- Interested and need some advice!
- Trying to convince wife into swinging for 10 years
- Support groups
- Am I cut out for swinging?
- First chance for a club visit coming up
- New to the LS, have some ????
- How many times??
- Attempting an FMF at a club
- How do i know if it is just an excuse for him to play the field?.....
- Not sure if I genuinely should be here......
- We Wanna Know How & Where too
- What do I wear?!
- advice appreciated
- Afraid I may like it?
- New angle
- Need Advice: Turning Fantasy into Reality
- Should We?
- Remaining a newbie....
- Considering her first Bi experience
- Newbies To the Scene
- Accidental swinging
- another newbie couple - looking for advice
- How do you find compatible partners?
- Size..Do you approach it.
- Hey...are we ready?
- Professional career and ethics??
- HELLO - its me again
- can I pick your brain for a minute?
- The Lifestyle and Drama
- New guy in the south...
- SO where do I start....
- Clubs First or One on One?
- How to Broach the Subject with My Wife
- New and curious couple
- Pushy couples
- Brought it up, but she's not interested
- Question on how you got past, or deal with your jealousy
- Type of first encounter
- How did you tell your partner you want to see her sleep with other men?
- advice for a beginner couple
- Advice on swinging/threesomes/voyeurism?
- Is America a sexually repressed culture?
- Hubby's fantasies don't match mine, but married with a LONG life ahead of us
- Interested but Torn..
- How do I get started?
- Is this a female dominated subculture?
- FFM needs another M
- help for newbies
- First Club Visit & Feeling
- Tomorrow....
- Anyone been to......
- what about 1/2 bad experiences?
- wife was interested (even brought up the idea) now isn't
- Curious how others have addressed this
- A little personal confusion
- A touch overwhelmed....
- thanks...I have made up my mind
- Downsides of a FMF threesome?
- Oh... Were BRAND NEW with NO EXPERIENCE…need LOTS of Advise
- Drinking and swinging
- Long-time friend of fiancee wants to join in.
- How do I know it's the right time?
- intensely conflicted--any thoughts?
- Just curious
- Newbies with question about clubbing with friends
- Thank you all
- Jealousy
- How to take that first step
- Hotel party question
- First gf everthat encourages...and my mind can't help but race with dirty fantasies!
- New guy with some questions
- An update from a newbie
- New to Lifestyle, Trying in Vegas
- Threesome - good idea?
- New to the site full of questions
- Don't want to feel left out
- Is wanting to start younger poor motivation?
- First Time Swinging
- Need some advice...
- Should We Start Getting Our Feet Wet or Wait?
- best way to find single guys for new couple
- Young Couple
- help
- Fantasy vs Reality
- How to Get My Girlfriend Interested(was: Hello from Delaware)
- Thinking of testing the waters on the lifestyle
- Getting my girlfriend back into the game, Input appreciated
- It could've Happened
- First time !!!! for me at least.
- should i continue to ask about a 3 some?
- New to swinging
- Husband Wants Open Marriage/I'm Scared
- Ready to try the lifestyle, but we have different speeds...
- Wife and i talked about soft ...
- Going to Break the Ice-Finally
- advice? club this wkend for 1st try- says body paint/blacklight. what to expect??
- How to find a "unicorn"?
- New, excited, and a little nervous
- New member
- To dip our toes in, or jump in?
- Need Soft Swap Advice
- new to the lifestyle....
- Virgin - any options?
- Cheating Wives
- Sex after swinging
- How to Find a Single Male?
- Curious but nervous newb cpl
- Does swinging equal sexual liberation?
- planning for our first time.
- Help! Im a single male, how do I respond?
- Cruise Ship Swinging
- New and scared
- Fantasy vs Reality
- Slow Starting... Input Please...
- should we swing?
- Need help on response to wife
- Question for the women
- What was the primary reason you got into swinging?
- The First Date
- Hi from Dallas.
- Our little secret?
- Safety?
- Advice in supporting wife (and self)
- Is anyone married to a 100% str8 girl?
- Is wife ready to soft swing, if she....
- New couple wondering if ready for an entry level of lifestyle.
- Hi from Chicago - New With Concerns
- Our first experience--coming soon!!! Nervous!!! Any advice???
- Too good to be true?
- New here....cautious!
- Just Joined
- How do you know????
- Wife having moral issues
- New and Scared
- How to go to next level?
- Now what?
- In brief, how do you balance swinging and daily life?
- How do we get started safely?
- Having a hard time...
- Swinging just for sex OK?
- Newbies seeking advice (on how to find a guy)
- Hey Everybody, wifes been giving hints. Any suggestions ?
- Questions from Ohio part two (mind games and jealousy)
- Newbee Seeking Info
- hi guys (how do I convince my wife?)
- new/curious/unsure, but Hi and howz it going.
- New at this and unsure
- That first conversation
- I am considering swinging, and would like some advice.
- I'm just curious as my wife won't reveal much of her past experience.
- We're back. With some questions
- Any Advice on how to help us would be greatly appreciated =-)
- Considering trying a MFM
- Watching & Being Watched
- Need advice on becoming more approachable while at Hedo II
- please define these for us: TAME, MODERATE, WILD
- Overcoming insecurities?
- Can you give your BEST Opinion and Advice?
- Randomness of a newbie
- Psychologically, Why Are We Soo Turned On By Swinging?
- Looking for some advice...
- How do I get my husband into it?
- Newbies Getting Started
- PLEASE, I need advice communicating with husband as well as potential partners.
- I've been asked to give it a try
- Interested but not sure how to start ?
- Curious/Question
- We would like to ask a few questions at this point
- Soft swapping perhaps?
- Advice from WOMEN. How did he get you into swinging?
- just nervous
- New to this so how do we read the signals
- seeing your man with another woman
- Does she or doesn't she?
- Seeing your wife with another partner
- Are we playing with fire?
- Porn is the answer?
- Overwhelming Response
- New here and need advice
- Nervous About Upcoming Meet
- the 2 of us aren't agreeing...help me figure this out
- Brand new couple looking for advice
- Perplexed!!!
- Taking the lead (Is there an interest for couples our age?)
- Web Camming with other couples
- Is swinging for us?
- "Ultra-light" swing questions
- 3 some with married friend?
- Given the greenlight to play alone
- New and Taking it Slow - Suggestions
- Do we get involved with friends or strangers?
- Is there a place out there for people like us, as "naturists" or soft swingers ?
- threeway
- Another first time club visit question
- Looking for insight
- First club visit
- Am I weird or what? (Being picky about playmates)
- What if bringing up swinging ruins our marriage?
- How do we find out if my wife's friends play?
- Any wives like to see their men in action?
- very new and full of questions
- We're ready to try it! But have some questions ...lol
- What did your man say?
- Regret, it works both ways
- New to this with overprotective past
- Learning and would like to get some opinions
- Curious... confused
- What if the first few times are the best ever sex?
- Wife wants "spontaneous" but I'm considering "arranging" something...
- Me and gf thinking about swinging
- A question for the Ladies on the the board
- My wife and I differ on a couple things...any recommendations?
- First time FMF 3-some w/straight ladies...how to proceed?
- Swinger traits (good and bad) to watch for?
- Question about where to start? (long)
- First time....with an Escort!
- Complete stranger or steady relationship - what's better?
- My wife is confined to a wheelchair, should we swing?
- Swinging to help build my confidence and better our relationship
- Not sure what to do, need some advice
- How to politely say no?
- First Step
- Seriously confused about my wife
- How do you go about finding a guy for a threesome?
- No kids?
- Why get into swinging?
- Should our first MFM be with a friend or stranger?
- Curious about negotiated infidelty/swinging
- Advice for a First time
- Should I leap into swinging at this time ?
- I don't even know what to title this - jealousy rant?
- Condom use
- Geographic concerns ;)
- Rules and guidelines you use.....
- Question (about swinging definitions)
- Forming emotional bonds first time out:
- We only want to play together, including communicating with other couples.
- Questions from a newbie couple---
- Going to a club for the first time.
- Lifestyle cruise question
- Oh this will be fun, Dilemma with the Husband!
- Dating an Experienced Swinger and a Little Confused
- how do you find real people?
- how to suggest "just sex" with a friend?
- Opening the conversation more with spouse
- How to be more open and confident with my sexuality?
- Newbies wanting to go to a convention...good idea?
- Did we take a step forward?
- me my wife and my nephew
- Was very Curious. Now VERY GLAD I did'nt go through with it...