Do you have an age limit - Page 3

gsu22 · 11-12-2003, 10:54 PM

I've always wanted older women just because of their maturity level as opposed to women my age or alittle younger. I consider myself very mature for being 22 and a guy. Most of the guys my age are the typical "frat boy" types with egos the size of Texas and maturity levels that equal a 4 year-old. Well, atleast around here they're like that.

And I know women mature faster than guys and I have met numerous women my age that are very down to earth and mature but I'll still stick with the older ones. I just find women about 8-10 years older than me a major turn-on. But like EBF said, nothing is written in stone......so the possibilites can be endless in some cases.

StacyCat · 11-13-2003, 02:44 AM

Guys my age tend to annoy the hell out of me.

Im 22. My last lover was 37. But, he acted like a 25 year old and looked 32ish, so it wasnt too bad. both men in my close poly family are 38 and 39, and one looks too much like my dad to be intimate with, the other I havent decided on.

I tend to date 25-32ish. Couples have to have been together and stable for a while, otherwise it brings up problems.

No hard and fast rules other than no one over 40, and no one under 18.

Tanman aka Mike and Marie · 11-13-2003, 02:39 PM

Just had some "fun" Saturday night outside of the "age norm" for both of us (older) and had more fun than I can ever remember having

. We are going to see them again, probably spend a Saturday night with them in a couple of weeks

Keep an open mind, glad we did!

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Originally posted by Tanman aka Mike and Marie
We are 42 and 43 and generally when we are "seeking" other couples for fun we look for others reasonably close to our age (within 7 years older or younger).

But we have had brief encounters with younger couples that were a LOT of FUN !

Keep an open mind ............

yawanna · 11-13-2003, 02:47 PM

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. both men in my close poly family are 38 and 39, and one looks too much like my dad to be intimate with, the other I havent decided on.

This confused me.. isn't a poly family one in which there is more than one primary emotionally and sexually intimate relationship?

Or are you the product of a poly family?

cntrycpl505 · 11-13-2003, 03:47 PM

we have not met a lot of couples but tend to look for our age and above we are 47 & 48 we just have more in common I think

BiCoupleNJ · 11-13-2003, 04:30 PM

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Originally posted by yawanna
This confused me.. isn't a poly family one in which there is more than one primary emotionally and sexually intimate relationship?

Yawanna,

What if she is emotionally & sexually intimate with the wives of the two men she mentioned in the post?

As for the original post, we tend to put an upper limit on the age of the people we meet. Don't ask why, but there seems to be some sort of a mental block we have when it comes to the number '50'! It isn't that they remind me of my parents (66 & 64), but something clicks deep inside when we hear '50'.

We HAVE broken that rule on occasion and we have typically been very happy when we did. But we have also had some less than stellar experiences with couples over 50. Maybe it is because so many people think we are so much younger looking. I dunno!

yawanna · 11-13-2003, 04:34 PM

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What if she is emotionally & sexually intimate with the wives of the two men she mentioned in the post?

That's lesbians in open relationships

Dani&Drew · 11-13-2003, 08:05 PM

Age never bother me, but Dani prefers to keep things under 40 or so. My own opinion is, if you like each other, who cares the age?

BiCoupleNJ · 11-14-2003, 10:22 AM

We can see both sides of that coin... there are times when a person that is older, say in their 50s or perhaps even older, just doesn't seem that old, both in looks and attitude. In that case, we tend to ignore our thoughts about age and simply enjoy ourselves.
However, there are times when, quite frankly, people in their 30s and 40s... and at times in their 20s... look as if they have been through several wars in that short time. At those times, it is the presentation rather than the age that causes us to back away.
I guess that there is no real right or wrong when it comes to age. Although that may be used as an initial indicator for a go/no go decision, one might find that they lost out on the best relationship they could have had by allowing age to be a determining factor. It is just like looks & weight - a person may not be beautiful and may not be slim & petite, but that doesn't mean they don't have a fabulous personality and an incredible sense for great sex.

Jerry

Greg & Sheryl · 11-17-2003, 06:49 PM

We are in an unusual situation in that there is a 12-year difference in our ages. Greg turned 37 in November, while Sheryl will be 49 in February. Although it’s rare for Greg to be dismissed as too young for other swingers, Sheryl is often regarded as too old. Sometimes, we’re both considered too old! Ideally, we like to play with couples who are in between our ages. We don’t have any objection to swinging with 20-something couples, but we never approach them first because we know it’s likely we will be rejected because of our age. While Greg has no problem swinging with older ladies (after all, he married one), Sheryl is somewhat wary of playing with older men. In her experience, these men seem to have a greater degree of performance problems.

We’ve noticed that a lot of young couples avoid playing with older couples because they would feel like they were fucking their parents. While Greg respects this preference (even Sheryl looks at older men as “Dad”), he must admit that he doesn’t “get” this rationale. When Greg was a single college student, one of his first swinging experiences was with a 40-something couple who answered his ad in a regional swingers’ magazine. Even though the wife was close to his mother’s age, he didn’t have a problem playing with the wife because she was NOT his mother. Since that time, he has discovered that older ladies tend to make better lovers by virtue of their greater experience and confidence.

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11-12-2003, 10:54 PM	#31 (permalink)
gsu22 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 248 Location: Atlanta, Georgia Status: Single male	I've always wanted older women just because of their maturity level as opposed to women my age or alittle younger. I consider myself very mature for being 22 and a guy. Most of the guys my age are the typical "frat boy" types with egos the size of Texas and maturity levels that equal a 4 year-old. Well, atleast around here they're like that. And I know women mature faster than guys and I have met numerous women my age that are very down to earth and mature but I'll still stick with the older ones. I just find women about 8-10 years older than me a major turn-on. But like EBF said, nothing is written in stone......so the possibilites can be endless in some cases.
	__________________ " A girl's legs are her best friends, but the best of friends must part". -R. Foxx

11-14-2003, 10:22 AM	#39 (permalink)
BiCoupleNJ Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 246 Location: Central NJ Shore Status: Couple	We can see both sides of that coin... there are times when a person that is older, say in their 50s or perhaps even older, just doesn't seem that old, both in looks and attitude. In that case, we tend to ignore our thoughts about age and simply enjoy ourselves. However, there are times when, quite frankly, people in their 30s and 40s... and at times in their 20s... look as if they have been through several wars in that short time. At those times, it is the presentation rather than the age that causes us to back away. I guess that there is no real right or wrong when it comes to age. Although that may be used as an initial indicator for a go/no go decision, one might find that they lost out on the best relationship they could have had by allowing age to be a determining factor. It is just like looks & weight - a person may not be beautiful and may not be slim & petite, but that doesn't mean they don't have a fabulous personality and an incredible sense for great sex. Jerry
	__________________ BiCoupleNJ From the beautiful shores of Central NJ :-)

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11-13-2003, 02:44 AM	#32 (permalink)
StacyCat Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 114 Location: Texas Status: Single Bi Female	Guys my age tend to annoy the hell out of me. Im 22. My last lover was 37. But, he acted like a 25 year old and looked 32ish, so it wasnt too bad. both men in my close poly family are 38 and 39, and one looks too much like my dad to be intimate with, the other I havent decided on. I tend to date 25-32ish. Couples have to have been together and stable for a while, otherwise it brings up problems. No hard and fast rules other than no one over 40, and no one under 18.

11-13-2003, 03:47 PM	#35 (permalink)
cntrycpl505 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 17 Location: central NM Status: couple	we have not met a lot of couples but tend to look for our age and above we are 47 & 48 we just have more in common I think

11-13-2003, 08:05 PM	#38 (permalink)
Dani&Drew Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 105 Location: Lansing, MI	Age never bother me, but Dani prefers to keep things under 40 or so. My own opinion is, if you like each other, who cares the age?

11-17-2003, 06:49 PM	#40 (permalink)
Greg & Sheryl Interracial Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 749 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Greg69Sheryl	We are in an unusual situation in that there is a 12-year difference in our ages. Greg turned 37 in November, while Sheryl will be 49 in February. Although it’s rare for Greg to be dismissed as too young for other swingers, Sheryl is often regarded as too old. Sometimes, we’re both considered too old! Ideally, we like to play with couples who are in between our ages. We don’t have any objection to swinging with 20-something couples, but we never approach them first because we know it’s likely we will be rejected because of our age. While Greg has no problem swinging with older ladies (after all, he married one), Sheryl is somewhat wary of playing with older men. In her experience, these men seem to have a greater degree of performance problems. We’ve noticed that a lot of young couples avoid playing with older couples because they would feel like they were fucking their parents. While Greg respects this preference (even Sheryl looks at older men as “Dad”), he must admit that he doesn’t “get” this rationale. When Greg was a single college student, one of his first swinging experiences was with a 40-something couple who answered his ad in a regional swingers’ magazine. Even though the wife was close to his mother’s age, he didn’t have a problem playing with the wife because she was NOT his mother. Since that time, he has discovered that older ladies tend to make better lovers by virtue of their greater experience and confidence.