Letting them know we are interested

[JustAskJulie]

As far as finding out if they are interested in playing sans cameras.. I would email them and just ask them "if they ever play with other couples without cameras".

How well do you know them beyond their online persona? Have you actually met them IRL yet?

[CuteCouple2004]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

As far as finding out if they are interested in playing sans cameras.. I would email them and just ask them "if they ever play with other couples without cameras".

I have a feeling that they do since they are definitely swingers IRL...although how often they play sans cameras with other web-people, who knows. I just have to work up the guts to ask I guess! I'm waiting on a reply from him now, so maybe I could somehow work it into my next email.

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

How well do you know them beyond their online persona? Have you actually met them IRL yet?

I know the male half of the couple better than the female half. We primarily have a business relationship...since we've both been online for just about 5 years, we've been linking/emailing/etc. for years now. We're pretty friendly with each other, I'd say...for instance, we use our "real" names with each other in emails...to me this always denotes a little more familiarity. But, we've only spoken to them on the phone once or twice. We met them this past January for the first time at an Internext party (it was our first Internext). We just talked for a few minutes, but they were very nice and seemed happy to finally meet us. I mean, by no means are we close friends with them, but we're a little more than acquaintances, I'd say.

I'm just so clueless about eitquette in a situation like this....that's why I'm so grateful for your advice!!

- the female half of CuteCouple