Hurting and Confused - Male in threesome forced anal

[L&R]

{ L here } Sorry to post twice on this, is that Ok? When R and I first read this, it scared the hell out of me, and R went into (combat mode ) he really takes his "job" as protector very serious, and well his post wasn't ment to hurt your husband's feelings...it was a bit harsh. We haven't started swinging together yet, but R tried to reassure me it would never happen on "his watch", but then I reminded him of something he told me about him and his ex-, how there was the one particular single male that would sometimes "sleep over". R loves to cook and he told me he would sometimes get up and start breakfast for all. I told him 'see' what happens if while you're in the kitchen..this guy tries something with me. R just got a blank look, and said...We would never invite a "stranger" into our home. That's what really got both of us very scared about your situation........THIS PIG KNOWS WHERE YOU LIVE! HE VIOLATED YOU IN YOUR OWN DAMN HOME!
R says a lot of couples feel safer more confortable in their own homes, but has swinging changed that much......what happend to only meeting new partners at a club or motel....and waiting until they "earn" the trust before bringing them into your home. R says that used to be a pivotal moment in a couple/single male's relationship....when Hubby hands him the Address and invites him over for a barbeque to meet other "playmates". We are really sorry this happened to you, and hope there's no hard feelings for R 's remarks. The pressure not to have spilled this jerk-off's blood on your carpet and cause a big public scene is really amazing your hubby controlled himself as well as he did. I'm going to try to link a song here ...dedicated to the two of you. Love L.
http://home.ripway.com/2005-2/256603/DedicatedSong.mp3

[sloweasyfeeling]

This guy needs an ass whipping that he will remember. One of the off limits between us and others is her ass is mine. I would rip his head off for that. You need not feel bad about yourself. As we all know the world are full of asses like him.