At What Age will you stop swinging? - Page 2

CBYLW · 06-07-2003, 12:52 PM

I am a male in my sixties. My wife and I started swinging in the late sixties. My wife and I have since parted (nothing to do with swinging). I have been swinging on and off ever since. I still enjoy the uninhibited aspect of swinging. I had a great relationship with a couple for over ten years. That ended a few years ago with the accidental death of one them. Sexy mature people that are looking for an older single male are harder to come by, but I know I will find one. I have to say that I do prefer a slower pace than I use to. Sex may not be as intense as it once was, but I think in some ways it is even better.

velbuzz · 06-07-2003, 05:38 PM

Since we will all be aging at the same rate, I hope to be finding people who are fun to be with in and out of the bed room for many years to come.... or is that cum?

hotcpl4unfla · 06-07-2003, 06:30 PM

That's a tough one. I guess the best answer would be, "we'll quit when we no longer feel sexy". We are in our mid 30's, and younger people keep telling us we look real good and look like we're in our 20's. I see some people in their 50's who have nice physiques, and although they are not in our age bracket, I could see how someone else might want to swing with them. We'll stay in shape, and hopefully can enjoy sexual freedom well into retirement age!

Roxysbayou · 06-08-2003, 12:16 AM

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Originally posted by velbuzz
Since we will all be aging at the same rate, I hope to be finding people who are fun to be with in and out of the bed room for many years to come.... or is that cum?

Me too. I find that I keep getting better with age.

MattMann · 06-09-2003, 11:22 AM

We rarely ever get to swing, and the main reason is that we find it impossible to get away, especially overnight or late at night, just by ourselves without kids or without having to explain why we are going without them. When they are grown and out of the house, it seems like only then will we be able to have the freedom to meet with other couples on a regular basis. But I have figured we will be nearing 50 by then, so I hope that doesn't mean we are wasting our good looking years now and the expiration date will occur just when we are able to join in. (I think that is actually why you see so many swingers in that age range).

Ashley · 06-09-2003, 10:47 PM

Good point Matt, I am 48 and I have teenagers and I know from personal experience I never would've considered swinging when they were small....there just weren't enough hours in the day and I was pretty much exhausted by the end of it.

Dani&Drew · 06-09-2003, 11:11 PM

We'll swing until one or both of us decides to stop... age has nothing to do with it

PaulKing · 06-10-2003, 12:26 AM

I will stop 'swinging' at 55 unless they hang me. (nearly happened when I foolishly attacked someone's spelling on this board).

Paul

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06-07-2003, 12:52 PM	#16 (permalink)
CBYLW Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 34 Location: Neptune, N.J.	I am a male in my sixties. My wife and I started swinging in the late sixties. My wife and I have since parted (nothing to do with swinging). I have been swinging on and off ever since. I still enjoy the uninhibited aspect of swinging. I had a great relationship with a couple for over ten years. That ended a few years ago with the accidental death of one them. Sexy mature people that are looking for an older single male are harder to come by, but I know I will find one. I have to say that I do prefer a slower pace than I use to. Sex may not be as intense as it once was, but I think in some ways it is even better.
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06-07-2003, 05:38 PM	#17 (permalink)
velbuzz Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 325 Location: Bradford County, PA Status: MWC 59/56 Swing Lifestyle Name:velbuzz	aging gracefully Since we will all be aging at the same rate, I hope to be finding people who are fun to be with in and out of the bed room for many years to come.... or is that cum?

06-10-2003, 12:26 AM	#23 (permalink)
PaulKing Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 344 Location: LA Status: Single Male	Hoping not to end my days swinging I will stop 'swinging' at 55 unless they hang me. (nearly happened when I foolishly attacked someone's spelling on this board). Paul

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06-07-2003, 06:30 PM	#18 (permalink)
hotcpl4unfla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 168 Location: Tampa, Florida USA Status: Couple	That's a tough one. I guess the best answer would be, "we'll quit when we no longer feel sexy". We are in our mid 30's, and younger people keep telling us we look real good and look like we're in our 20's. I see some people in their 50's who have nice physiques, and although they are not in our age bracket, I could see how someone else might want to swing with them. We'll stay in shape, and hopefully can enjoy sexual freedom well into retirement age!

06-09-2003, 11:22 AM	#20 (permalink)
MattMann Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 185 Location: NC Status: Married Man	We rarely ever get to swing, and the main reason is that we find it impossible to get away, especially overnight or late at night, just by ourselves without kids or without having to explain why we are going without them. When they are grown and out of the house, it seems like only then will we be able to have the freedom to meet with other couples on a regular basis. But I have figured we will be nearing 50 by then, so I hope that doesn't mean we are wasting our good looking years now and the expiration date will occur just when we are able to join in. (I think that is actually why you see so many swingers in that age range).

06-09-2003, 10:47 PM	#21 (permalink)
Ashley Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Arizona Status: Couple	Good point Matt, I am 48 and I have teenagers and I know from personal experience I never would've considered swinging when they were small....there just weren't enough hours in the day and I was pretty much exhausted by the end of it.

06-09-2003, 11:11 PM	#22 (permalink)
Dani&Drew Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 105 Location: Lansing, MI	We'll swing until one or both of us decides to stop... age has nothing to do with it

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