I met a HOT chic - I think she swings! Now what do I do?

[LikeMinds321]

Where we sat was up to us, so I that eliminates any attempt to match us up with people.

Also, this woman wasn't even in our party. She was with a different party and just happened to know the other's. The way it works in this restaurant, different parties end up being at the same table.

We all have vanilla friends, so maybe she and her husband are just one swinger couple within this group of vanilla friends. I don't think the original couple who invited us are swingers because they moved to the midwest so that their children would have a purer environment to grow up in. Doesn't that sound like they wouldn't be open to swinging?

I'm going to e-mail the HOT vivacious blonde tonight ...I want to see what she'll write back.

If she's still open to getting to know me better, I'll try to set up a meeting with her. Maybe happy hour at bar, when the appetizers are free and the men will be hungry and looking us over ...and I can see how she responds to that envirnment...and, well, you can imagine.

LM

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I'm going to e-mail the HOT vivacious blonde tonight ...I want to see what she'll write back.
LM

Looks like this thread could turn into Seducing The Waterboy Part II

We are so excited for you and anxiously await to see how this turns out!

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Also, this woman wasn't even in our party. She was with a different party and just happened to know the other's. The way it works in this restaurant, different parties end up being at the same table.
LM

Perhaps it was just coincidence, although I believe we create a a lot more "coincidences" than we give ourselves credit for. Gay people like to claim they have their so-called "Gaydar," I like to think that swingers have something similar...maybe we could call it "PLAYdar?"

I do know this...that as a single guy on a first date, I can usually tell, without asking outright, if a woman has had, or would be agreeable to, a Lifestyle experience. I never bring the subject up until we've been out a number of times, but when I do, I find I'm correct almost 100% of the time.

There was a case here locally a few years ago, where the cops reported on a ring of grown men who were into some sort of "baby play." Not pedophilia...that would be common by comparison. No, these were men who, as I understand it, wore giant baby diapers, and talked and acted like babies.

The newspaper said there was "a ring" of them. How many, I don't know...but if there were even three, they had to find each other somehow. People of "like minds" always seem to gravitate towards one another...

I don't think the original couple who invited us are swingers because they moved to the midwest so that their children would have a purer environment to grow up in. Doesn't that sound like they wouldn't be open to swinging?

I don't know about that. My kids mom and I moved from Los Angeles to rural Kentucky to raise our kids, and we certainly maintained an active, if not entirely "conventional" sex life once we were established here. I think one possible definition of swinging might be "an activity that some couples engage in so as NOT to be tempted into behaviors that might endanger the family unit."

Besides, have you ever noticed what kinds of cars are parked outside swing clubs? Mini-vans and SUV's, that's what! No Porsche's, and occasionally a token Corvette, but mostly it's mini-vans and SUV's with soccer decals in the back window and "Our child was Student-of-the-Month at Blah-blah Middle School" decals on the back bumpers.

Gee, I just got this great idea! My daughter has a rather costly class trip coming up next semester, one for which fundraising is about to start. I wonder if one of the local club owners would let me sell her candy bars in the kitchen area of their club some night?

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by JnCC

Gay people like to claim they have their so-called "Gaydar," I like to think that swingers have something similar...maybe we could call it "PLAYdar?"

I like that!

Originally Posted by JnCC

There was a case here locally a few years ago, where the cops reported on a ring of grown men who were into some sort of "baby play." Not pedophilia...that would be common by comparison. No, these were men who, as I understand it, wore giant baby diapers, and talked and acted like babies.

I think that's called "Infantilism"

Originally Posted by JnCC

Gee, I just got this great idea! My daughter has a rather costly class trip coming up next semester, one for which fundraising is about to start. I wonder if one of the local club owners would let me sell her candy bars in the kitchen area of their club some night?

Maybe liquor filled chocolates would do even better?

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

We are so excited for you and anxiously await to see how this turns out!

If this turns out like the "Seducing the Waterboy" thread, I'll feel honored. I consider "Waterboy" a little mini-series on this board.

***

UPDATE: *bounce-bounce*

I sent her an e-mail a moment ago and got an immediate response back! Hey, I should give her a name...how about "Vivacious" or Vi for those who don't like typing out long words.

She sounded so happy to hear from me. She told me she can be free for coffee, lunch, or evenings if I prefer. She even said she's open this week.

I don't think it will work this week.

But I don't know, maybe I could "swing it."

Can you tell I'm giddy?

LM

[DandS]

LM you crack me up....definitely go have lunch or coffee or a shopping trip with her and let us know what happens
D

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by DandS

LM you crack me up....definitely go have lunch or coffee or a shopping trip with her and let us know what happens
D

D -

That's exactly what I had in mind! I know a nice coffee shop with great atmosphere where we can find a cozy corner for private talk.

Mmmm...I wonder if I can get in to see my nail girl before we get together.

I really should lose 3 pounds first.

I'd better put off meeting her for a week.

LM

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

...

I'd better put off meeting her for a week.

LM

Oh, no you don't! No 'putting off'! You're fine the way you are; she obviously liked what she saw.

Besides, all of us are now crazy with anticipation. You wouldn't want to let us down, would you?

-B

[Vespertine]

You GO, Girl!



...I agree, don't put it off... meet her this week!

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Oh, no you don't! No 'putting off'! You're fine the way you are; she obviously liked what she saw.

Besides, all of us are now crazy with anticipation. You wouldn't want to let us down, would you?

-B

Dito Dito to Brad!! You are fine as you are!

[Dynamar]

...maybe we could call it "PLAYdar?"

Love, love, love this! Definitely gonna steal this term! Thanks JnCC

[intuition897]

I had tried to think of a term for swingers radar and came up with 'swingdar' but I like JnCC's 'PLAYDAR' much better!!

And LM, don't put off 'til next week whom you can play with today! Girl, if that's you in your avatar, don't change a thing You're a doll.

I just love the naughty idea of unexpectedly finding playmates in our everyday vanilla lives. Makes the vanilla world so much more interesting to live in day-in-day-out. I'm so excited for you! Just make sure you keep us updated, eh? Now that you've teased us by putting thoughts in our heads...

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by intuition897

And LM, don't put off 'til next week whom you can play with today!

I'm timing this out. I'm not procrastinating--really truly I'm not. I love the slow build-up to something. facelick

I'm heading outside right now to walk around the acreage for 20-30 minutes, beats being downstairs in the dreary basement on the treadmill.

Still, I might come back in and tighten the tush by walking on the mill at the highest incline...love the burn it gives me.

When I return I'll e-mail Vi and set a date.

LM

P.S. Thanks for the compliment on my avatar.

[FunTxCouple]

LM,
I think I speak for all of us when I say we are hanging in the balance here Please let us know soon if you have heard from "Vi" Good luck!

Mrs. Fun

[DBL D]

LM you're trolling us! Get on with it already.

Fem D and have I loved this so far; don't let us down.

Male D