Is it okay to ejaculate on a woman's body (with her consent) at a swingers club?

We've been to a few clubs now and have a somewhat awkward question. I really haven't noticed too many men pulling out of the women when they're cumming. Is it acceptable to ejaculate ON the woman in a club (especially with others close by and/or watching) or is it expected that one ejaculate either inside her or in a condom? Naturally the location of ejaculation is first discussed with the woman involved prior to the act. If shes ok with cumming ON her is it proper club etiquette to do so? Weird question, huh?

If people were watching, I don't think I'd necessarily like them to watch that, despite the fact I like to have cum on me, it would seem degrading with someone else watching...seems strange, I know.

As an aside, some posts make me go "mmm, never thought of that before. Good one!!

I have definitely been in group situations and watched friends come on girls' backs at the club in an open area. I thought it was hot. My husband has come all over me, but I'm not sure that's ever happened in an open area of the club. Personally, I don't think it's degrading, and wouldn't mind someone watching it.

I think the people playing should do what they want. The watchers don't get a say in the matter.

I haven't had it happen with swing partners because we use condoms, it seems like it might be inconvenient to pull out, yank the condom off and then come on my back or chest. The times I've seen it, it was friends who play bareback.

I did have a guy friend tell me someone told him he could come on her face. He was so excited he came twice the usual amount. Evidently she wasn't thrilled by that. This was at a club also.

I failed to mention that the it's my wife that I've ejaculated on and no one else. My wife loves it. Just wondering what others who may be watching think.

I failed to mention that the it's my wife that I've ejaculated on and no one else. My wife loves it. Just wondering what others who may be watching think.

I don't go to clubs very often and am not sure what I would do at one if a guy wanted to cum on me. House and hotel parties are a different matter. At parties I've had guys cum just about everywhere on my body and face. I don't ever feel degraded at all. It's something that I enjoy.

It's not a weird question at all, but it does contain more concern for club etiquette than is really necessary, so long as your partner is okay with whatever you're doing. In terms of where you come, so long as you "bus your gush" as our club rules state, it's not actually anyone else's business. Personally, I think it can be really hot, even though I think porn's money shots are stupid.

"Bus your gush"? Does that mean clean up after yourself?

Cum on me wherever you want. I like it inside me most but the whole act of cumming is the turn on wherever it is.

Cum on me wherever you want. I like it inside me most but the whole act of cumming is the turn on wherever it is.

We dig it too. Just want to be sure that in a visible area of the club to others it's something that isn't frowned upon. I get it that some would be put off by it too.

I don't think there is any right or wrong cum etiquette at a club.

We typically ask just as you do. Mrs Diggs is one that does not like it. I would add that you never know how long those couples have played together or how well they know each other. Never assume something is okay when playing but if they give you the green light...enjoy!

If using condoms and i orgasm with him then i will tell or remind him i can swallow if he pulls out and take the condom off. If i dont orgasm with him then usually he cums into the condom, or he pulls out and saves himself for later or someone else. I personally dont get any enjoyment from being cummed over any part of my body, its why i dont mind swallowing as the clean up is minimul.

If not using condoms then inside my pussy is best but only if the club is near closing time ie with my last play mate. There's nothing worse than having a male friend cum inside who just happens to have a wad of thick textured cum (rather than the runnier clear looking type) which takes ages to come out it makes it really difficult to stay clean for the rest of the evening, and its not nice for some men later who are put off by it later on.

Men have it so easy when it comes to after-sex clean up.

I suppose since we always use a condom this hasn't come up with us as an issue.

"Bus your gush"? Does that mean clean up after yourself?

Yes, for men and women.

If using condoms and i orgasm with him then i will tell or remind him i can swallow if he pulls out and take the condom off. If i dont orgasm with him then usually he cums into the condom, or he pulls out and saves himself for later or someone else. I personally dont get any enjoyment from being cummed over any part of my body, its why i dont mind swallowing as the clean up is minimul.

 

If not using condoms then inside my pussy is best but only if the club is near closing time ie with my last play mate. There's nothing worse than having a male friend cum inside who just happens to have a wad of thick textured cum (rather than the runnier clear looking type) which takes ages to come out it makes it really difficult to stay clean for the rest of the evening, and its not nice for some men later who are put off by it later on.

 

Men have it so easy when it comes to after-sex clean up.

Ok, but does it bother you to see other couples practicing cum on as opposed to cum in techniques in clear view of others?

Ok, but does it bother you to see other couples practicing cum on as opposed to cum in techniques in clear view of others?

Not bothered in the slightest where other women want their male playmates to cum, and it doesnt turn me on or off seeing men give facials or cum over her boobs/bum/back.

I personally like to keep their cum easily manageable ie in my mouth, into the condom or in my pussy (if he is a friend/regular). My husband likes it when men cum in my pussy as he loves the feeling of sloppy seconds. Its not everyones cup of tea but it is for us.

Not bothered in the slightest where other women want their male playmates to cum, and it doesnt turn me on or off seeing men give facials or cum over her boobs/bum/back.

I personally like to keep their cum easily manageable ie in my mouth, into the condom or in my pussy (if he is a friend/regular). My husband likes it when men cum in my pussy as he loves the feeling of sloppy seconds. Its not everyones cup of tea but it is for us.

Amazing! What an honest reply! Hats and bra-panty off, sparkstar!

Since you mention 'cup of tea,' allow me to confess. I'm from India, so inevitably, the new guys we play with bring along a decent gift of India Tea. Hubby, Brit to boot, would earlier get his gift of a fine Single Malt - but that's gone thru a major overhaul. Only wines/champagne now, alas!

For me, the BEST gift has ALWAYS been the 'unload.' And you can guess where. Each 'unload' has its own enduring slip-slide-down memory. Sloppy seconds hubby prefers from my mouth.

Problem we have when I am with my wife in Club or a group room amid a bunch of onlookers is that they see me cumming inside her or she swallowing my cum and want her to do the same with them. This sometimes has created problems for us/her but as "sparkstar" correctly pointed out above when we are about to leave the Club and the guy/guys are OK she allows them to and this is a great turn-on for her ..... and for me as well.

I would think that as long as you both are ok with it, and clean up afterwards, it does not mater where it goes.

Problem we have when I am with my wife in Club or a group room amid a bunch of onlookers is that they see me cumming inside her or she swallowing my cum and want her to do the same with them. This sometimes has created problems for us/her but as "sparkstar" correctly pointed out above when we are about to leave the Club and the guy/guys are OK she allows them to and this is a great turn-on for her ..... and for me as well.

"About to leave.... and guy/guys are OK...." ?

For me, the only place I really want to cum in in a vagina. That is how I get my most intense orgasms. While I do like blowjobs, I consider them foreplay that leads up to the main event, and I would be disappointed if I came while being given a blowjob.

I prefer to have the cum in me rather than on me. If in my mouth I want to suck him dry, in my pussy I will milk him dry. I have three places do deposit in. No need to be wearing it.

I have let guys cum on me, inside me or inside condom at clubs. I don't think it's degrading to get a facial. My only request to them is to tell me beforehand. I can usually feel my partner is close and will ask where he wants to cum. My experience is they don't like to cum inside condoms so I tell them I will swallow. It's the clean up factor in the middle of a club. I once had cum on my face for a good five minutes because no one could find any tissues nearby.

I failed to mention that the it's my wife that I've ejaculated on and no one else. My wife loves it. Just wondering what others who may be watching think.

Ok, but does it bother you to see other couples practicing cum on as opposed to cum in techniques in clear view of others?