found someone I know on a swinger site - Page 2

**Alura** · 12-12-2004, 06:40 PM

DBL D wrote:

Not for us though...we don't allow cigars in the house!

We only allow unlit cigars in our house.

Alura

Missy61 · 12-13-2004, 12:19 PM

I would be up front with him and tell him you know him. Posting your information here is done with knowin g the whole world can see you. Enjoy someone known to both you and wife!

***JustAskJulie*** · 12-13-2004, 10:00 PM

If you are going to contact them you should definately be upfront about already knowing them. If you know them, then they know you. And if you meet eventually then they are going to realize you already knew them and feel a bit played.

So the only real question is whether or not you should contact them at all. You never told us how you know them or from where. If it is a work thing you may want to refrain from contacting them as it could be an issue later. If it's not a work thing then I don't see any reason not to if you think they would be a good fit. Just be honest with them and take it from there.

dave110256 · 12-14-2004, 09:08 AM

Thank you for all the advise. Guess I should clarify a few things. I know only him, not his wife. He is one of my 9 year old son's karate instructors. He is a great guy with the kids and I've spoken to him many times about many things, never swinging of course.

HotMoCpl · 12-14-2004, 09:15 AM

Make it a TOTAL surprise!
Cheers.

I've been a bad, bad, bad wittle boy. -Elmer Fud

WildMainePussy · 12-15-2004, 12:24 AM

Someone has told us he's recognised us on Swing Lifestyle but not said who he is....my partner and I have discussed possible names but this person is signed up as a single who states he is married but wife doesn't play....and my partner got upset I even think of one friend in 'that' way quote, " I don't like it!" So as of this day....he's still a mystery but I'm not pursuing it. And luckily he's not pushing it either. I'd hate to lose his friendship due to my partner's annoyance...if it is who I'd like it to be.

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12-12-2004, 06:40 PM	#16 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: found someone I know on a swinger site DBL D wrote: Not for us though...we don't allow cigars in the house! We only allow unlit cigars in our house. Alura
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12-13-2004, 12:19 PM	#17 (permalink)
Missy61 Registered Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 3 Location: Alabama	Re: found someone I know on a swinger site I would be up front with him and tell him you know him. Posting your information here is done with knowin g the whole world can see you. Enjoy someone known to both you and wife!

12-13-2004, 10:00 PM	#18 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: found someone I know on a swinger site If you are going to contact them you should definately be upfront about already knowing them. If you know them, then they know you. And if you meet eventually then they are going to realize you already knew them and feel a bit played. So the only real question is whether or not you should contact them at all. You never told us how you know them or from where. If it is a work thing you may want to refrain from contacting them as it could be an issue later. If it's not a work thing then I don't see any reason not to if you think they would be a good fit. Just be honest with them and take it from there.

12-14-2004, 09:08 AM	#19 (permalink)
dave110256 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 308 Location: Maine Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:dave110256	Re: found someone I know on a swinger site Thank you for all the advise. Guess I should clarify a few things. I know only him, not his wife. He is one of my 9 year old son's karate instructors. He is a great guy with the kids and I've spoken to him many times about many things, never swinging of course.

12-14-2004, 09:15 AM	#20 (permalink)
HotMoCpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 402 Location: Missouri Status: Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HotMo	Re: found someone I know on a swinger site Make it a TOTAL surprise! Cheers. I've been a bad, bad, bad wittle boy. -Elmer Fud

12-15-2004, 12:24 AM	#21 (permalink)
WildMainePussy Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 54 Location: Florida Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:WildMainePussy	Re: found someone I know on a swinger site Someone has told us he's recognised us on Swing Lifestyle but not said who he is....my partner and I have discussed possible names but this person is signed up as a single who states he is married but wife doesn't play....and my partner got upset I even think of one friend in 'that' way quote, " I don't like it!" So as of this day....he's still a mystery but I'm not pursuing it. And luckily he's not pushing it either. I'd hate to lose his friendship due to my partner's annoyance...if it is who I'd like it to be.

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