Swinging with older/younger people.. - Page 2

St. Augustine · 06-19-2003, 07:00 PM

(Cathy) This is an interesting thread for me. I am 45 and Mike is 34. I have two sons 23 & almost 22. When we were discussing this whole age thing my response to Mike was... no one younger than 30! Especially no one old enough to have been a child of mine lol. It would feel to much like I was molesting my child.

I know that the person (whoever they may be) even if they were around my kids ages aren't really my children. It would just be way too weird for me.

I also know that I wouldn't feel comfortable or relaxed enough to get any enyoyment out of the experience.

It was helpful for me to realize that there are other people here who feel the same way.

Thanks

M&B · 06-19-2003, 07:01 PM

18,250 days
2607.14 weeks
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608 1/3 months

Just don't say room temperature

jen · 06-19-2003, 07:06 PM

M&B,

When you are sexy, you are sexy. Its from inside you, not from numbers.

When you are squeezably adorable, its for your lifetime. For always.

M&B · 06-19-2003, 07:11 PM

wow

**BiloxiCouple** · 06-19-2003, 07:13 PM

If they treat you right and are fun to be with what is the difference how old they are? Besides, if they are old enough they may have some tricks you may want to find out about!!!

JanetAndBrad · 06-19-2003, 11:25 PM

Being new to swinging I'd think I'd like to keep to a few year age range (five to ten years) above and below our ages. Brad is 44 and I'm 45. I think for now at least I would feel more comfortable. I don't have the confidence in myself yet to believe that I can be attractive to couples who are almost young enough to be my own children. Maybe after I get my feet wet in the lifestyle I'll start to feel differently.

**BiloxiCouple** · 06-20-2003, 01:53 AM

Your personal experience is what you need to go by.

Besides at my young age of 41 if a beautiful 25 year old or 55 year old hits on me, I am personally gonna go with the flow!!

**BiloxiCouple** · 06-20-2003, 01:53 AM

Your personal experience is what you need to go by.

Besides at my young age of 41 if a beautiful 25 year old or 55 year old hits on me, I am personally gonna go with the flow!!

ciscosv · 06-20-2003, 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jen

When you are sexy, you are sexy.

Word!

smoothmoves · 06-22-2003, 02:16 PM

We've partied with couples in their 20's, and couples well into their 60's. They're all fun in their own way, and we've found that you can learn new things (or practice some old favorites) with anyone.

We've tended to gravitate more towards couples in our age range (she's 45, I'm 53) because of the social similarities, and the shared feelings from growing up in a certain era. But they've all been fun.

Besides, when you start to get older, there's more and more couples who are younger.

Just our opinion

MagicEnigma · 06-22-2003, 03:12 PM

Its not the age it is the experience and maturity I like about older lovers. Always has been. The older men seem to have more control over themselves, their pace, and just how to make things go. Much the same with older women. But then its not an absolute, I've been with a guy in his late 40s that acts like he is trying to be some wild 20 year old, and its a bit silly sometimes. I've been with a couple of women that seem like they are trying to act in a porno movie than get into the act we are engaged in.

I have noticed the younger of the crowd I'm with, the early 30s mid 30s range, are more prone to work as a group, hold a leg up, move into three and fivesomes, try the multiple partner at the same time positions. Not certain why. Might just be whom I'm with.

sepacouple · 06-22-2003, 05:42 PM

we are are still new to all this and really have not decided what our boundries are but we have come to realize that there are some individuals/couples around our age (late 30's) and younger that look much older and/or we just are not attracted to and we have met some people that are older than us that look/act much younger than they really are. I guess what we are saying is that age is just a number and every situation is different.

Vjklander · 06-22-2003, 07:06 PM

We are 46/45 and generally play +/- 10 years, but we have shared pleasures with 18-72. If the desire is there, we will share.
J

**Alura** · 06-22-2003, 07:08 PM

My father was fifty when I was born. I was 49 when my older son was born, exactly three months short of the 100th anniversary of my father's birth. Having kids later in life seems to be a family tradition. The disadvantage is that one doesn't get to meet his grandchildren.

If Mrs. Alura and I were to decide we didn't want to swing with anyone older than my father or younger than our son, we'd have a wide range to choose from, wouldn't we?

Mr. Alura

Soulfinger508 · 06-24-2003, 09:01 AM

My experiences in the swinging scene thus far have been with people older than I. I say been with couples that were in their forties to fifties. I'm 27 years old and as long as they don't make age an issue than I certainly won't.

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06-19-2003, 07:00 PM	#16 (permalink)
St. Augustine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 266 Location: St. Augustine, FL Status: Couple	(Cathy) This is an interesting thread for me. I am 45 and Mike is 34. I have two sons 23 & almost 22. When we were discussing this whole age thing my response to Mike was... no one younger than 30! Especially no one old enough to have been a child of mine lol. It would feel to much like I was molesting my child. I know that the person (whoever they may be) even if they were around my kids ages aren't really my children. It would just be way too weird for me. I also know that I wouldn't feel comfortable or relaxed enough to get any enyoyment out of the experience. It was helpful for me to realize that there are other people here who feel the same way. Thanks
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06-19-2003, 07:01 PM	#17 (permalink)
M&B Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 808 Location: Southern Cal Status: quo anti bellum	Gee tanx, BettAnn! 18,250 days 2607.14 weeks 438,000 hours 608 1/3 months Just don't say room temperature
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06-19-2003, 07:06 PM	#18 (permalink)
jen Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 1,118 Location: above a rainbow Status: un dolce uno	Sexy is sexy M&B, When you are sexy, you are sexy. Its from inside you, not from numbers. When you are squeezably adorable, its for your lifetime. For always.
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06-19-2003, 07:11 PM	#19 (permalink)
M&B Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 808 Location: Southern Cal Status: quo anti bellum	wow, Jen wow
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06-19-2003, 07:13 PM	#20 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	If they treat you right and are fun to be with what is the difference how old they are? Besides, if they are old enough they may have some tricks you may want to find out about!!!
	__________________ *Live in the moment before they are gone.*

06-19-2003, 11:25 PM	#21 (permalink)
JanetAndBrad Registered Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 8 Location: Central Ohio Status: Married Couple	Being new to swinging I'd think I'd like to keep to a few year age range (five to ten years) above and below our ages. Brad is 44 and I'm 45. I think for now at least I would feel more comfortable. I don't have the confidence in myself yet to believe that I can be attractive to couples who are almost young enough to be my own children. Maybe after I get my feet wet in the lifestyle I'll start to feel differently.

06-20-2003, 01:53 AM	#22 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Your personal experience is what you need to go by. Besides at my young age of 41 if a beautiful 25 year old or 55 year old hits on me, I am personally gonna go with the flow!!
	__________________ *Live in the moment before they are gone.*

06-20-2003, 01:53 AM	#23 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Your personal experience is what you need to go by. Besides at my young age of 41 if a beautiful 25 year old or 55 year old hits on me, I am personally gonna go with the flow!!
	__________________ *Live in the moment before they are gone.*

06-22-2003, 02:16 PM	#25 (permalink)
smoothmoves Active Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 28 Location: San Diego, CA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:smoothmovess	We've partied with couples in their 20's, and couples well into their 60's. They're all fun in their own way, and we've found that you can learn new things (or practice some old favorites) with anyone. We've tended to gravitate more towards couples in our age range (she's 45, I'm 53) because of the social similarities, and the shared feelings from growing up in a certain era. But they've all been fun. Besides, when you start to get older, there's more and more couples who are younger. Just our opinion

06-22-2003, 03:12 PM	#26 (permalink)
MagicEnigma Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 149 Location: Great Lakes	Its not the age it is the experience and maturity I like about older lovers. Always has been. The older men seem to have more control over themselves, their pace, and just how to make things go. Much the same with older women. But then its not an absolute, I've been with a guy in his late 40s that acts like he is trying to be some wild 20 year old, and its a bit silly sometimes. I've been with a couple of women that seem like they are trying to act in a porno movie than get into the act we are engaged in. I have noticed the younger of the crowd I'm with, the early 30s mid 30s range, are more prone to work as a group, hold a leg up, move into three and fivesomes, try the multiple partner at the same time positions. Not certain why. Might just be whom I'm with.

06-22-2003, 05:42 PM	#27 (permalink)
sepacouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 108 Location: southeastern PA Status: couple	we are are still new to all this and really have not decided what our boundries are but we have come to realize that there are some individuals/couples around our age (late 30's) and younger that look much older and/or we just are not attracted to and we have met some people that are older than us that look/act much younger than they really are. I guess what we are saying is that age is just a number and every situation is different.

06-22-2003, 07:06 PM	#28 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 834 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem Swing Lifestyle Name:Vjklander	We are 46/45 and generally play +/- 10 years, but we have shared pleasures with 18-72. If the desire is there, we will share. J

06-22-2003, 07:08 PM	#29 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	My father was fifty when I was born. I was 49 when my older son was born, exactly three months short of the 100th anniversary of my father's birth. Having kids later in life seems to be a family tradition. The disadvantage is that one doesn't get to meet his grandchildren. If Mrs. Alura and I were to decide we didn't want to swing with anyone older than my father or younger than our son, we'd have a wide range to choose from, wouldn't we? Mr. Alura

06-24-2003, 09:01 AM	#30 (permalink)
Soulfinger508 Active Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 42 Location: Worcester MA Status: Single Male	My experiences in the swinging scene thus far have been with people older than I. I say been with couples that were in their forties to fifties. I'm 27 years old and as long as they don't make age an issue than I certainly won't.

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