Do you have an age limit

mde 4764 · 10-30-2003, 08:10 PM

When you're looking for a couple to play with, do you have an age limit on the couples you'll play with or does it matter?

hfire269 · 10-30-2003, 08:19 PM

We have an age limit. No older than 35:-) The reason behind that id because my parents are in their early 40's and the thought of swinging with some one thier age is just werid..LOL :-)
hfire269(female half)

jcbicouple · 10-30-2003, 08:23 PM

We don't have an "age limit" on the high end, although we tend to prefer people that are close to our age. On the low end, we definitely avoid anyone under 21, and find that we prefer that they are at least 25 or so. More of a maturity thing than an age thing. (Before we get killed here....we're not saying that all people in their early 20s are imature. LOL) Having an attraction, and being able to hold a conversation is more important to us than age.

cpl4friends · 10-30-2003, 08:34 PM

We would prefer someone closer to our ages, but find that almost impossible. We are 22 and 23 so we are the young immature ones. :-P at jcbicouple. Actually we have found that those that are our age get on our nerves. late 20's is fine, but we have found that most couples are 33 +

D

**BiloxiCouple** · 10-30-2003, 10:00 PM

We have to be comfortable with you. Age hasn't normally been an issue.

leftcoastcouple · 10-30-2003, 10:02 PM

Though we've yet to actually hook up with a couple, this has been a major part of our discussions about what we seek in another couple.

She's 38 and I am 40, and we basically feel that 45 or so is the high end for couples we'd consider. As I get older, I'm finding older women sexier and sexier--and until recently, I took major crap from my friends for checking out nothing but girls many years younger than me!. But my wife says anyone old enough to make her feel like she's screwing her dad (roughly 50) is out of the question (which forces me to remind her that several of her favorite actors fall into that category!).

We'd probably go as high as 50, but it would really depend on the couple. This is partly based on the fact that we appear much younger than we are. People tend to think we're in our early 30s when they meet us. And we're very young in attitude, too.

Ironically, more than half of the folks who've responded to our AFF ad fall into the "older and looking like it" category, even though we specify our preferences clearly in our profile.

fun_pairTX · 10-31-2003, 01:26 AM

Our limit is a low limit, generally we don't play with people under 30 unless there is an immediate chemical connection, it doesn't happen often but it does happen. We are 40 and 49 and like people between our ages in general, but there are always exceptions. We have nothing against the under 30 crowd, but our two oldest are 22 and 21 and that is getting awfully close for our weird zone. Also at 49 I generally like women that are built for comfort as opposed to speed. I would like to get to be 50 some day LOL.

marknliz · 10-31-2003, 02:24 AM

We're both 43 and sure enough, the couples we are attracted to are in the 30-50 yr old range, and the closer they are to being in their early 40's, the more we like 'em.

It is not so much a matter of physical attraction as it is finding common ground to relate to each other.

We've come out to a very few close friends and associates that had already accepted us for who we are, rather than who they expect or want us to be.

We've asked them, "What do you think the first thing swingers talk about when they're getting acquainted?". "Wild exotic unbridled sex, duh!", is the usual naive answer.

Then we surprise them with this revelation: "No, we talk about our children first, THEN we talk about sex, if it even gets around to that".

But that's just us .... Mark'n'Liz in KCMO

CoupleOfC's · 10-31-2003, 06:30 AM

We don't necessarily have a hard and fast number on either side that we won't cross, but we definitely have preferences. On the low side 22-23 , and on the high side 33-34 is the range we look for. For us I think it comes down to two things....people within that range tend to 1) Look more like us physically and 2) Have more in common with us socially. Keep in mind that I'm 28 and she's 27. We've met exceptions on both sides of that range, in general most of the people we "click" with fall there.

Chris

Tanman aka Mike and Marie · 10-31-2003, 10:19 AM

We are 42 and 43 and generally when we are "seeking" other couples for fun we look for others reasonably close to our age (within 7 years older or younger).

But we have had brief encounters with younger couples

that were a LOT of FUN !

Keep an open mind ............

Brit_Pair · 10-31-2003, 11:23 AM

We're mid thirties, and while we don't have a hard floor or ceiling on ages, we generally confine our searches to people 10 years either side of us. That's the bracket we just happen to feel most comfortable operating within.

biblonde · 10-31-2003, 11:46 AM

we are both 37...on the low end i am not to interested in too young..maybe mid 20's. On the high end dont really want to go over 50. But all the couples we have seen have been 47 so i guess that is our lucky number!! lol

thestars · 10-31-2003, 12:20 PM

Well it seems the age range for the couple is about 10 either way...
Any younger than the 10 yr difference for younger is the we do not have much in common with them. About a 12 yr difference is as far as we have done ,but other 1/2 was older then the other by 8 yrs.
As far as older than us? Well, we do go 15 yrs older than us.We tend to have always had friends older than us. Our everyday
life is made up of friends who are generally older than us.

You do have to click with the other couple no matter what the age difference is.
The "KEY" is personality!!!!!

Houmacpl · 10-31-2003, 04:56 PM

We have no hard set limit either... mostly just who we're comfortable with. But seeing as our ages are so different (19 and 33) it would be kind of odd to set a 10 or even 15 year difference rule, when we're 14 yrs apart. Usually, our couples are between 25 and 35, but that's just how it works out, few fems my age are able to... "get it" and few women older than that i'm attracted to (is anyone else slightly more picky about women than men?) The only really *hard* limit is 18, because even though the age of consent is 16 in louisiana, 17 in texas, its just too much risk with him that much older, plus, it would be strange to have someone who still lived with her parents.

Chloe

DeesireCpl · 10-31-2003, 06:39 PM

We do have an age group we prefer but depending on the couple or the single it all depends on maturity , looks and personality. We usually play with couples 25-45 and we are comfortable within those ages. Any younger or older for us is really not appealing but we have had the odd exception usually the younger side of it not the older.

Mr Deesire & Deesire

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10-30-2003, 08:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
mde 4764 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 38 Location: Texas Status: couple	Do you have an age limit When you're looking for a couple to play with, do you have an age limit on the couples you'll play with or does it matter?

10-30-2003, 08:34 PM	#4 (permalink)
cpl4friends Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 11 Location: Western Arkansas/ Eastern Oklahoma Status: Couple	We would prefer someone closer to our ages, but find that almost impossible. We are 22 and 23 so we are the young immature ones. :-P at jcbicouple. Actually we have found that those that are our age get on our nerves. late 20's is fine, but we have found that most couples are 33 + D __________________ People are like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get, so you gotta taste them all. :-) He is D. She is K

10-30-2003, 10:00 PM	#5 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple YOUR PLACE OR OURS?? Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,755 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits SLS Name:graceful	Age We have to be comfortable with you. Age hasn't normally been an issue. __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

10-31-2003, 01:26 AM	#7 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	Parameters Our limit is a low limit, generally we don't play with people under 30 unless there is an immediate chemical connection, it doesn't happen often but it does happen. We are 40 and 49 and like people between our ages in general, but there are always exceptions. We have nothing against the under 30 crowd, but our two oldest are 22 and 21 and that is getting awfully close for our weird zone. Also at 49 I generally like women that are built for comfort as opposed to speed. I would like to get to be 50 some day LOL. __________________ fun_pairTX

10-30-2003, 08:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
hfire269 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 264 Location: Mount Wolf, PA Status: Married Couple SLS Name:hfire269	We have an age limit. No older than 35:-) The reason behind that id because my parents are in their early 40's and the thought of swinging with some one thier age is just werid..LOL :-) hfire269(female half)

10-30-2003, 08:23 PM	#3 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple SLS Name:jcbicouple	We don't have an "age limit" on the high end, although we tend to prefer people that are close to our age. On the low end, we definitely avoid anyone under 21, and find that we prefer that they are at least 25 or so. More of a maturity thing than an age thing. (Before we get killed here....we're not saying that all people in their early 20s are imature. LOL) Having an attraction, and being able to hold a conversation is more important to us than age.

10-30-2003, 10:02 PM	#6 (permalink)
leftcoastcouple She's a lurker; he's not Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 194 Location: Earthquake country Status: Married Couple (But mostly Mr.)	Though we've yet to actually hook up with a couple, this has been a major part of our discussions about what we seek in another couple. She's 38 and I am 40, and we basically feel that 45 or so is the high end for couples we'd consider. As I get older, I'm finding older women sexier and sexier--and until recently, I took major crap from my friends for checking out nothing but girls many years younger than me!. But my wife says anyone old enough to make her feel like she's screwing her dad (roughly 50) is out of the question (which forces me to remind her that several of her favorite actors fall into that category!). We'd probably go as high as 50, but it would really depend on the couple. This is partly based on the fact that we appear much younger than we are. People tend to think we're in our early 30s when they meet us. And we're very young in attitude, too. Ironically, more than half of the folks who've responded to our AFF ad fall into the "older and looking like it" category, even though we specify our preferences clearly in our profile.

10-31-2003, 02:24 AM	#8 (permalink)
marknliz Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 1 Location: Prairie Village, KS Status: Couple	We tend to like boys & girls our own age We're both 43 and sure enough, the couples we are attracted to are in the 30-50 yr old range, and the closer they are to being in their early 40's, the more we like 'em. It is not so much a matter of physical attraction as it is finding common ground to relate to each other. We've come out to a very few close friends and associates that had already accepted us for who we are, rather than who they expect or want us to be. We've asked them, "What do you think the first thing swingers talk about when they're getting acquainted?". "Wild exotic unbridled sex, duh!", is the usual naive answer. Then we surprise them with this revelation: "No, we talk about our children first, THEN we talk about sex, if it even gets around to that". But that's just us .... Mark'n'Liz in KCMO

10-31-2003, 06:30 AM	#9 (permalink)
CoupleOfC's Active Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 10 Location: Cranberry, PA Status: Couple	We don't necessarily have a hard and fast number on either side that we won't cross, but we definitely have preferences. On the low side 22-23 , and on the high side 33-34 is the range we look for. For us I think it comes down to two things....people within that range tend to 1) Look more like us physically and 2) Have more in common with us socially. Keep in mind that I'm 28 and she's 27. We've met exceptions on both sides of that range, in general most of the people we "click" with fall there. Chris

10-31-2003, 10:19 AM	#10 (permalink)
Tanman aka Mike and Marie Looking for new friends Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 201 Location: Brentwood TN Status: Couple SLS Name:Mike_n_Marie	We are 42 and 43 and generally when we are "seeking" other couples for fun we look for others reasonably close to our age (within 7 years older or younger). But we have had brief encounters with younger couples that were a LOT of FUN ! Keep an open mind ............ __________________ Life's too short to not have as much fun as possible !

10-31-2003, 11:23 AM	#11 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Active Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	We're mid thirties, and while we don't have a hard floor or ceiling on ages, we generally confine our searches to people 10 years either side of us. That's the bracket we just happen to feel most comfortable operating within. __________________ *It's not going to be an orgy. It's a toga party . . .*

10-31-2003, 11:46 AM	#12 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple SLS Name:curious1918	we are both 37...on the low end i am not to interested in too young..maybe mid 20's. On the high end dont really want to go over 50. But all the couples we have seen have been 47 so i guess that is our lucky number!! lol

10-31-2003, 12:20 PM	#13 (permalink)
thestars Active Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 40 Location: eastern nc Status: couple	Well it seems the age range for the couple is about 10 either way... Any younger than the 10 yr difference for younger is the we do not have much in common with them. About a 12 yr difference is as far as we have done ,but other 1/2 was older then the other by 8 yrs. As far as older than us? Well, we do go 15 yrs older than us.We tend to have always had friends older than us. Our everyday life is made up of friends who are generally older than us. You do have to click with the other couple no matter what the age difference is. The "KEY" is personality!!!!!

10-31-2003, 04:56 PM	#14 (permalink)
Houmacpl Active Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 32 Location: Houma, LA Status: Couple	We have no hard set limit either... mostly just who we're comfortable with. But seeing as our ages are so different (19 and 33) it would be kind of odd to set a 10 or even 15 year difference rule, when we're 14 yrs apart. Usually, our couples are between 25 and 35, but that's just how it works out, few fems my age are able to... "get it" and few women older than that i'm attracted to (is anyone else slightly more picky about women than men?) The only really hard limit is 18, because even though the age of consent is 16 in louisiana, 17 in texas, its just too much risk with him that much older, plus, it would be strange to have someone who still lived with her parents. Chloe

10-31-2003, 06:39 PM	#15 (permalink)
DeesireCpl Flamer/Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 78 Location: Can. Status: us	We do have an age group we prefer but depending on the couple or the single it all depends on maturity , looks and personality. We usually play with couples 25-45 and we are comfortable within those ages. Any younger or older for us is really not appealing but we have had the odd exception usually the younger side of it not the older. Mr Deesire & Deesire

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