At What Age will you stop swinging?

Ashley · 06-04-2003, 08:27 AM

will you stop swinging?
I see lots of swingers well into their sixties but I'm not so sure that I want to swing that long. I wonder when people stop swinging due to age is it because they are having physical difficulties or do they just start to feel too unattractive? Do we have anyone in their sixties or seventies on this board that can provide first hand impressions?

Brit_Pair · 06-04-2003, 08:48 AM

When I feel less peach and more prune, it will be time to hang up my spurs.

danc694u · 06-04-2003, 09:31 AM

I think we'll draw the line at about 55....maybe later. Depending on how well we take care of ourselves, and our looks

**TNT** · 06-04-2003, 09:50 AM

Ted and I have discussed this ourselves quite a bit.

Sometimes we will say...Damn, we only have a few good years left in us, but then when you think about it, the people we play with now will all age right along with us, so I really can't see a definite time when we will stop.

As long as we are still having fun, we will keep on swinging.

Teresa

fun_pairTX · 06-04-2003, 10:27 AM

There is no way to fix a time limit on swinging. All relationships are in a constant state of flux and evolution. We started when it felt right to us, we will stop if and when either of us or both of us feels it is time.

OhioCouple · 06-04-2003, 10:51 AM

Good question, Ashley. My husband is nearing the 60 age mark and he shows no sign of slowing down and many women are attracted to him. (He is a pretty handsome fellow). Frankly, there are days, that I need some assistance keeping up with him.

All of our swing friends are in their 50's and none of them look ready to go to pasture yet and all of their sex drives are still high. (I am the baby of them all) I'd have to say as long as we are still feeling good, whether it is 60, 70 or 80, we will swing as "Sexy Seniors".

PS: Fun_pairTX --- Great response!

Roxysbayou · 06-04-2003, 01:29 PM

Not until I am just to old to do it anymore. If thats at 102 then so be it. I will be the wildest little old lady in the nursing home.

Misty&Todd · 06-04-2003, 06:00 PM

i secont that one roxy.. :evil:

Vjklander · 06-04-2003, 09:34 PM

(in best Charlton Heston voice ....)
"When they pry my cold dead fingers from my woody ......."
J

**Alura** · 06-04-2003, 09:43 PM

Wasn't there an 80 (or so) year old lady featured in The Lifestyle?

The question for us is not so much when we'll stop; we did that a few years ago. The real question is when we'll start again...

Alura

sexypairca · 06-04-2003, 09:50 PM

I don't think that age will be the determining factor for us. I think that one day we will just decide to stop, but I don't see that happening anytime soon

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Annette

sexypairca · 06-04-2003, 09:52 PM

I don't think that a certain age will be the determining factor for us. I think that one day we will just decide to stop, probably long before our retired years.

Annette

cabernetizen · 06-04-2003, 11:27 PM

Just imagine all the extra fun when we won't remember who we've played with, not to mention if we've got the right partner on the way back home........

.......where's the house?

Botcpl · 06-05-2003, 08:02 AM

Like any "hobby" you quit when your tired of it or it doesn't hold your interest anymore. People get bored with their hobbies sometimes. I'm asked, at times, when will I stop sailing? I'm going to keep sailing as long as I like it and as long as I am physicaly able. When I get too old to handle the sails and the lines (ropes to you landlubbers); when I can't handle the boat anymore, I'll get a power boat, probably a trawler, plenty of room for a hot tub.

alabamafuntonig · 06-05-2003, 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by cabernetizen
Just imagine all the extra fun when we won't remember who we've played with, not to mention if we've got the right partner on the way back home........

.......where's the house?

puts a new meaning to soft swap......(henry ducts to avoid the onslot of canes and walkers from the older crowd)

ps. we men wont have to worry about them pesky teeth marks

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06-04-2003, 08:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
Ashley Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Arizona Status: Couple	At What Age will you stop swinging? will you stop swinging? I see lots of swingers well into their sixties but I'm not so sure that I want to swing that long. I wonder when people stop swinging due to age is it because they are having physical difficulties or do they just start to feel too unattractive? Do we have anyone in their sixties or seventies on this board that can provide first hand impressions?

06-04-2003, 09:31 AM	#3 (permalink)
danc694u Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 546 Location: Birmingham, AL Status: couple	I think we'll draw the line at about 55....maybe later. Depending on how well we take care of ourselves, and our looks __________________ Phonies and Fakes Need not apply. We're as real as it gets, and don't have time to be wasting on dumbasses.

06-04-2003, 09:50 AM	#4 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,559 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 38	Ted and I have discussed this ourselves quite a bit. Sometimes we will say...Damn, we only have a few good years left in us, but then when you think about it, the people we play with now will all age right along with us, so I really can't see a definite time when we will stop. As long as we are still having fun, we will keep on swinging. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

06-04-2003, 10:27 AM	#5 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	As we see it There is no way to fix a time limit on swinging. All relationships are in a constant state of flux and evolution. We started when it felt right to us, we will stop if and when either of us or both of us feels it is time. __________________ fun_pairTX

06-04-2003, 08:48 AM	#2 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Retired Mod Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	When I feel less peach and more prune, it will be time to hang up my spurs.

06-04-2003, 10:51 AM	#6 (permalink)
OhioCouple Retired Mod Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Good question, Ashley. My husband is nearing the 60 age mark and he shows no sign of slowing down and many women are attracted to him. (He is a pretty handsome fellow). Frankly, there are days, that I need some assistance keeping up with him. All of our swing friends are in their 50's and none of them look ready to go to pasture yet and all of their sex drives are still high. (I am the baby of them all) I'd have to say as long as we are still feeling good, whether it is 60, 70 or 80, we will swing as "Sexy Seniors". PS: Fun_pairTX --- Great response! __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

06-04-2003, 01:29 PM	#7 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:likethat	Not until I am just to old to do it anymore. If thats at 102 then so be it. I will be the wildest little old lady in the nursing home. __________________ I put the "grrrr" in swinger baby, yeah! --Austin Powers

06-04-2003, 06:00 PM	#8 (permalink)
Misty&Todd Here to Stay Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 57 Location: Sioux City Iowa Status: Married Couple	i secont that one roxy.. :evil: __________________ Life is full of magick all we have to do is look arround.

06-04-2003, 09:34 PM	#9 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 832 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem Swing Lifestyle Name:Vjklander	(in best Charlton Heston voice ....) "When they pry my cold dead fingers from my woody ......." J

06-04-2003, 09:43 PM	#10 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,354 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Wasn't there an 80 (or so) year old lady featured in The Lifestyle? The question for us is not so much when we'll stop; we did that a few years ago. The real question is when we'll start again... Alura

06-04-2003, 09:50 PM	#11 (permalink)
sexypairca Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 670 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sexypairca	I don't think that age will be the determining factor for us. I think that one day we will just decide to stop, but I don't see that happening anytime soon . Annette __________________ I'm not cheap, but I am on special this week.

06-04-2003, 09:52 PM	#12 (permalink)
sexypairca Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 670 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sexypairca	I don't think that a certain age will be the determining factor for us. I think that one day we will just decide to stop, probably long before our retired years. Annette __________________ I'm not cheap, but I am on special this week.

06-04-2003, 11:27 PM	#13 (permalink)
cabernetizen Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 17 Location: CA Status: Couple	Just imagine all the extra fun when we won't remember who we've played with, not to mention if we've got the right partner on the way back home........ .......where's the house?

06-05-2003, 08:02 AM	#14 (permalink)
Botcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 238 Location: 34 N 11.120 118 W 17.179 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Botcpl	Like any "hobby" you quit when your tired of it or it doesn't hold your interest anymore. People get bored with their hobbies sometimes. I'm asked, at times, when will I stop sailing? I'm going to keep sailing as long as I like it and as long as I am physicaly able. When I get too old to handle the sails and the lines (ropes to you landlubbers); when I can't handle the boat anymore, I'll get a power boat, probably a trawler, plenty of room for a hot tub.

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