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Hello everyone! I've been reading this board for the past couple of weeks and decided to post some questions to the community. Most of my questions have been answered by reading the posts. Maybe you can help me with a few others.

 

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Question 1:

 

From the subject line, you know that I love to smell women's butts. There is nothing that turns me on more than a woman with a dirty, sweaty butthole. Especially when a woman has a nice round butt. It is so animalistic and turns me in to a wild sex animal! No joke, I love to smell butts. I got hooked on it when I was around 14 or 15 and became sexually active. I'll always remember the butt smell that would rise when I took off a girls panties. It has become linked to sexual arousal to me, much like Pavlov's dogs. When I think of sexual activity I think of the scent of a woman's butt.

 

I don't like poop. But I love a woman with a dirty, sweaty ass.

 

I think there's probably other men out there with that fetish. Most of my former girlfriends have been disgusted when I told them that I like to smell their butts. They usually let me though. Sometimes I'll request that they not bathe for a day or two or longer so their butt is nice and stinky! Then I spread those ass cheeks wide and rub that anus all over my chest. One time a former girlfriend didn't bathe for almost a week--we 69'd for an hour. A few one night stands I've had I've told the women that I wanted to smell their butts. Just telling them that is a turn on in itself because I never know how they'll react, if they'll be cool with it or if they'll freak out (one former girlfriend got turned on by me smelling her asshole). Often, I don't tell them and just do it anyway. Usually if you meet a woman at a bar who is actively looking for sex she's going to be clean and there will be no scent.

 

Are there any women swingers out there that would accommodate a request from a swing partner to be dirty so he could smell her butt?

 

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Question 2:

 

From reading this board I've learned that there is little emotional attachment to the sex that occurs between swing partners. Most of the women are loyal to their men other than the fact they have sex with other men.

 

Do any swingers swap wives or girlfriends for an entire night or weekend?

 

I would love to borrow a man's wife for an entire weekend of nonstop sex.

 

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Questoin 3:

 

How do I suggest swinging to my girlfriend? I'd be interested in 2 girls, and swapping with another couple. But I am a firm believer in the 1-wiener rule. No other penises in the room but mine.

 

My girlfriend is great. We've been together for about 2 yeras. But there is no future. I am not going to marry her. I'm certainwe will be friends after we break up. So since I'm not going to marry her, I thought maybe she could be my passport to pussy.

 

Should I come straight out and ask her if she'd be interested in swinging? (She'll probably say no.) Should I joke about it and see how she responds to jokes? Should I show her this website and let her read it for a few weeks to desensitize her to the thought?

 

Odds are against her being for this. So I want to bring it up in a way that is the least likely to get a flat out "no". But regardless of what she says I'll respect her decision.

 

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Question 4:

 

My ultimate fantasy would be to go to a hotel party with 6 or more other couples and randomly draw names out of a hat to choose partners that we'll have sex with and then go back to our rooms and get it on.

 

Do these kinds of things happen? I heard that it used to be popular to randomly choose partners in the 1970s.

 

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Question 5:

 

Another fetish of mine is cumming on a woman's face.

 

Is cumming on a woman swinger's face acceptable? Does this happen? Do any women out there reading this let guys cum on their faces? What would happen if the woman said no and you did it anyway? Sometimes I get a thrill out of doing things that I'm not supposed to do!

 

Do women swingers swallow? That's a huge turn on too.

 

Do you women let guys do this when you swing or is it a "husbands" only thing?

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Question 6:

 

Spanking. Do any of you females out there like to be spanked? Does spanking occur? I know there are a few women out there who like to be spanked, because I've had them.

 

I'd love to be in a situation where I spank a man's wife and he spanks my girlfriend and we spank the hell out of them. I spank his wife. He then tries to one-up me by spanking my girl. Then I spank his wife harder. He spanks my girl harder. Oh yeah that would be fun!

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I'm sure I have other questions that I can't think of right now.

 

Thanks for your input, especially you females out there.

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I'm not sure if you are real or not, but you have asked a lot of questions especially for someone who has "...been reading this board for the past couple of weeks..."

 

You really think you are going to get an answer to your questions. My first reaction was that you had your "things" you like to do. Then I got to feeling that you are just a bit selfish. Hey, to each his own, right?

 

i.e.:

 

1) Your desire to be the only penis in the room. I know there are FFM specialists but in the swinging world most of us would like to make it a foursome.

 

2) Your question about taking a random partner and going to a room by yourselves: Yes those "key parties" really did exist but they stayed in the same area. Not saying you won't find someone who will do what you like but it would be rare I think.

 

If you want to know how to bring it up to your girlfriend, then read the archives and use the search function provided.

 

3) Your "butt-snif" fetish. OK pal, really! Good luck! Not saying some of us don't go for that. Just to actually ask for a partner to stay unwashed? Just not American!

 

Male D

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I'm not sure if you are real or not, but you have asked a lot of questions especially for someone who has "...been reading this board for the past couple of weeks..."

 

Well, I haven't read every single post. I also haven't seen my questions addressed to what I'm looking for.

 

 

You really think you are going to get an answer to your questions.

 

 

Sure, that's why I asked. If I thought I'd get attitude, I wouldn't ahve asked.

 

My first reaction was that you had you "things" you like. Then I got to feeling that you are just a bit selfish. Hey, to each his own, right?

 

 

Selfish? I'm asking questions. I have things I like. I don't think I'm the only one who likes them. So I am wondering.

 

i.e.:

 

1) Your desire to be the only penis in the room. I know there are FFM specialists but in the swinging world most of us would like to make it a foursome.

 

By only penis in the room, that means I don't want other men around when I'm doing my thing. Ya dig? Swapping would be real cool if we go into separate rooms and have some privacy. But I have no desire to be around any guy with a woody. I don't even like the lockerroom at the gym.

 

2) Your question about taking a random partner and going to a room by yourselves: Yes those "key parties" really did exist but they stayed in the same area. Not saying you won't find someone who will do what you like but it would be rare I think.

 

Random swapping is rare. OK. I got one answer.

 

 

If you want to know how to bring it up to your girlfriend, then read the archives and use the search function provided.

 

 

I sort of did that. Most of the responses are "just ask her" and the like.

 

 

3) Your "butt-snif" fetish. OK pal, really! Good luck! Not saying some of us don't go for that. Just to actually ask for a partner to stay unwashed? Just not American! facelick

 

Male D

 

Hey, I have a fetish. Out of 145 million males in this country, do you think I'm the only one?

 

Try it sometime. It is ANIMALISTIC! It is pure animal passion! It's primal.

 

My current girlfriend accomdates me. But she thinks I'm weird! I keep her satisfied.

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Question 1:

Are there any women swingers out there that would accomodate a request from a swing partner to be dirty so he could smell her butt?

 

You can count my wife out, never happen, we both prefer our partners to be clean and fresh, as we always are when playing.

 

Question 2:

Do any swingers swap wives or girlfriends for an entire night or weekend?

 

Possibly, but I've never met anybody that would be willing to do this.

 

Questoin 3:

How do I suggest swinging to my girlfriend? I'd be interested in 2 girls, and swapping with another couple. But I am a firm believer in the 1-wiener rule. No other penises in the room but mine.

 

My best advice here is read the many threads on the board on this topic and do whatever works best for you. As far as your "1-weiner" rule I don't see how that would be workable with a couple.

 

But regardless of what she says I'll respect her decision.

 

Good plan.

 

Question 4:

My ultimate fantasy would be to go to a hotel party with 6 or more other couples and randomly draw names out of a hat to choose partners that we'll have sex with and then go back to our rooms and get it on.

 

Do these kinds of things happen? I heard that it used to be popular to randomly choose partners in the 1970s.

 

I have never met anyone who would be into this. Most of us are pretty selective about who we would have sex with so this type of activity wouldn't be an option for us. Does it ever happen? Probably, but my guess is it's pretty rare.

 

Question 5:

Is cumming on a woman swinger's face acceptable? Does this happen? Do any women out therer readng this let guys cum on their faces? What would happen if the woman said no and you did it anyway? Sometimes I get a thrill out of doing things that I'm not supposed to do!

 

A lot of questions in that one. As far as cumming on the womans face goes, some women might be into that, but if she isn't I would recomend you respect her wishes. What happens if you don't respect her wishes and do it anyway? "No means no" in the lifestyle, so if you do something with a woman that she doesn't want, she or her partner would then enforce the "1-weiner" rule, and I can assure you, it wouldn't be yours.

 

Do women swingers swallow? That's a huge turn on too.

Do you women let guys do this when you swing or is it a "husbands" only thing?

 

Some do, some don't, in my experiance it is about 50/50.

 

Question 6:

Spanking. Do any of you females out there like to be spanked? Does spanking occur?

 

I've met a few women who liked spanking, as I am not into that I haven't looked for that kind of thing so I don't know how common it is.

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1) hmmm.... I would hope not, sounds more like your looking for a pro there.

 

2) We wouldn't.

 

3) just try to approach it with quoth, be respectful, and listen to her.

as for the 1-wiener rule, get past your insecurities, or chances are you last in the lifestyle.

 

4) you will see there are couples who swing in different rooms and some in the same, as far as the drawing names what would happen say you drew Tom,Frank etc.. kinda rules out the 1- wiener rule then huh?

 

5) as far as cumming on the face.... i would hope you could show some restraint but if all parties were in agreement, i don't see where that could be a problem.

 

Swallowing... again show some quoth and be respectful to those you play with, if she wants to she will, just make sure you tell her prior to it and if you can try to withdraw, but accidents do happen just remember you know when its time otherwise you may end up being the accident.

 

6) Spanking... perhaps, dunno, not into that ourselves. Just a thought on that though..what if he wanted to spank you each time you spanked her, now that could be fun.

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CandTinLorainCo said:

1) hmmm.... I would hope not, sounds more like your looking for a pro there.

 

2) We wouldn't.

 

3) just try to approach it with quoth, be respectful, and listen to her.

as for the 1-wiener rule, get past your insecurities, or chances are you last in the lifestyle.

 

4) you will see there are couples who swing in different rooms and some in the same, as far as the drawing names what would happen say you drew Tom,Frank etc.. kinda rules out the 1- wiener rule then huh?

 

 

No. I'm thinking like 6 couples get together. There are 6 hotel rooms total. Assume that all the couples either know each other or approve of the other couples being there, but they have not necessarily swung together before. The men or women randomly draw names of people of the other sex out of a hat. Then they pair up and each swing couple retires to their own private room to have fun.

 

Doesn't that sound like fun? Completely randomized casual sex! :)

 

CandTinLorainCo said:

 

5) as far as cumming on the face.... i would hope you could show some restraint but if all parties were in agreement, i don't see where that could be a problem.

 

Swallowing... again show some quoth and be respectful to those you play with, if she wants to she will, just make sure you tell her prior to it and if you can try to withdraw, but accidents do happen just remember you know when its time otherwise you may end up being the accident.

 

6) Spanking... perhaps, dunno, not into that ourselves. Just a thought on that though..what if he wanted to spank you each time you spanked her, now that could be fun.

 

As far as being dirty, I shower twice a day. I like to be clean. I like my women dirty however. Mmmm, dirty women...so good...so animalistic!

 

Am I the only one that like sthe way women smell? Pheremones. Ever heard of them? We have glands in certain parts of our bodies, including our anal areas.

 

I used to do this to a former girlfriend of mine and about 2 years after we broke up I asked her if it bothered her that I used to smell her butt. She said she grew to like it.

 

What does a male dog do when a female dog is in heat? He comes up behind her and sniffs her butt. I do the same thing! :o

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But I am a firm believer in the 1-wiener rule. No other penises in the room but mine

 

Why?

 

Insecure?

Have you ever experienced a woman being pleasured by two men?

 

It's quite amazing. facelick

 

Believe it or not, no matter how good you are, adding another "penis" to the mix can make it much more enjoyable for the woman.

You know, "Doubling her pleasure". ;)

 

By only penis in the room, that means I don't want other men around when I'm doing my thing. Ya dig?

 

No, I don't.

 

And why not?

 

Afraid of being showed up?

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OK...I think you've heard what you didn't want to hear, and it sounds like you've heard it before...from your GF's. You ARE wierd...but there must be a place for you out there somewhere.

 

:bowing: You have been able to make me squirm. Not an easy task!

 

Good luck in all your endeavors.

 

Male D

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Why?

 

Insecure?

Have you ever experienced a woman being pleasured by two men?

 

It's quite amazing. facelick

 

YUCK! Sorry, I don't swing that way. Heterosexual all the way.

 

 

Believe it or not, no matter how good you are, adding another "penis" to the mix can make it much more enjoyable for the woman.

 

There's no doubt about that. I beg your pardon, but I don't have any desire to be anywhere near hairy man ass. Ok?

 

I'm am not into that multiple men on 1 woman kind of thing. But I've asked women if they wanted to do that. They all said no, one man was enough.

 

Were they lying to me? Maybe. Honesty is nice.

 

You know, "Doubling her pleasure". ;)

 

 

Yeah, double HER pleasure. Quadruple my disgust.

 

I guess I'm the only guy around here that doesn't look at penises in the lockerroom.

 

 

No, I don't.

 

And why not?

 

Afraid of being showed up?

 

Afraid of no such thing. Maybe you are aroused by other men (assuming you are male), that's your business. But I'm not. I find men repulsive and disgusting and best fully clothed and NOT in a state of arousal.

 

"Hey Stan, did you shave your ass since I saw you last?"

 

I do not claim to be king kong dick. 7 inches on a good day and 6 inches on a bad. Average, isn't it? Nothing to brag about. Nothing to be ashamed of.

 

I've seen those gangbang pornos with guys just standing around wanking their meat or doing DP with their balls slapping together. Not my idea of fun.

 

Two women--I'd be in heaven! Sniff sniff sniff sniff.

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Perhaps you are on the wrong board. ;)

 

Two men pleasuring one woman IS Heterosexual.

 

HELLO?

 

I'm done with this one folks. ;)

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Perhaps you are on the wrong board. ;)

 

Two men pleasuring one woman IS Heterosexual.

 

HELLO?

 

I'm done with this one folks. ;)

 

Two men engaging in sexual activity in the same room with the same woman reeks of latent homosexuality.

 

Now, if you are homosexual, just admit it and set yourself free. Society is much more accepting these days. We don't bite.

 

99% of men don't want another man around when they're having sex.

 

Different strokes for different folks.

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OK...I think you've heard what you didn't want to hear, and it sounds like you've heard it before...from your GF's. You ARE wierd...but there must be a place for you out there somewhere.

 

:bowing: You have been able to make me squirm. Not an easy task!

 

Good luck in all your endeavors.

 

Male D

 

Let me ask you this: when you see an attractive woman, don't you wonder what she smells like down there?

 

When you are walking beind a woman with a nice ass wearing tight pants, don't you wonder the same thing?

 

I always wonder if women are clean or dirty.

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What does a male dog do when a female dog is in heat? He comes up behind her and sniffs her butt. I do the same thing!
I've heard they do that because they want to know what the other dog has been eating. I already know what my dates have been eating, since I usually take them to dinner first. Ergo...I don't need to sniff their asses.

 

But since you're bringing up "stuff that dogs do"...my dog used to lick his own balls. Funniest thing I ever saw, especially when my mother-in-law, the original church lady, was in the room. Do you do that also? And have you ever gone to pick your girlfriend up, and suddenly found yourself humping her fathers leg, because you "just couldn't help yourself?" Dogs do that too, you know. In fact, my girlfriends dog did it to me one time. You know what I did?

 

I bent over and sniffed his ass! Because I wanted her whole family to like me, and her dog was like one of the family.

 

You've given me a lot to think about...

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Two men engaging in sexual activity in the same room with the same woman reeks of latent homosexuality.

 

Now, if you are homosexual, just admit it and set yourself free. Society is much more accepting these days. We don't bite.

 

99% of men don't want another man around when they're having sex.

 

Different strokes for different folks.

 

:rofl::rofl: Are you afraid you will want to sniff the guy's butt? :lol:

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We think it is possible to find a woman/women that are willing to conform to your parameters, but it doesn't sound much like swinging, just more like fetishism. In any case it will likely be an extended search.

 

Didn't we see you tailgating a dachshund in the west end of Dallas once?

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Hi RobLuver,

 

I'm going to try to weed through to the questions and answer what I can with what I think. Take it or leave it ;)

 

RobLuver said:

Question 1:

 

Are there any women swingers out there that would accommodate a request from a swing partner to be dirty so he could smell her butt?

 

Probably. There are women out there who will do all sorts of stuff. However, finding a swing partner who will do this might be tricky. From what I gather (this is not a statistically based observation mind you...), there aren't that many women who are turned on by this sort of thing. There probably are women out there who would be willing to do this as a favour to their hubbies (whom they love and care deeply for)... finding a women who is willing to do this for a fuck buddy... I'm just thinking it might be tougher. Do you get what I'm saying here?

 

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Question 2:

 

Do any swingers swap wives or girlfriends for an entire night or weekend?

 

I would love to borrow a man's wife for an entire weekend of nonstop sex.

 

Sure it might happen - but for most people there has to be a lot of trust built before they would even consider such a thing. I wouldn't recommend actually going on a search for this. It's more of a, "If it's something you're into AND you happen to get lucky enough to find yourself in that situation then consider just yourself lucky" kind of thing. This is not something that the swinging world advertises as a common activity.

 

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Question 3:

 

How do I suggest swinging to my girlfriend? I'd be interested in 2 girls, and swapping with another couple. But I am a firm believer in the 1-wiener rule. No other penises in the room but mine.

 

My girlfriend is great. We've been together for about 2 years. But there is no future. I am not going to marry her. I'm certain we will be friends after we break up. So since I'm not going to marry her, I thought maybe she could be my passport to pussy.

 

Should I come straight out and ask her if she'd be interested in swinging? (She'll probably say no.) Should I joke about it and see how she responds to jokes? Should I show her this website and let her read it for a few weeks to desensitize her to the thought?

 

Odds are against her being for this. So I want to bring it up in a way that is the least likely to get a flat out "no". But regardless of what she says I'll respect her decision.

 

I'm a little floored by this whole chunk. First of all, you are thinking of using your unwilling girlfriend whom you plan no future with as a "pussy ticket"? And you want to know how to get her to say yes? The VAST majority of swinging couples are in committed relationships and they are looking for other couples who are in committed relationships. They aren't interested in some guy and his pussy ticket. You have mentioned a number of good ideas for getting a spouse or long term committed partner to consider swinging (ie making jokes to get a feel for the situation, suggesting reading the board together...) BUT - you are not a guy with a good solid relationship. This puts you in a tough spot. While couples like you do sometimes manage to make a go of it, swinging is tough business and you've got this big factor working against you.

 

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Question 4:

 

My ultimate fantasy would be to go to a hotel party with 6 or more other couples and randomly draw names out of a hat to choose partners that we'll have sex with and then go back to our rooms and get it on.

 

Do these kinds of things happen? I heard that it used to be popular to randomly choose partners in the 1970s.

 

 

As mentioned about such parties do sometimes happen but they are usually a same room kind of deal. Again, you're looking for something a little different from the norm and therefore you will probably have more trouble finding it. Not impossible, but more difficult.

 

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Question 5:

 

Another fetish of mine is cumming on a woman's face.

 

Is cumming on a woman swinger's face acceptable? Does this happen? Do any women out there reading this let guys cum on their faces? What would happen if the woman said no and you did it anyway? Sometimes I get a thrill out of doing things that I'm not supposed to do!

 

Do women swingers swallow? That's a huge turn on too.

 

Do you women let guys do this when you swing or is it a "husbands" only thing?

 

Many women would go for this sort of thing. BUT every woman is different. Every couple is different. You just have to ask to find out what is acceptable to a given woman or couple, just like in any number of other situations.

 

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Do any of you females out there like to be spanked? Does spanking occur? I know there are a few women out there who like to be spanked, because I've had them.

 

Sure. Again, you just have to ask to find out what is acceptable to a given woman.

 

 

One last little thing. I find your comments regarding homosexuality rather offensive. How is it that two women together is wonderful but simply being in a room with another man "reeks of latent homosexuality"? You are welcome to your opinions but, personally, I would ask that you try to refrain from using such derogatory wording. Furthermore, I'm sure the men on this board who have been naked in a room with another man would prefer to decide for themselves if they are or are not attracted to other men.

 

Please continue to read and post your questions. I hope I've made some sense. ;)

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RobLuver said:
Two men engaging in sexual activity in the same room with the same woman reeks of latent homosexuality.

 

Now, if you are homosexual, just admit it and set yourself free. Society is much more accepting these days. We don't bite.

 

99% of men don't want another man around when they're having sex.

 

Different strokes for different folks.

 

You have a lot to learn.

 

Teresa

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RobLuver said:

Question 1:

 

Are there any women swingers out there that would accommodate a request from a swing partner to be dirty so he could smell her butt?

--> Not this woman! Animalistic or not, I don't think I could get past the idea of purposely being a bacteria breeding ground. It may be your fetish, but it's not exactly sanitary. I can't enjoy myself if all I'm thinking about is the fact that I need a shower.

 

RobLuver said:

Question 2:

 

Do any swingers swap wives or girlfriends for an entire night or weekend?

 

I would love to borrow a man's wife for an entire weekend of nonstop sex.

--> We've tried separate rooms and even tried sleeping with our other partners afterward until morning. It just felt wrong and weird. Ever since then, we've sort of steered away from people who are looking to do that specifically.

 

About borrowing another guy's wife or girlfriend for an entire weekend... Jeez, you make it sound like she's a piece of gardening equipment. "Yeah, I'm putting down some new grass seed this weekend. Hey Frank would you mind lending me that lawn roller of yours? Saves me having to rent one." No respectable man would ever 'lend' you his wife for any amount of time with an attitude like that. More on my take on your attitude towards women below...

 

RobLuver said:

Question 3:

 

How do I suggest swinging to my girlfriend? I'd be interested in 2 girls, and swapping with another couple. But I am a firm believer in the 1-wiener rule. No other penises in the room but mine.

--> You don't. It's just not going to fly, and here's why:

 

RobLuver said:

So since I'm not going to marry her, I thought maybe she could be my passport to pussy.

--> ????????????????? If you've been reading this board for a while now, surely you've happened across the FAQ section. Or try doing a board search with the keyword "ticket". That has got to be the height of self-centeredness in my book. "Passport to pussy"? You have got to be joking.

 

RobLuver said:

Should I come straight out and ask her if she'd be interested in swinging? (She'll probably say no.) Should I joke about it and see how she responds to jokes? Should I show her this website and let her read it for a few weeks to desensitize her to the thought?

--> Why should she need to be desensitized? It's not like you're going to pressure her into anything, right?

 

RobLuver said:

Odds are against her being for this. So I want to bring it up in a way that is the least likely to get a flat out "no". But regardless of what she says I'll respect her decision.

--> I don't think swinging is for you. Not with a relationship like the one you're in. It's supposed to be something you do to enhance intimacy within your relationship, not just to get laid because you're bored with only one brand of pussy.

 

RobLuver said:

Question 4:

 

My ultimate fantasy would be to go to a hotel party with 6 or more other couples and randomly draw names out of a hat to choose partners that we'll have sex with and then go back to our rooms and get it on.

 

Do these kinds of things happen? I heard that it used to be popular to randomly choose partners in the 1970s.

--> Yes, some private parties I've heard of do this. Usually I think it's only at house parties where the guests are either very carefully screened (good luck) or they all know each other and are regular partners.

 

RobLuver said:

Question 5:

 

Another fetish of mine is cumming on a woman's face.

 

Is cumming on a woman swinger's face acceptable? Does this happen? Do any women out there reading this let guys cum on their faces? What would happen if the woman said no and you did it anyway? Sometimes I get a thrill out of doing things that I'm not supposed to do!

 

Do women swingers swallow? That's a huge turn on too.

 

Do you women let guys do this when you swing or is it a "husbands" only thing?

--> Going 'bareback' is somewhat common, but usually only when the people in question have a long history, deep friendship, or otherwise KNOW about their partners' histories...like swinging with your doctor.

 

RobLuver said:

Question 6:

 

Spanking. Do any of you females out there like to be spanked? Does spanking occur? I know there are a few women out there who like to be spanked, because I've had them.

 

I'd love to be in a situation where I spank a man's wife and he spanks my girlfriend and we spank the hell out of them. I spank his wife. He then tries to one-up me by spanking my girl. Then I spank his wife harder. He spanks my girl harder. Oh yeah that would be fun!

--> Too twisted for me to answer. Next...

 

I'm just gonna call 'em like I see 'em. RobLuvr, you have some serious issues that you need to deal with. I don't care what your fetishes are; if you're happy, I'm happy for you. But I can't say that I agree with the way you objectify women. I find it offensive. We are not your playtoys. Screw that! Sexual equality is the core of the swinging philosophy, and we're not here just to be your sperm receptacles. Plus, I've read your other posts on this thread about your homophobic tendencies. Why are you so defensive about your sexuality? Do you feel some need to prove that you're heterosexual? Why would you think we wouldn't believe you? I'm just saying you're very emphatic about your sexual preferences, and I wonder why. To me it says 'guilty conscience'. Might not be the case, but it's my first instinct. My husband has no qualms about being physically near another naked guy if it means he gets to have sex with a woman. He's 100% straight and oozes masculinity, but he doesn't freak out if one hairy leg bumps into another.

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I hate to so abruptly change the subject, but that comment about dogs got me laughing, and the follow up questions from JnCC cracked me up. I have no desire to be able to smell like a dog. I always have wondered if their sense of smell is so great why do they have to be within millimeters of the others dogs you-know-what to smell it. Couldn't they smell it from across the room?

 

I happen to have a female dog and if you observe closely, the male isn't sniffing the butt of the dog in heat, he's sniffing those pheromones which are most prominently displayed nearer her little pussy than her butt.

 

This man definitely has some things to overcome. I don't think we have judged him insane or anything, but he may just be in the wrong place to have a civilized conversation with someone about these ideas of his. There are sites that cater to fetishes and the like. Why doesn't he just Google "fetishes" or something?

 

Why do some people think that swingers are interested in this? We just want to have unadulterated sex with another couples' spouse. That doesn't mean we have to be into everything under the sun.

 

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--> Not this woman! Animalistic or not, I don't think I could get past the idea of purposely being a bacteria breeding ground. It may be your fetish, but it's not exactly sanitary. I can't enjoy myself if all I'm thinking about is the fact that I need a shower.

 

What, don't you crap at work? Can you enjoy yourself at work if you crap at 10 AM knowing that you are a bacteria breeding ground? When you wake up in the morning, do you always hop in the shower first thing? Are you obsessed with bacteria at 6AM?

 

 

--> We've tried separate rooms and even tried sleeping with our other partners afterward until morning. It just felt wrong and wierd. Ever since then, we've sort of steered away from peole who are looking to do that specifically.

 

About borrowing another guy's wife or girlfriend for an entire weekend... Jeez, you make it sound like she's a piece of gardening equipement.

 

No! Not gardening equipment. Obviously the woman would have to consent to such activity in the first place. At that point she'd be an equal participant.

 

But yeah, I kind of get aroused by the idea of cuddling up with another man's wife when he knows and consents to it.

 

 

"Yeah, I'm putting down some new grass seed this weekend. Hey Frank would you mind lending me that lawn roller of yours? Saves me having to rent one." No respectable man would ever 'lend' you his wife for any amount of time with an attitude like that. More on my take on your attitude towards women below...

 

 

--> You don't. It's just not going to fly, and here's why:

 

 

--> ????????????????? If you've been reading this board for a while now, surely you've happened across the FAQ section. Or try doing a board search with the keyword "ticket". That has got to be the height of self-centredness in my book. "Passport to pussy"? You have got to be joking.

 

Nope. My girlfriend is my best friend. I just don't want to marry her. There are a few issues that can't be resolved. But otherwise, she's a great person. She's my buddy.

 

If she consents to swinging, what's wrong with that? If a couple wants another couple, I can't go without bringing a woman. So she's my "passport".

 

I don't want her to do anything she doesn't want to do. She has to live with herself afterward. And swinging is a pretty big decision that most women would say no to..

 

--> Why should she need to be desensitized? It's not like you're going to pressure her into anything, right?

 

People get desensitized to things they have exposure to, especially frequently. Death is commonplace to a nurse. Death isn't commonplace to me, so I get somber, even if it isn't someone I know.

 

--> I don't think swinging is for you. Not with a relationship like the one you're in.

 

What? I'm in a committed, loving relationship that has gone as far as it can go. What's wrong with that? She is my friend. I do respect her and care for her a great deal.

 

It's supposed to be something you do to enhance intimacy within your relationship, not just to get laid because you're bored with only one brand of pussy.

 

Come on now, I've read that "swinging brings us closer together" stuff on this board and do not see how it is possible. To me, sex is recreational. When I show affection I cuddle, do things like wash her car, give her backrubs, buy flowers. I don't let a bunch of strange men take turns on her.

 

 

--> Yes, some private parties I've heard of do this. Usually I think it's only at houseparties where the guests are either very carefully screened (good luck) or they all know each other and are regular partners.

 

Good luck? I was kind of under the impression that the swinger community was kind of...a community. Those that are in it tend to stay in it and associate with each other. If you swing with one couple and get along, if they have a party they'll invite you where you'll meet other like-minded couples. Is that wrong?

 

--> Going 'bareback' is somewhat common, but usually only when the people in question have a long history, deep friendship, or otherwise KNOW about their partners' histories...like swinging with your doctor.

 

 

--> Too twisted for me to answer. Next...

 

I'm just gonna call 'em like I see 'em. RobLuvr, you have some serious issues that you need to deal with.

 

Uh, OK.

 

I don't care what your fetishes are; if you're happy, I'm happy for you. But I can't say that I agree with the way you objectify women.

 

I don't objectify women. And quite honestly, I'd wager money that many men who swing use their wives or girlfriends as passports, too. No different than my view.

 

I find it offensive. We are not your playtoys. Screw that!

 

A woman who has sex with total and complete strangers, sometimes multiple strange men, is not a playtoy?

 

Sexual equality is the core of the swinging philosophy, and we're not here just to be your sperm receptacles.

 

Equality? Come on, what's equal about one woman and 5 guys? The men are f*cking her and she's getting f*cked. What's equal about that?

 

Plus, I've read your other posts on this thread about your homophobic tendencies. Why are you so defensive about your sexuality?

 

I'm not defensive about my sexuality. I just think people should be honest about what they are.

 

A man who claims he is not bi-sexual but enjoys eating another man's sperm out of his wife's pussy...there's something up with that. So, he should just be honest about who he is and let the guy shoot it direct in his mouth the next time.

 

Do you feel some need to prove that you're heterosexual?

 

Nope. Men = hairy slobs, some of whom spend too much time farting, belching, and being disgusting. Guys are cool to play poker with, hang out and have some beers. But I don't want them around when I'm gettin' busy.

 

Why would you think we wouldn't believe you? I'm just saying you're very emphatic about your sexual preferences, and I wonder why.

 

I don't like men. I don't associate arousal with being in the same room with other aroused men.

 

If you've noticed, I also like my privacy, too. That's why I want to go in separate rooms.

 

To me it says 'guilty conscience'. Might not be the case, but it's my first instinct. My husband has no qualms about being physically near another naked guy if it means he gets to have sex with a woman.

 

No guilty conscience here. Perhaps your husband is repressing his true desires...just as likely as me having a guilty conscience.

 

If your relationship is so strong, why is he so eager to have sex with other women anyway? How does that strengthen your relationship?

 

He's 100% straight and oozes masculinity, but he doesn't freak out if one hairy leg bumps into another.

 

"Hey Bill, how ya doin?'"

"Doin' fine Frank, how bout you?"

"Oh, just standin' here wanking my meat just like you. Say, did you shave your balls since I saw you last?" :nono:

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DBL D said:

I happen to have a female dog and if you observe closely, the male isn't sniffing the butt of the dog in heat, he's sniffing her pheromones which are most prominently displayed nearer her little pussy than her butt.

 

Psychology Today

 

"Humans possess three major types of skin glands--sebaceous glands, eccrine (or sweat) glands, and apocrine glands."

 

"That leaves the third potential source of a human pheromone--the apocrine gland. Apocrine glands hold special promise as the source of smells that might affect interpersonal interactions. They do not serve any temperature-managing functions in people, as they do in other animals. They occur in dense concentrations on hands, cheeks, scalp, breast areolas, and wherever we possess body hair--and are only functional after puberty, when we begin searching for mates."

 

"Most promising of all, apocrine glands exude odorous steroids known to sexual behavior in other mammals."

 

 

Also, apocrine, or scent glands, are located in the anal area:

 

NHS Direct

 

"The apocrine glands are large sweat glands found in the armpits, the breasts and around the genital-anal area. They develop during puberty and start to release sweat in response to stress, emotion and sexual excitement."

 

OK, I like women's asses. But women are aroused by male underarm sweat.

 

http://www.abc.net.au/science/news/health/HealthRepublish_888984.htm

 

Also, you think you can't smell those pheromones, but you can:

 

"Researchers at the University of Texas reported two years ago that men can tell by smell alone when women are at their most fertile. The had male subjects sniff T-shirts worn by women during fertile and infertile stages of their menstrual cycles and found the men overwhelmingly rated the smells from the shirts to be most pleasing or "sexy" when they had been worn during a fertile phase."

 

Interesting stuff. But women are washing it all away!!!

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When you wake up in the morning, do you always hop in the shower first thing? Are you obsessed with bacteria at 6AM?

Well, as a matter of fact...yeah.

 

If she consents to swinging, what's wrong with that? If a couple wants another couple, I can't go without bringing a woman. So she's my "passport".

 

I don't want her to do anything she doesn't want to do. She has to live with herself afterward. And swinging is a pretty big decision that most women would say no to..

I'm just saying, most couples are looking for other couples who show a strong grasp of what swinging is all about...and it may surprise you to know that for some people, it's not about sex. If you guys are going to get into it just to please yourselves rather than each other, we (personally) would not be interested in you. And BTW, no I'm not trying to flatter myself. I'm speaking hypothetically.

 

People get desensitized to things they have exposure to, especially frequently. Death is commonplace to a nurse. Death isn't commonplace to me, so I get somber, even if it isn't someone I know.

Ok so maybe I'm overreacting a bit to your choice of terms. I just don't think that non-monogamous sex is something so horrible that one must desensitize one's self to it in order to enjoy it.

 

What? I'm in a committed, loving relationship that has gone as far as it can go. What's wrong with that? She is my friend. I do respect her and care for her a great deal.

And once again, I got a little carried away. You're right, I don't know you or your girlfriend and have no right to define someone's relationship from a few short lines in a forum. I was giving an opinion after getting an overall impression of the situation.

 

Come on now, I've read that "swinging brings us closer together" stuff on this board and do not see how it is possible. To me, sex is recreational. When I show affection I cuddle, do things like wash her car, give her backrubs, buy flowers. I don't let a bunch of strange men take turns on her.

I guess this is why I'd suggest that maybe swinging isn't for you or your girlfriend. It DOES bring a couple closer. Sex is recreational for us as well, but we are involved in swinging for each other, not for ourselves. It makes my husband happy to see me enjoying myself sexually with another man. Likewise, I feel a deep sense of satisfaction knowing that I am strong and confident enough in myself and in our relationship to offer this gift of freedom to him as well. It brings us closer because now sex holds no threat for us. Another man could try to come between us, telling Mr. intuition that his 10" dick could rock my world harder than he ever could, and Mr. would laugh at him. He'd just say, "Well your business is with her then, not me pal." Would I play with him? I'd say probably not; NObody is going to get away with disrespecting my honey like that. And if I did, I'd probably have to get a little rough with him. I'll give someone respect until they give me a reason not to anymore. If he got any action at all, a guy that wants to treat me like a playtoy, gets treated like a dildo with heartbeat in return. Sure sex is lots of fun, but it's not our marriage's raison d'etre, and it's certainly not something we need to stress over.

 

Good luck? I was kind of under the impression that the swinger community was kind of...a community. Those that are in it tend to stay in it and associate with each other. If you swing with one couple and get along, if they have a party they'll invite you where you'll meet other like-minded couples. Is that wrong?

No, nothing wrong with that. It's true in many cases. But sometimes a party is open to whoever would like to go. In such cases, the host/hostess usually screens guests who request admittance. Single guys are usually at the bottom of the totem pole. Single women at the top. In between there are other criteria to consider such as demographics. Yes, looks often count. Physical attraction is a necessity. Other things that count include manners, genuineness, intelligence, moral integrity, honesty, etc. Heavy drinkers or drug users are not welcome. Martyrs (the coerced or otherwise unwilling partner) are not welcome. Over-eager people who can't wait to get through the door so they can ditch their "ticket" for the evening are not welcome.

 

 

Uh, OK.

Ok, the swinging with your doctor thing was meant to be facetious. Doesn't come across too well on the screen, does it? :lol:

 

I don't objectify women. And quite honestly, I'd wager money that many men who swing use their wives or girlfriends as passports, too. No different than my view.

Yes, they do. And we avoid them like the plague. Using your partner for anything is just wrong. JMHO

 

A woman who has sex with total and complete strangers, sometimes multiple strange men, is not a playtoy?

 

Equality? Come on, what's equal about one woman and 5 guys? The men are f*cking her and she's getting f*cked. What's equal about that?

You make it sound like there's something very wrong with a woman enjoying sex the way men do. Good sex and plenty of it seems to be the rule of thumb for guys, right? So...why not for women too? 5 men and one woman? Sounds like a pretty good ratio to me ;) So what? I suppose that makes her a slut? If she feels like a victim in this situation, it's either illegal (as in she said no and is gang raped anyway) or it's her own damn fault for not saying no. There are no victims in swinging. Only willing participants. And about the playtoy thing... she might be someone's playtoy, but no more so than they are hers. And there's nothing dishonourable in either position.

 

I don't like men. I don't associate arousal with being in the same room with other aroused men.

:lol: Get over it! The other guy didn't get a woody for you.

 

No guilty conscience here. Perhaps your husband is repressing his true desires...just as likely as me having a guilty conscience.

Well then I guess you don't have a guilty conscience. Repressing desires? :lol: He isn't intimidated by other men's sexualities, even if they were openly bi, but he's just not aroused by other men. So as long as they keep their appendages to themselves there won't be a problem.

 

If your relationship is so strong, why is he so eager to have sex with other women anyway? How does that strengthen your relationship?

Because he's healthy and virile and it's natural for humans to be physically attracted to more than one person. I understand that. I think it's great! Swinging is like celebrating our sexual selves. I'm his cheering section and he is mine. We love each other for being unselfish enough to set one another free, and see one another with new eyes when we realize that - yeah! - he/she is damn sexy!

 

"Hey Bill, how ya doin?'"

"Doin' fine Frank, how bout you?"

"Oh, just standin' here wanking my meat just like you. Say, did you shave your balls since I saw you last?" :nono:

:lol: Cute.

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In my humble opinion, Rob is doing way too much thinking with the little head instead of the big head.

 

Then again...maybe thinking is not quite the right term, either.

 

When I started reading this thread, I thought it was a joke. Now I wish it was, because I'd rather not believe there are people like this out there. :(

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RobLuver said:
Is cumming on a woman swinger's face acceptable? Does this happen? Do any women out therer readng this let guys cum on their faces? What would happen if the woman said no and you did it anyway? Sometimes I get a thrill out of doing things that I'm not supposed to do!

 

I am only going to respond to two things that are even remotely worth responding to...

 

Then - I will take a moment to state the painfully obvious.

 

First - if you would choose to cum on the face of a swinging man's wife, even after she has told you no, you will quickly learn one of life's morbid little humors: you can hear a bone breaking before you actually feel it. Yes - you heard me right - not many swinging husbands would let such a thing slide by. Such a choice would be your "passport to an ass whipping." Please print this, cut it out, and put it in your wallet...

 

It is obvious that you do not respect... well... anyone as far as I can tell... Your girlfriend whom you would use as a "pussy ticket" (bravo for that, Piggy!) the men who would "share" their wives ("insane" I believe you called it elsewhere) or the wives who have all the power in choosing to be "shared" (something you obviously don't get). I am thinking that the lifestyle will vomit you out in a big steaming pile...

 

But - that might not be so bad for you... After all - dogs like vomit as much as they like the smell of ass...

 

RobLuver said:
I'd wager money that many men who swing use their wives or girlfriends as passports, too.

 

Really?

 

How much?

 

I smell my "ticket" to financial security. After that, you want to play a little three card monty? All you have to do is find the queen. You seem to think you have that skill mastered as well, so I'll go ahead and set up over here ;)

 

Let's be real, Rob. You are obviously a guy in need of a lot of attention and a lot of pity. You'll get a little of both here - for a day or two. Enjoy it while it lasts. When you get done, go back to playing your Xbox. One day you'll find out that it would be much healthier to direct your energy into getting some sort of life - perhaps even getting a job and moving out of mom's basement... All you have to do is flip over your placemat the next time you stop into McDonalds - there is often an application on the bottom. I think they'll accept it if you fill it out with ketchup...

 

Maybe I'm moving too fast...

 

Maybe you're not ready...

 

But - I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

 

And when you get there - can I make a request? When people order french fries, don't be stingy with the salt, dammit!

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I took my male dog for a walk and a female dog sniffed his ass. Does that mean my dog is gay? Is he repressing his true sexuality?

 

Couldn't help it. Made me think of ROBLuver and this thread.

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This assumes that you are serious and not just a troll here looking to have fun (which, is my guess).

 

If you are serious, then I think by now you've seen what sort of reception you are getting here and realize that that is probably not going to change. Unfortunately, you presented a not so great first impression and you were judged on it. No one is going to take you seriously from here on out, so your best bet will probably be to move on.

 

On the upside, thanks for the entertainment. It's always nice to have things spiced up a bit around here.

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Buttsniffing: this reminds me of a Second City skit that I saw a few years ago when the Chicago troupe came to MI. The whole skit was about this visiting dignitary from some country where women are denigrated. The woman with him was required to follow him around bent at the waist with her nose in his butt. To this day that is exactly what I think of every time I see two dogs sniffing each other.

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I used to lube up a girlfriend's butt with Crisco shortening. Works good.

 

This was posted by RobLuver in another forum about using vegtable oil for a lube.

 

I wonder, is it the butt smell or the smell of fried foods that turns him on?

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I didn't realize until now that I'm a "latent homosexual". Wow! I'm a member of a minority group.

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No. I'm thinking like 6 couples get together. There are 6 hotel rooms total. Assume that all the couples either know each other or approve of the other couples being there, but they have not necessarily swung together before. The men or women randomly draw names of people of the other sex out of a hat. Then they pair up and each swing couple retires to their own private room to have fun.

 

Doesn't that sound like fun? Completely randomized casual sex! :)

So, there would be absolutely no chance of being rejected? What if the woman you "drew" was repulsed by you? Would you fuck her anyway?

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Well, I can't hold out any longer.....I LOVE the smell of a womans butt. I do prefer it to be clean unlike Rob, but hey, it's our differences that make us interesting. Carry on Rob, but next time you might try posting in a forum that is more accepting of honesty. (and wit, cause you had me laughing my ass off)

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Well, I can't hold out any longer.....I LOVE the smell of a womans butt. I do prefer it to be clean unlike Rob, but hey, it's our differences that make us interesting. Carry on Rob, but next time you might try posting in a forum that is more accepting of honesty. (and wit, cause you had me laughing my ass off)

 

Hey MoonDoggy! Welcome to the board.

 

Rob's problem wasn't his "honesty", it was his inablility to accept others as they are! As well as his inherent selfishness. I laughed at him too, but apparently for different reasons. I pity him actually.

 

Male D

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Well, I can't hold out any longer.....I LOVE the smell of a womans butt. I do prefer it to be clean unlike Rob, but hey, it's our differences that make us interesting. Carry on Rob, but next time you might try posting in a forum that is more accepting of honesty. (and wit, cause you had me laughing my ass off)

Yes, welcome MoonDoggy. Hope you enjoy the Board and all it has to offer.

 

Like Dbl D said, it's not about his honesty, per se. Honesty is great and well-accepted around here. I personally had a problem with his contradictory posts elsewhere on the Board. It just didn't add up to me, and I think others caught on to that as well.

 

I think we all like different things that are "off the beaten path", and that's what makes this Board thrive. Just like the posts about communication, delivery can be a deal-maker or breaker.

 

Mr. Funk

If it looks like a Troll and smells like a Troll...

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OMG, this has really cheered me up!!! I have never laughed so hard. I got brave yesterday and e-mailed a cute girl on another site and she turned me down (politely) but I was a little bummed as it was the first time I tried to contact someone first. Oh well, I feel lots better after reading this. LOL. We are brand new to this and even we know that this guy is off his rocker! He sound like he is just looking to get laid and not in this for his SO. The thing that really got me was him saying he would cum on a woman even if it was against the "rules" Some lady is gonna pull a Lorena Bobbit :eek: on him!!! "He's half the man he used to be......" :lol:

Minnie

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WOW I don't know the last time I went from ENRAGED to absolute hilarium in 4.5 seconds. How could one person be so damn ignorant about life, love, sex, seduction and well being a human being :confused: ........ GOOD LUCK there pal you are why people have the opinions of "OMG swingers are morally wrong and disgusting" :rolleyes: OK SORRY THIS IS A PERSONAL OPINION but Damn guy gimme a break do you really think that you will get anywhere treating a woman the way you say you want to? :nono:

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Hilarious and fun to read!

 

As for women's butts - I wouldn't be turned off if you asked me not to shower for a day or two. It would sound wierd and funny to me at first, but I would conclude that it's a normal enough little fetish (given your history). Would definitely take some trust as some women are really sensitive to the issues of smell and cleanliness. Really, compared to the most extreme thing I like (CT) it's downright tame.

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Whenever this thread gets bumped a little more of my faith in humanity dies.

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      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By duo33470
      We have started doing a few group things with guys. It seems like they always want to cum on my wife's face. Is that the usual thing or have the guys we have played with been the exception???
    • By Maturecouple1122
      When my wife and I first started in the lifestyle, we had some hard rules.  One of which was no solo playing.  Six months and three BBC adventures later, she decided that the “no solo” play rule was nonsense and asked, more like begged, to be able to play alone five miles away. She was off for summer break.  Since I was working 30 miles away and she was home alone all day, I relented.
       
      About a week later, I came home from work and she was waiting for me in stilettos and a flowing summer dress sans underwear.  The dress was a halter type with a slit all the way past her thigh.  She also had the tell-tale twinkle in her eye that she usually gets after she climaxes.  Since she usually wears jeans and t-shirts during the day, I knew something was up.  She had a cocktail already made for me and an appetizer tray.  I was impressed.
       
      She led me to the living room sofa and when she sat down, her dress fell open and I could clearly see her bare pussy and one of her nipples.  Now I knew something great was about to happen.  I asked her how her day went and what was the reason for the seduction.  She then said, “I had a great day!”  Then she proceeded to tell me in detail what happened.
       
      Her BBC friend DJ came by on his tri-wheeled motorcycle to take her for a ride.  She was wearing a very short maroon skirt with a yellow sheer top.  She had a g-string but no bra.  She was not expecting a motorcycle ride.  He handed her a helmet and off they went.  Since she was in a short skirt, her pussy rubbed directly on the seat as they cruised.  The g-string enhanced he friction from the motorcycle vibration on the seat.  She nearly came from the ride itself.   After they returned to the house, she invited DJ in for some refreshments.
       
      Refreshments were quickly consumed and she led him to the bedroom where he helped her remove blouse and skirt.   As she dropped her g-string, her pussy stains were quite evident.  
      My wife is usually not very submissive. But for some reason, she enjoys when DJ dominates her and she tries things with him she never lets me or anybody else do.
       
      DJ is a former football player with a very muscular physique.  His cock is rather short for a black man, only about 5.5 inches long.  The girth of his cock however is unbelievable.  When he is flaccid, the circumference of his cock is close to the size of a Red Bull drink can.  When he is erect, he is almost as round as a beer can.  Since he is so wide, he easily hits her g-spot on every thrust which makes her cum in great quantities.  After he finished cumming in her pussy, they took a short rest to recover and replenish fluids.  As they were laying in each other’s arms, he made my wife get into a kneeling position and open her mouth.  He then grabbed her head and started to push his cock into her mouth which was no easy feat given his size. Unbelievable to her, she actually took most of his cock in her mouth and sucked him until he came down her throat.  Something she refuse to let me do.
       
      Next, he made her lay on her stomach with a pillow under her waist.  He then proceeded to flog her ass, thighs, and cunt lips with a leather flog.  She always said she didn’t care for BDSM activities but here she was, laying on her stomach with a cum load in her pussy, one in her belly, getting her genitals flogged by a stranger.  The more he flogged her cunt, the more she squirmed and moaned until she actually orgasmed.   
       
      She then felt cool coconut oil being rubbed on and in her sphincter.  She told me him was too big but he didn’t listen.  He then grabbed her by the hips and pushed his beer can cock into her ass.   After an initial painful gasp, she finally became accustomed to his cock in her ass and actually started fucking him.  When she grants me the rare opportunity to fuck her ass, she begs me to go fast so I cum quickly and finish.  Given DJ had already cum twice, there was no rushing him.  He pounded her ass for at 10 or more minutes until he came the third time.
       
      As she lay exhausted, DJ dressed and kissed her goodbye.  I came home about an hour later.
       
      As she related her experiences that day she noticed I was visibly aroused and decided it was my turn to have fun.  We went into the bedroom and I started to licking her all over.  While the shower she took after DJ left cleaned out her pussy, it didn't quite get all of his cum out of her ass.  I tasted another man’s cum for the first time in my life.  For some reason, she now enjoys an occasional flogging and ass fucking from me.                         
    • By JustAskJulie
      When you first brought up the idea of swinging to your partner, what objections (if any) did you have to overcome before they were willing to give it a try?
       
       
      - Worry about one or both of you falling in love with someone else?
      - Worry about potential jealousy?
      - Worry about family/friends finding out?
      - Worry about you thinking less of them for doing so?
      - Worry that swinging is morally wrong? Religious/ Moral Issues?
      - Worry that your desire for swinging means that they are not enough for you? That you don't love them anymore or will love them less?
       
      How did you handle these questions? What answers did you give? How did you overcome the objections?
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