How big of an age gap between you and your swing playmates?

[ready2pla]

Wow were so glad that a pole and some great people that took the time to answer my pole could have a positive effect on someones swinging lifestyle. You got just what I was getting at.
Have fun and enjoy because the age difference doesn't matter as much as you might think. Thanks Bedmates for your comments all smiles here

[thestars]

Just wish we were able to choose more than 1 one the poll..
We have gone same age to 20 yrs older. It all depends on the chemistry on the other couple and ourselves.

As far as it would have been great to see the younger on here as well. Generally we do not go much more than 10 yrs or so younger. Mainly due to the fact of interests.Guess we must be fuddie duddies.

We usually try to stay within 10 yrs or so of our age.

[fun_pairTX]

And have a great time. Mrs Fun is 9 years my junior. We are 49 & 40 and we have been with couples who's ages have ranged from 25 to 55 and have a great time.

[Avantgarden38]

We are both almost 40. Our couples have all been younger than us (26-32 range). We think we look 35ish, perhaps that is why our couples have been younger. We would date an older couple if the right pair came along. We have also tried to date an early 20's couple, but nothing ever came of it. We called it off because it didn't feel right with them.

Age really doesn't matter if the attraction and chemistry exist for us.

[WesternSwing]

I am 39 and my wife is 29, so we tend to gravitate towards couples between 25 and 40 years of age. Of the two couples we have met that have turned into swing partners their ages are close to ours, interestingly enough, with a very similar spread in the age of the couple.

Mr. WS

[Sweetdevil]

We met a mature couple who was sexually attracted to my wife. As a foursome we connected sexually and enjoyed talking with each other. Well, the mature gentleman and my wife were extermely hot for each other. Going to dances and returning home, I would tease my wife about her mature beau. She would smile and say, "I never thought I would be so horny for an older man." Some of the people who knew at the dance always commented on sexual intense their "slow" dances were. So, the offer came. The mature couple asked if it was okay with me for them to take may wife out for the evening, because his wife was only into women. We had become comfortable enough to trust them. The date was set and they took my wife out and partied into the next morning. This couple was about fifteen to twenty years older than us.

We each since then have swung with couples either approximately fifteen years older or younger than us.

[Bedmates]

After searching and searching, I found a female of a couple that was really attractive and very interested. I thought things were set for a foursome - finally! Well, my wife is 9 years younger than me. It turned out that the husband is 15 years older than the wife (making him 24 years older than my wife). My wife couldn't fine a man of her father's age attractive, so it didn't happen.

We're still looking!

[deeptouch]

I'm 56 and have just had an outstanding exchange with a woman 25. I meet her while buying a car. The dialog was unbelievable, she acctually told me in front of my wife that she craved sex with "college proffesor" looking men.

On the way home my wife told me to take her up on it, I didn't respond much at that moment, but the next day (last week), I went back to the Dealership, asked her to lunch, and fucked her at a Holiday Inn. When I got home, I told my wife and it turned her on so much that she sucked me until I was hard again, and we fucked.

Yesterday, she phoned and asked if we would like to have dinner with her and her husband ...... more later.

[crestviewcpl2]

interesting. My SO is 16 years younger than me but I like younger men and he just likes women period regardless of age. Though he has said some of the younger ones aren't really as knowledgeable about what to do. I don't remember that I was any different when I was younger but maybe some are. I've never been with a man my age but its not the age but the attraction. Youngest I've been with was 20. So guess my vote is on that age doesn't matter its attraction. And I'm attracted to younger guys so far.

[EvilMJ]

My best friend and her husband have a 23 year age difference. When you first meet the husband your origional thought is that he is definately older, but let me tell you after talking with him and getting to know him age suddenly isn't a factor and he became a very close friend.

That being said, he is also one of the best lovers I have encountered, as his wife put it, he fucks like a 20 year old but lasts a hell of a lot longer... boy was she right!! He showed me the time of my life and left me exhausted .

Age will never be an issue to me, it all comes down to personality and attraction. I think you will lose out on a potentially amazing experiance if you base your choice on strickly physical appearance and age.

[ranchcouple3]

We think this was a great poll, ready2pla, thankyou, we have sure had some questions in this area. Guess we won't worry as much about it.

[HotMoCpl]

We've decided that 5 + - is okay. Personally, I wouldn't touch anything that was younger then 45 years old; I hate having to train a woman. This brings another thougth to mind. We were both 37 when we met. SHE actually asked to see my drivers license and military ID! She thought I was about 23 and said, "I hate training you younger guys!"

We wern't all that happy when we were younger, then we met each other. Now we're happy to grow old together. facelick

[ALilOEverything]

When I first voted on this poll I marked 6-10 years but since we played with a couple where there was a 20+ year age gap and it was just as wonderful. We never felt the difference at all.

[JacobSky]

I was 22, she was 41, and he was about 50, but only watched us. It added to all of our enjoyment and arousal.

[good times]

When we first got into the lifestyle age of the people we played with was a topic we had completely different views on than we do now. we have played with couples now both older and younger than us and with as much as 20 years difference in ages of the man and women of the couple. It is now a nonissue for us.