- What do you tell others about where you are when swinging?
- What's Your Advice for Beginners?
- Common Newbie Swinger Mistakes
- Newbies: Who would you rather play with?
- Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging?
- Trying to coach her into the lifestyle...
- Are all swinging ladies fit and attractive?
- Looking for guidance and direction from others
- Is it wise to start with a MFM threesome?
- A few unique questions ...
- wondering if this is right for us?
- Lifestyle cruise question
- Seriously confused about my wife
- First Step
- Swinging to help build my confidence and better our relationship
- My wife is confined to a wheelchair, should we swing?
- Complete stranger or steady relationship - what's better?
- First time....with an Escort!
- Swinger traits (good and bad) to watch for?
- First time FMF 3-some w/straight ladies...how to proceed?
- My wife and I differ on a couple things...any recommendations?
- A question for the Ladies on the the board
- Me and gf thinking about swinging
- Wife wants "spontaneous" but I'm considering "arranging" something...
- What if the first few times are the best ever sex?
- Curious... confused
- Learning and would like to get some opinions
- Regret, it works both ways
- What did your man say?
- We're ready to try it! But have some questions ...lol
- Any wives like to see their men in action?
- What if bringing up swinging ruins our marriage?
- Am I weird or what? (Being picky about playmates)
- First club visit
- Another first time club visit question
- New and Taking it Slow - Suggestions
- "Ultra-light" swing questions
- Is swinging for us?
- Brand new couple looking for advice
- the 2 of us aren't agreeing...help me figure this out
- Nervous About Upcoming Meet
- New here and need advice
- Overwhelming Response
- Porn is the answer?
- Are we playing with fire?
- Seeing your wife with another partner
- Does she or doesn't she?
- seeing your man with another woman
- New to this so how do we read the signals
- just nervous
- Advice from WOMEN. How did he get you into swinging?
- Soft swapping perhaps?
- We would like to ask a few questions at this point
- Curious/Question
- Interested but not sure how to start ?
- I've been asked to give it a try
- PLEASE, I need advice communicating with husband as well as potential partners.
- How do I get my husband into it?
- Looking for some advice...
- Randomness of a newbie
- Can you give your BEST Opinion and Advice?
- Overcoming insecurities?
- please define these for us: TAME, MODERATE, WILD
- Need advice on becoming more approachable while at Hedo II
- Watching & Being Watched
- Considering trying a MFM
- Any Advice on how to help us would be greatly appreciated =-)
- We're back. With some questions
- I'm just curious as my wife won't reveal much of her past experience.
- I am considering swinging, and would like some advice.
- That first conversation
- New at this and unsure
- new/curious/unsure, but Hi and howz it going.
- hi guys (how do I convince my wife?)
- Newbee Seeking Info
- Questions from Ohio part two (mind games and jealousy)
- Hey Everybody, wifes been giving hints. Any suggestions ?
- Newbies seeking advice (on how to find a guy)
- Swinging just for sex OK?
- Having a hard time...
- How do we get started safely?
- In brief, how do you balance swinging and daily life?
- Now what?
- How to go to next level?
- New and Scared
- Wife having moral issues
- How do you know????
- Just Joined
- New here....cautious!
- Too good to be true?
- Our first experience--coming soon!!! Nervous!!! Any advice???
- Hi from Chicago - New With Concerns
- New couple wondering if ready for an entry level of lifestyle.
- Is wife ready to soft swing, if she....
- Is anyone married to a 100% str8 girl?
- Advice in supporting wife (and self)
- Safety?
- Our little secret?
- Hi from Dallas.
- The First Date
- Question for the women
- Need help on response to wife
- should we swing?
- Slow Starting... Input Please...
- Fantasy vs Reality
- New and scared
- Cruise Ship Swinging
- Help! Im a single male, how do I respond?
- planning for our first time.
- Does swinging equal sexual liberation?
- How to Find a Single Male?
- Sex after swinging
- Virgin - any options?
- new to the lifestyle....
- Need Soft Swap Advice
- To dip our toes in, or jump in?
- New, excited, and a little nervous
- How to find a "unicorn"?
- advice? club this wkend for 1st try- says body paint/blacklight. what to expect??
- Going to Break the Ice-Finally
- Wife and i talked about soft ...
- Ready to try the lifestyle, but we have different speeds...
- Husband Wants Open Marriage/I'm Scared
- should i continue to ask about a 3 some?
- How to Get My Girlfriend Interested(was: Hello from Delaware)
- Fantasy vs Reality
- Should We Start Getting Our Feet Wet or Wait?
- Need some advice...
- First Time Swinging
- Don't want to feel left out
- New to the site full of questions
- Threesome - good idea?
- New to Lifestyle, Trying in Vegas
- New guy with some questions
- First gf ever that encourages...and my mind can't help but race with dirty fantasies!
- Hotel party question
- How to take that first step
- Jealousy
- Newbies with question about clubbing with friends
- Just curious about same room/bed, no swap
- intensely conflicted--any thoughts?
- How do I know it's the right time?
- Long-time friend of fiancee wants to join in.
- Drinking and swinging
- Oh... Were BRAND NEW with NO EXPERIENCE…need LOTS of Advise
- Downsides of a FMF threesome?
- thanks...I have made up my mind
- A touch overwhelmed....
- A little personal confusion
- Curious how others have addressed this
- wife was interested (even brought up the idea) now isn't
- what about 1/2 bad experiences?
- Tomorrow....
- First Club Visit & Feeling
- help for newbies
- FFM needs another M
- Is this a female dominated subculture?
- How do I get started?
- Interested but Torn..
- Hubby's fantasies don't match mine, but married with a LONG life ahead of us
- Advice on swinging/threesomes/voyeurism?
- advice for a beginner couple
- How did you tell your partner you want to see her sleep with other men?
- Type of first encounter
- Question on how you got past, or deal with your jealousy
- Brought it up, but she's not interested
- Pushy couples
- New and curious couple
- How to Broach the Subject with My Wife
- Clubs First or One on One?
- SO where do I start....
- New guy in the south...
- The Lifestyle and Drama
- can I pick your brain for a minute?
- HELLO - its me again
- Professional career and ethics??
- Hey...are we ready?
- Size..Do you approach it.
- How do you find compatible partners?
- another newbie couple - looking for advice
- Accidental swinging
- Newbies To the Scene
- Considering her first Bi experience
- Remaining a newbie....
- Should We?
- Need Advice: Turning Fantasy into Reality
- New angle
- Afraid I may like it?
- advice appreciated
- We Wanna Know How & Where too
- How do i know if it is just an excuse for him to play the field?.....
- Attempting an FMF at a club
- New to the LS, have some ????
- Am I cut out for swinging?
- Support groups
- Trying to convince wife into swinging for 10 years
- Interested and need some advice!
- Massage for my wife
- threesome
- Need Advice Please
- Not Sure On The Game Plan
- Chatting or video chat?
- Need Some Help
- Need help getting started - cpl to cpl swinging
- Question About "Girl/Girl" Play
- Is she almost there ?
- Is she ready or willing?
- wanting to just watch
- New and thinking about it.
- Is she Interested?
- Good First Step?
- Would u decline to play with a cheat?
- Curious but a bit nervous
- overcoming childhood boundries?
- Should we go for it?
- Womens point of view MFMs??
- Finding opportunities to swing for the first time
- What should we expect on our first visit to a "lifestyle" club?
- Question for the newbies or people that havent swung yet
- Talking to My Asian Wife About Swinging
- Learning about me
- Advice needed... Considering Asking Roomate for Threesome
- Is it generally acceptable to....
- How do I make her admit she wants 2 cocks
- confused
- Encouraging Reluctant Partner to Give It a Try
- Why the thrill of MFM for the men?
- Advice on how to bring up and talk about swinging
- Question about separating sex from love
- I got my wife to go to swingers club what NEXT?
- Is there a term for "reverse cuckolding"?
- How long do you expect sex to last?
- Going to San Francisco on Friday to Friday. How do we find someone?
- My husband and I have talked about it
- wife is afraid of guilt if we swing
- Haven't really started and already getting harassed
- Newbies Invited to a Hotel Take-Over
- Are there events/clubs/places that have training wheels attached?
- Critique our (wife and I) rationale for looking into swinging.
- Hello new to swinging need some advice..
- Recommendations on good porn movie titles to buy/watch with fiance?
- Are we going at this right? Opinions Please!
- Confidentiality issues
- How to ask my wife if she would be interested in spicing things up a bit
- How to get beyond putting the toe in the water?
- Sex with SO after Swinging/Aftermath of play
- Do couples ever swing for a while and then stop?
- Wife is sending mixed signals
- A Lucky friend of mine got a good start with his wife
- Wife Interested in Mfm?