Age and Ethnicity

[Island guy]

In this case I would be upset if I'd been there and didn't remember.

[Spoomonkey]

Oh...

Ummm...

I meant Oklahoma... Not the Aluras... Foot - ankle deep - in mouth... Sincerely hoping that Alura's foot isn't ankle deep elsewhere when I meet him in Indy...

Spoomonkey

[Sweetdevil]

I must say, both my wife and I have had many couples or a spouse of a couple say either, "I never been wth a black man before and now I want to be with you" or "I have always wanted to have sex with a black woman." Most were honest and only expressing their sexual attraction and desires. A few were out of "myth" and "locker room" desires.

Now having made the above statement, my wife and I, have never used ethncity as a reason for attraction and swinging. Most of our swinging encounters have been with couples of different ethnicities. The subject of ethnicity does come up in chatting and about ninety-nine percent agree the different of skin-tone somewhat enchance the sexual desire; but when we get down to it, it is the person, respect, desire, passion and having good to great sex.

[akamgaxoxo]

We do not specifically choose one race over another to swing with...though it just so happens that I have a thing for latin men...but we are not picky in the least. Most of all it all boils down to passion and the desire to have fun.

[Pepper & Drew]

If I had a nickel for every time I had a white guy said that they'd never been with a black woman before and that it was exciting...I'd have 20 cents! I don't think that couples we've been with have been with us for reasons other than there was a genuine attraction and because they like us, but I think the excitement of being with someone of a different race adds a level of exoticness. Drew says that the contrast of our skin next to each other is exciting to him. I can understand the attraction. Hell, I've never been with a black woman either...and I'd love to see what it was like too.

[TxCouple98]

Myself i am white and he is hispanic. I guess i never thought about us being diff could at all be an issue. Most of the time we don't even think about the fact that we are diff. The one lady I had played with on my own was blk, and that never even crossed my mind as an issue. However, she was always more attracted to white women. Her g/fs have always been white

To us it would never matter, but i usually do find myself checking out guys who are a darker skin color than me

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by sahajacpl

We think male/female sexual intercourse outside of one's own ethnic and national background would be a great experience. Do you find that different ethnic groups respond in unique ways to eroticism, foreplay and penetration for intercourse?

What makes the lifestyle so exciting for us is the variety of partners available to us. While we don't specifically target people of other races, sex with people from other backgrounds can be exciting just because they are physically different from us. They may not necessarily respond in a way that is unique to their specific race, but the color contrast alone can provide for an exciting experience.