I met a HOT chic - I think she swings! Now what do I do?

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by FunTxCouple

LM,
I think I speak for all of us when I say we are hanging in the balance here Please let us know soon if you have heard from "Vi" Good luck!

Mrs. Fun

As I said in my last post, I decided to take a walk to mentally and physically ready myself for contacting Vi.

The walk was invigorating...the sun...the blue sky...the fresh air. I decided to take a picture of myself with a glow in my cheeks to remember my jaunt around the estate (that sounds so much sexier than "yard," play along with me here). The neighbor's stallions were flaring their nostrils as I swiftly moved past them along the whitewashed fence. . .I'm getting carried away!

Let's get to the nitty-gritty.

After my walk I worked out on the treadmill. The muscles in my bum were bouncin' and I felt pumped.

I decided to call Vi instead of emailing.

She answered on the third ring. I think she new it was me because she doesn't accept blocked calls...I had to unblock our private number and name to get through.

I could hear the smile in her voice. We talked about the weather and the wind and flying kites. What a way to start. But we kept the conversation going smoothly. I asked her if she would be free on Friday to meet for coffee. "Yes!" she said, and I asked her to choose a coffee house she likes. It's one I've never been to. We're meeting around noon.

So it's set. Our first mini-meet.

Future friends? Maybe more?

I think I'll order a hot Chai Tea...with LOTS of whipped cream to lick off the top. facelick

LM

[DBL D]

Good for you LM.........

I can tell this is going to be a great cup of coffee.....Love the name you have given her. Oh sorry, not her new name what you want to do to her. Yummmmmmmmmmm
Good luck and please keep us posted. facelick

Fem D

[ALilOEverything]

This is just so exciting LM!!

And I can just picture you with a hint of seduction licking off that whip cream as you intently catch her gaze wondering what she's really thinking.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by ALilOEverything

This is just so exciting LM!!

And I can just picture you with a hint of seduction licking off that whip cream as you intently catch her gaze wondering what she's really thinking.

And when I lick, I'll be making sounds of pleasure--as I always do when I suck cream off the top of my drinks--"Mmmmm, this is sooooo goood" is what I'll probably say. facelick


I have one concern; I had a red flag pop up when I first observed Vi and her husband arriving at Saturday's dinner.

It's something I've been trying to ignore, however, as I've told myself repeatedly in the past, I should never ignore my gut feelings, especially when it comes to red flags.

Mr LM and I were in our car in the parking lot because we had arrived early. When they drove in and got out they immediately caught our attention--both looked good and dressed sexy. *Insert picture* Vi was wearing black fishnet stockings and a short skirt!

I noticed she and her hubby didn't look at each other, they walked to the door apart, no interaction. Mr LM thought it was their first date. I said No way. That's a married couple and they aren't getting along well tonight. We laughed. We've been married 25+ years and we know there are times we don't hold each other's arm. Our minds are elsewhere.

Still, I'm a little worried.

Do you think my first impression of something not right between them is justified? I think I should learn more about their relationship right off, on this first meet with Vi.

LM

[DBL D]

Since you have our full attention, we feel compelled to get involved. I'd say that if you are intending to talk about intimate things then a talk about their relationship is in order too. Maybe something like, "So, how long have you two been in love."

We hope it works out and they aren't in trouble.

Male D

I say do not read too much into it, at least right now.

Mrs naughty and I get along great but still have out tiffs. I'm sure it is obvious in our body lanuage we are not quite "bonding" (especialy if someone is looking) but it doesn't mean we have issues. it means we are like every other couple out there who have a disagreement now and then.

If you get to meet them again and you get the same vibe then maybe...

I would wait to see a trend before making a decision.


It's one thing to act on a vibe for someone you met through a swinger site. Gut feelings are definately something to go with!


But,
Since this relationship is starting out vanila you can observe and if there does seem to be relationship issues between the two you do not have to pursue things any further than just being friends.

[FunTxCouple]

Dito to Mr. & Mrs. Naughty

I agree- if you were around them again and got the same vibe, maybe something is amiss. But for now, it may be too early to tell.

Can't wait to hear all about your meeting

Mrs. Fun

[Vespertine]

I agree with Mr. Naughty, I'd watch them interact a few more times before drawing any 'deal-breaking' conclusions.

[Chip_n_Muffy]

Regarding their "red flag" behaviour, is it possible that there was a really good basketball game on TV that night? It is entirely possible that he had things he would rather have done than to go out to dinner that particular night. Sometimes the male of the species can get petulant and cranky whe we don't get our way! The behaviour you observed may have been situational, a reaction to just that night's event. Worth considering, anyway.

Chip

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by DBL D

I'd say that if you are intending to talk about intimate things then a talk about their relationship is in order too. Maybe something like, "So, how long have you two been in love."

This sounds good to me. I'll use it. Thanks DBL D.

Woke up with a head cold this morning so I'm going to be a little spacey on cold medicine. Better that than have my nose drip into my mug of hot Chai Tea.

I painted my nails, got my clothes lined up and even had Mr LM trim my hair yesterday. . . the hair on my head. I know how some of you think.

LM

[2much]

and I thought the Waterboy saga had on the edge of my seat!

[AZ Dreaming]

Ok Likeminds where are you, we are all waiting!!!!
Please don't make us wait too long! I now have to go to work and all I will be thinking about is this thread and if everything went ok..........
AZ

[LikeMinds321]

I arrived before Vi did. Of course, I didn't know this until I got inside and took a glance around the place. I liked it instantly. Wasn't too busy. Mostly men sitting alone with big mugs of coffee while focused on their laptops.

One lady was nestled into an overstuffed sofa, she had large headphones on and I figured she was listening to a book on tape.

A good looking guy who was seated at a table on the left gave me a long look when I walked in. I decided to hold his gaze and gave him a smile. He acknowleged. It didn't look like he'd shaved that morning, with his sharp jaw the shadow made him look tough--in a good way--and his smile added the soft touch.

No sign of Vi. The gentleman behind the counter said something to me, don't remember exactly what, but then, I was nervous and my mind was elsewhere. I walked toward him and he asked what he could get for me. We started up a conversation that continued until Vi arrived, about five minutes later.

She looked great, big smile on her face, her beautiful blonde hair, full and wavy, hung down just to her shoulders. I had decided I wasn't going to offer a hug first, I wanted to see if she would. She did. We squeezed each other tightly, our leather jackets touched and made a nice sound.

We ordered up. My tea came without whipped cream, and for a second, I froze. I asked them to add it. I now had something to lick.

Vi and I agreed we preferred the tall table with the high stools and found a central spot along the wall. The lighting fixtures were great in this coffee shop. It felt good being here. Vi said she comes her often to write. I think it would be perfect for writers. Private coves here and there, various couches, loveseats and chairs. Internet hookups everywhere. Books for reading.

My first drink went down fast. I'm on cold medicine and was very thirsty. Vi bought me a second drink and this was the first time I got a chance to look her up and down as she stood, her back to me, at the counter waiting from my drink. She's shapely, well-proportioned and looked great in her short red skirt, black turtle neck sweater, black tights and suede boots. I wore my tight X-long jeans and a turtle neck sweater, leather jacket and boots. I decided to wear my hair up since she had seen it down at the Saturday dinner.

She did most of the talking and that was a good thing because my head was so spaced from the OTC cold medicine that I wasn't myself. I discovered she has a wonderful laugh that charges the room. We found out more about our pasts and our jobs. We're both self-employed. I asked her "how long have you and your husband been in love" and she told me about their relationship. He's a hardworking man, long hours, and time for the two of them alone is rare. But I think they're managing well and are happy.

Vi is a very positive, sexy woman with a good heart and a great sense of humor. I like her very much. And frankly, I wasn't thinking much about sex while with her. I was discovering someone new, who I enjoyed being with.

We spent over two hours together. The time flew by. As we said our goodbyes we decided we'll get together again.

Who knows when that will be.

A little while ago I sent her an email thanking her for the great time.

I'm eager to hear back from her. She loves movies but her husband isn't too keen on them. Maybe I can call her up next time for a movie, then drinks at a bar afterwards.

Keep your fingers crossed for me.

LM

[Vespertine]

Glad you had a good time, LM.

Here's hoping to many, many more...

[DBL D]

LM, You could go there and do some of your own writing! Absolutely fabulous description of the place and the lady Vi! I just had the mother of all colds and I can imagine how you were really not feeling well. Vi picked you up though. It sounds like they have the average marriage but I can't tell much more. Maybe average in the sense that they (or she) is ready for something more??? She sounded luscious and I'm sure you were wet the whole time! facelick

What's your take? I know you'll see again but since you said that you weren't thinking about sex when you were with her, do you think that you don't necessarily have to have sex with her now? Do you think she connected with you or get any hints that she "liked" you?

Sounds like everything went about as well as possible for a 1st meeting.

Male D