Any horror stories out there?

[OhioCouple]

First time meetings from HELL!!!


What was your absolute worst first time meet with another swing playmate(s)? (I have to assume everyone has had at least one..)

For us it was at a restaurant that we had pre-arranged to meet with another couple. We had exchanged pictures so we would be able to recognize each other. LOL....

We arrived 15 minutes early and took a table near the door in the lounge of the dinner club we were to meet at. About 40 minutes later and 50-60 couples later, a couple arrives looking lost and nothing like the pictures we had seen of them, so we did not think they were the couple we were to meet. Gene and I decided to order an appetizer and then head home as we had traveled over an hour to meet with them. (We were hungry) After another 10 or so minutes they recognized us and came jollying over. Not only did they not look lilke their pictures, they reeked so heavily of conflicting colognes that it was nauseating. I mean EXTEMELY NAUSEATING!

Being the "OVERLY" polite half of the family..(my husband, I'm not as polite as he is in situations like this) we all proceeded to the main dining room for dinner. Within a 1/2 hour I had the headache from hell and Gene's eyes were watering from the stench of the cologne. In addition the only thing they wanted to talk about was the swingers site that we had met on, not discretely....VERY LOUDLY!!! I think everyone would have learned our life history if we had stayed for dessert.

Anyway, We politley explained to them I was getting a migrane headache (This was true too) and we ended the dinner very quickly.

Any other horror stories out there?

[dave_susie2001]

The first three couples that we met were all “horror stories.” The first one, we met for dinner. They had driven over an hour to get to the restaurant while we had only driven 5 minutes. We thought we were very specific in why we were meeting…to get to know each other to see if we were compatible to go any further, and to enjoy dinner. We got to the restaurant early and ordered a drink…they came in…didn’t even take off their coats, and proceeded to tell us what room they were staying in at the hotel…that they would be waiting for us there…and that they would leave the door unlocked because they would be too “busy” to answer the door when we knocked.

The male half of the second couple turned out to be a stalker with serious problems.

The third couple we met was actually the first couple we swung with. Our first meeting was actually very pleasurable and we all enjoyed each other’s company. The third meeting, we actually got naked and played with each other. The disaster came in the middle of everything…when I looked over at my wife and had a huge grin on my face. I was just enjoying watching her getting it from another man. She saw me grinning, and broke out in laughter. Well, the other guy thought she was laughing at him…and he lost his erection. He was unable to get it back and the night ended in embarrassed good-bys.

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by dave_susie2001
He was unable to get it back and the night ended in embarrassed good-bys.

I have to ask....did you ever see or talk with them again?


Lori

[LIZA]

At Freedom Acres, our 3rd and last visit

Met an attractive couple in the group room, just the four of us. The couple was "playing'' with me. Husband just about pulled my nipples of, wife was ramming her long acrylic nails in me, twisting and clawing.................OUCH! Worse than anyone I have ever been with, even when I was a teenager.

I TOLD the husband not to fuck me but he did anyway, I was actually struggling to get away, at the same time the wife started blowing my husband and rammed 2 of those deadly fingers up his butt.

I am the bolder of us two, I wriggled out from under the husband and left the room, my husband followed a minute later. We were both alternating laughing and almost crying all the way home. I had bruises on my boobs for a week. Its a wonder we ever swung again!

[dave_susie2001]

Originally posted by OhioCouple
I have to ask....did you ever see or talk with them again?


Lori

Yep Lori, sure did. That was over 2 years ago, and we've been with them several times since. This "horror story" was also our lesson in learning how to communicate with couples.

In fact, they were over to our house just last weekend...a good time was had by all.

LIZA it is a wonder you even swang again..that was horrible. We have had a good share of not so great meetings. We have not had horrors from hell yet "7 years"....I hope to avoid a horror story. I would love to hear others stories. This is not a horror but, was a bad meeting...... We drove 2 hours to meet two couples. One couple we had been chatting with for 2 months..the other was only friends of the couple we chatted with. The couple we chatted with arrived 45 mins late grrrrrr. We had to sit there with their friends that we knew very little about this was suposta be a group meeting. After the couple we knew arrived and we all 6 got a room and settled in...our friends said they had to leave to pick up there son from a baseball game
...they traveled over an hour to get to the meeting place and left their kid at a ball game what? They said they would be back we stayed four hours with these people we knew nothing about. We had to split the room cost 35 dollars with this other couple we did not know and did not care for because our friends bailed out b 4 paying. It was just to odd and stressful no one played and the couple we did not know stayed in the room we went home 2 hour drive. We felt like the people we had chatted with for 2 months just dumped us on their friends they knew and had played with the couple we got dumped on. It was weird we don't speak to any of them now The people we had chatted with left us a message that on their way home from getting the kid the car was running bad. We and the other couple felt used..the other couple had an adult daughter and we agreed it would be to weird to play together b cause of our ages and theirs.

[J & K]

This one was from a past post we did sometime back---I just copied and pasted it here dealing with a horror story. Here it is:

Our first experience was with some new friends we met at our first time swing club experience. It was more of a soft swing event since we haven't had a full swap yet. I hope i can get it all in here. It is a little long because it is detailed. So here it goes:

We told this cpl that we will start slow and get naked doing some soft swing stuff. We figure hot tub and full body massages would be great to learn about being naked for the first time with another cpl. We both stressed to them there would be no full swap going on. They said they understood.

We all got naked in the hot tub and did some touching and kissing. It was ok. I suggested we go to the bedroom and do the full body massages---The other cpl insisted the lights be off with 2 candles on (the other lady has a body complex). K to give one first and me do the same for the lady. Then we switch.

K's massage went ok, but she said he don't give good ones and all he could do was whisper in her ear was he could cum any minute now because he is so turned on. That was turning her off a bit because she wanted to feel no pressure of sexual intercourse.

My massage was a horror story. The lady gave a great massage--too good of one to relax me---then she spread my ass cheeks apart and did the royal rim job on me. That wasn't bad at all, but it took me by surprize. Then she thought it would be great to shove her finger up my ass in a sudden jamming way. She had long fingernails----ouch---did i jump and sqeeze my ass cheek real tight. She went back to rubbing me again and tried to jam the finger up my ass again. I didn't like that sudden pain so I turned around. She notice I was limp and asked me what would turn me on---by then I am turned off of course. I told her just to keep rubbing my body. My wife and I had an agreement not to have oral sex done on us which we should of told them up front, but telling them massages only we felt was good enough. So anyways---the lady started to kiss around my groin and putting her hand on my cock. There was no response of Jr. since in my mind I had an aggreement with the wife of no oral sex. So she was kissing my balls and asked me again what would turn me on. I told her that rubbing her body while she is on her back would do it. So I started to do that and the room was very hot in temp. I was sweating up a storm and some of it landed on her. My wife was taking a break and was talking to the other lady while I rubbed. Well--the sweat made this girl go weird. She was saying how yucky it was that I was sweating and to go get a towel and dry off. So I did that and she started to rub me again and the wife went back to get her massage. Next thing I know this lady is kissing on my balls and starts to inhale my left nut. She was gental at first then notice i was still limp. She ask if everything is ok--I didn't want to tell her no because my ass was still in pain. I said everything is good. She went back to my nut doing the same thing kissing it---then all of a sudden I felt a very painful feeling from my left nut---she bit it hard. She was mad. I gave a loud shout which my wife thought i was enjoying something.

The other man asked my wife how far are we going to go. So she asked and I told her of our agreement---it was the right answer for the wife. Well then the other lady got very mad so we decided it be best to leave. We told them we had to leave. The other lady got mad and started the "it's all me" complex. "I'm too fat, too ugly, any man would get it up for me, what is your problem, your not a man". I felt like 1 inch tall.

So we left and talked about it on the way home. I was pissed off because of her comments. I told the wife I don't want to see them again. The next day the other lady called and said she wanted to "F_ck" me real bad and was disappointed. We saw them at the club one time later, but ignored them pretty much---they got the hint. We see her now and then and she ask why we never call. We just say too busy.

We hope our next one is better. Sorry about the book folks!!!


-J & K

[CanadianCouple]

Originally posted by OhioCouple
In addition the only thing they wanted to talk about was the swingers site that we had met on, not discretely....VERY LOUDLY!!! I think everyone would have learned our life history if we had stayed for dessert.

We've run into this as well. It's difficult to find a suitable location where you can talk discreetly without resorting to whispering, yet public enough so four strangers can feel reasonably comfortable with each other. I have no doubt there have been occasions when people sitting fairly close in an eatery have clued into what the four of us were talking about.

Dan

[CanadianCouple]

Originally posted by LIZA
At Freedom Acres, our 3rd and last visit

Met an attractive couple in the group room, just the four of us. The couple was "playing'' with me. Husband just about pulled my nipples of, wife was ramming her long acrylic nails in me, twisting and clawing.................OUCH! Worse than anyone I have ever been with, even when I was a teenager.

I TOLD the husband not to fuck me but he did anyway, I was actually struggling to get away, at the same time the wife started blowing my husband and rammed 2 of those deadly fingers up his butt.

I am the bolder of us two, I wriggled out from under the husband and left the room, my husband followed a minute later. We were both alternating laughing and almost crying all the way home. I had bruises on my boobs for a week. Its a wonder we ever swung again!

Liza??? Where the heck have you been??

Dan

[bi_femcplindy]

Our first meeting as we decided to jump into the swinging life was a complete horror. We had exchanged pics and talked via the net to this couple for a few months and decided to meet them. We drove for about an hour. When we arrived at the pre-arranged meeting place they pulled in behind us. They had told us what they would be driving so we knew this was them but when they got out of the truck it wasn't the same peoiple we had seen in the pics. We went into the restaurant and were waiting to be seated when they sugested we just go to a hotel. This was not a do thing for us as we wanted to talk a bit first. We ordered and were talking but they kept bringing up the hotel. We did finally go to the hotel with them only to find out that the female half was not really bi as they had told us before and she told us how sick that was. This was our first experience and we started this to find other bi females. Needless to say this night ended ubruptly and almost made us leave swinging permanently. Fortunately we tried again a few months later and have had fun since.

[SnsualPrsuasion]

Long story shortened:

With a couple, spent MUCH time together. Movies, dinner, all that, might as well have been dating. After all this time spent together, one evening in bed, she calls her SO by Mr. Snsual's name. (Not during an intimate moment, but on the verge of sleep) The S*** hit the fan (He was totally jealous) , after much talk on my part (I'm a Libra, smoothing things out is in my nature) things were all right. So the guy SAID... He said everything was cool, we'd still get together for regular fun & lifestyle fun. They seemed to have a GREAT sense of humor... for an ice breaker, the next time we go over, I make name tags so we can all keep things straight. HAHA they laughed, it was a joke for like five minutes, we took them off went on with a tv night & it was cool. Next time we get together, I make a joke about his lawn furniture & this guy goes ballistic & starts screaming at me & hubby, telling us that he didn't appreciate our sarcasm, etc... (Mind you, they knew how we were for a month before this bedroom incident! Knew we were always joking & even joked back w/us!) Anyway, they picked this fight outside for their neighborhood to witness, & proceeded to tell us they hadn't appreciated the name tag thing. Ok, some ppl might find it funnier than others, we understand that. But the public humiliation thing was WAY overboard. We think the guy was just too chicken to say he was uncomfortable with the name thing, and that was his excuse for an out instead of being a man about it & discussing it with us. My point.... have any of you had anything happen like this that was totally unexpected? How'd you deal with it? Did it make you want to quit the lifestyle? Thanks!!!
Mrs. Snsual

[happycampersfor]

Our Worse Expierence Wa With A Couple We Met At A Club One Night, Everything Seemed Great Till We Got Back To Our Room, And Sat Down For A Drink, Before We Could Even Think About It The Guy Was Naked And Pawing My Wife And Trying To Fource Himself On Her. When We Got Him To Stop; We Realized He Only Wanted To Meet To See If He Could Have Sex With Another Wonan Without Cncern For Her Feelings

[b&J69]

We've had a few..............
One time, we were at our favorite local on premise club and met a couple we knew very well. She seemed kind of "not there" but ok. He was raring to go. By the time we found a room and ducked into it, she was pretty blotto. Ms B&J and he were getting into things just fine. She seemed like she did not really want to be there. Not really into it. I am a very easy going and respectful person, probably to a fault but that's another story. At any rate her and I were kind of fooling around, trying to get into it and she was not into it no matter how much she tried to fool me, Ms B&J looked over at me and I shook my head no go. They stoped and then the Ms of the other couple started crying.
Seems they bailed from a family occasion under some pressure of the Mr of the other couple and they just didn't have things all sorted out. I stayed with her while my Ms took the Mr to calm down and get them to just chil, go home and sort all out. They are actually experienced lifestylers and were just going through a tough time.
But to have a very attractive lady seem not interested, then start crying is not what one would call an ego booster.

Had another one, couple over the house. Ms B&J and he go into the next room. He enjoys being with other women, but does get jealous sometimes, so the seperate room thing helps him. The Ms and he go at it and finish. I some times tend to go on and on like the energizer bunny and this night was one of them. After a while, he comes in where we are, very not happy and tells her to get up, we're leaving. She says we're about done, please let us finish. He drags her up and they get into a bit of a spat. That ends when he pushes her down in front of both of us in the middle of our living room. That was one tense evening.
Yes, we've had a few horror stories...

[Carol_Danny]

Many years ago, some friends of ours had a house party. Most of the people were the good old regulars, but there was one new couple who had recently joined our off-premises club. There were around 10 couples total. I guess the new couple had a personal rule of no intercourse, that of course, none of us knew about.

To make a long story short, Carol was giving this new guy head on the floor, when he looked over and saw one of the other guys penetrating his wife. He flipped out, and actually threw Carol off him which caused her to hit her head on the corner of a coffee table opening a gash. The other guy was on top of his wife, and this nut, without warning, kicks him in the head then grabs him by the hair and pulls him off his wife. He started punching the guy in the face! I, along with another guy, grab this nutcase and pull him off. He is just flipping out and elbows me in the nose, breaking it (again!). Unfortunately for him, I had been a boxer for many, many years, and I was still training (though no longer competing). I hit him once in the stomach followed by left cross to the head, and he went right down. The entire episode last about one minute.

Now we have 20 naked people in a living room. Carol is bleeding and crying. The other guy is bleeding and dazed. I have a bleeding and broken nose, and this nut is out cold on the floor! So much for a fun night together! We didn't call the police, but got the guy dressed once he came to, and out of the house. Never did see them again

That one makes all our other "Horror Stories" seem mild.

-- Danny

[sailships]

Newbie here...
We met a GREAT couple last night just for dinner and hope to see them again soon, hopefully for some play as well.

Here's my question...
For the first time, was it ever scary/traumatic/difficult etc. from seeing your SO getting it from someone else?