

I have to agree with MOONLIGHTKISS...up close and personal is the best. We have had some that within the first 5 minutes of talking want xxx pics and they get sent on their way. We usually assume they are single men collecting pics.

But since it is my birthday I think everyone should send me nakked pics to drool over..he he he just playin

I'd love to send you naked pics of me -- but instead of making you drool they might make you hurl!! LOL
It's a bitch gettin old!!

[Edison Carter]

Simply stated--the first time you get excuses, you stop contact and leave it in their court to contact you first. And, we rarely have people call us, we call them and only when both are available. We focus on their actions, not their words. Lastly, just as a style point, they can't ask for what they won't deliver on themselves. If they want 'couples' photos, they need to reciprocate in full. If not, move on, there's a game going on.

I'm very protective of Susan and dealing with frauds. And, while we have not met many couples, we've never broken an appointment.

'Hope' is not a security method.

[ShellyM]

Mine is with men who want pictures. That really ticks me off. We have our pics on sls, both public and private. We are more than HAPPY to extend our private pics to anyone we have talked to and believe are actually swingers, and this is because the pics are protected when on the sls site. But I have talked with 2 men recently on sls. They usually end up yahoo im'ing me. Then they start with the pictures. Can I see them? And I say yes, I'd be happy to give you access to our private pics. Then its "Well, we are free and can't see them. Can't you just send them via yahoo?" And then i have to say no, I'm sorry. We cannot. Both times they have become upset, one even angry. He said I'm "boring" lol. Alot of these people will trade these pics over the internet.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by biblonde

We had this happen a couple times but this is the best example....this "girl" had wrote us on SLS saying she traveled alot and we chatted a bit on yahoo first then I turned on the web cam "at "its" request"since they were checking to see if I was a girl also. Well this person kept requesting me to do things (which I said no to) that sounded more like a male than a female request. So finally I asked her to call me since her camera wasnt working. I gave "it" our home number since I was home at the time. That way she could prove she was actually a SHE. I really didnt believe it was a she. WELL....I was soooo right. The "IT" posted my name and phone number on some XXX chatt rooms promising all sorts of stuff to alot of men! they started calling my house at midnight and went on to the next morning. After the first one we thought maybe it was just a wrong number till my son answered the phone and them telling them that their mom had promised to do (insert graffic details)...my son looked at me and said "ummm....mom I think this is for you." It took about 2 minutes to get my number changed after I told the poor guy what I would do to him if we actually meet..he he he ..yes I can be cruel. Learned that I dont give out house number and if I think it is a guy....run dont look back!

Its scarey how some people are so sick. And this guy is probably educated and runs a company.

[WA_Cple]

We don't send anyone our x-rated photos unless we have already seen them naked and they have seen us naked.

We always tell everyone and that means EVERYONE that if they want to see us naked then lets meet and if we all agree and get along there will be plenty of naked to go around. Actually I say it a lot nicer then that... I say, "I only have G-rated photos because I prefer to show you my nudity in person".

Aren't I nice?



Mrs WA

[blinkey]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

... and this is because the pics are protected when on the sls site. ...

The picture "protection" on websites is superficial, like a bank with only three brick walls: looks secure, but isn't. Nothing will protect your pictures if you put them online. If it can be displayed on a monitor, it can equally be captured and saved to disk and re-distributed.

I'm not trying to be discouraging, but the myth of protection seems widespread, and it's a false sense of security. When posting pictures, keep in mind that they're not really secure, and decide if they really should be online.

Just to clairify, the private pics on SLS are not visible to people unless you grant access, and they cannot copy them until access is granted. Private pics are generally more protected than public ones because fewer people can see them, but they are still copyable for those whom you have granted access.