Older Woman Advice - Page 2

OhioCouple · 04-23-2003, 12:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ashley
Yep, there's even a website...check out www.milf.com

I am speechless for a change.

Lori

ciscosv · 04-23-2003, 11:33 AM

I have expressed my "older" (damn, i hate saying that word) woman fitish with my wife. Someday she will be one. I can wait for that day unpatiently.

Flori_DAMAN · 04-23-2003, 07:13 PM

nothing more distasteful than sour milf

Sakaysi · 04-23-2003, 11:25 PM

Thanx guys.....for allthe advice, but I think I'm going to abort this 'mission'....For one...i'm not attracted to her on a relationship level.....It'd be something solely physical...
In our profession, women especially, are extremely protective of their reputations..and I think she'd think twice before 'just sleeping' with a younger colleague.....and I'm definitely not one for deceit..(making her think i'm lookin for a relationship)

And on top of all that....I'm scared of rejection

Thanx guys

Sakaysi · 05-10-2003, 02:30 AM

Can u guys believe that I saw my 'crush' the other night at the 24hr service station at about 1:30am......
It was the perfect oppurtunity to talk to her....all i managed to say was...Hi Dr so and so...how u doing??

Damn!!!!!(kickin myself in the ass)

Sakaysi · 05-10-2003, 02:32 AM

I'm sorry i meant to attach this to my thread...."Older woman advice"

OhioCouple · 05-10-2003, 04:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sakaysi
I'm sorry i meant to attach this to my thread...."Older woman advice"

They are all together now.

Quote:

....all i managed to say was...Hi Dr so and so...how u doing??

LOL, you are going to have to find the courage somehow to ask this woman out. You sound as I was with that guy that I just had the hots for. Anytime he came in my vicinity, it was all I could do to toss out a few words and pray that he didn't catch on that I was beginning to perspire. Needless to say all our early conversations were short and to the point.

Ask her out Sakaysi, you've nothing to lose and everything to gain, most importantly your sanity!

Lori

Additude · 05-10-2003, 05:55 AM

I would call. Your only thing you have to fear is "Male Rejection". Come up with a good line. A good reason to call, maybe about her trip to see her daughter and talk to her, even if it's the truth that your interested in getting to know her. Don't leave a message on an answering machine unless it's to say, "This is Sakaysi, I'll give you a call back later". And I mean keep it brief like that so she'll be wondering why you called. This makes her think about you

Remember one thing, be mature.

Good Luck!

Nymph an' Satyr · 05-11-2003, 06:55 PM

Go for it dude. If she says no- you'll get over it. Better that, than this half life of uncertainty.

teknurse · 05-12-2003, 02:55 AM

I agree. Success is measured by risks taken and overcome. Now you are agonizing over whether to pursue or not. by following thru, you will either have a chance at your hearts desire, or quell something that wasn't meant to be, and let yourself go on to whatever other relationship may be out there waiting. I've never been the 'gosh-golly, should I?" type. I'd rather really FUBAR then be wishy-washy. Just my opinion mind you.

Allen&Tami

Chris&Amelia · 05-12-2003, 11:04 AM

Agreed. If she's not interested, she'll tell you. Then you could move on and get on with your life.

Otherwise, you're just subjecting yourself to a torture of uncertainty and doubt. I know, because I've been in that situation once.

Brit_Pair · 05-20-2003, 07:44 AM

On the subject of MILFs - and bearing in mind what visual creatures some of us men appear to be . . .

MILF Seeker.com

Just goes to show: if you can think of it, it's probably on the 'Net.

Somewhere.

amBIdextrous · 03-24-2005, 07:06 PM

Hi man, good luck, nothing ventured, nothing gained, also
women over fifty are just great, they don"t tell, they don"t swell, and they are as grateful as hell. I have been told, please don"t hit me, just kidding as usual.

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04-23-2003, 11:33 AM	#17 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 755 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	I have expressed my "older" (damn, i hate saying that word) woman fitish with my wife. Someday she will be one. I can wait for that day unpatiently.
	__________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

04-23-2003, 11:25 PM	#19 (permalink)
Sakaysi Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Kingston, Jamaica Status: Single Male	Thanx for all the advice Thanx guys.....for allthe advice, but I think I'm going to abort this 'mission'....For one...i'm not attracted to her on a relationship level.....It'd be something solely physical... In our profession, women especially, are extremely protective of their reputations..and I think she'd think twice before 'just sleeping' with a younger colleague.....and I'm definitely not one for deceit..(making her think i'm lookin for a relationship) And on top of all that....I'm scared of rejection Thanx guys

05-10-2003, 02:30 AM	#20 (permalink)
Sakaysi Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Kingston, Jamaica Status: Single Male	Can u believe Can u guys believe that I saw my 'crush' the other night at the 24hr service station at about 1:30am...... It was the perfect oppurtunity to talk to her....all i managed to say was...Hi Dr so and so...how u doing?? Damn!!!!!(kickin myself in the ass)

05-10-2003, 02:32 AM	#21 (permalink)
Sakaysi Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Kingston, Jamaica Status: Single Male	Sorry I'm sorry i meant to attach this to my thread...."Older woman advice"

04-23-2003, 07:13 PM	#18 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	nothing more distasteful than sour milf

05-10-2003, 05:55 AM	#23 (permalink)
Additude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 623 Location: OBX-NC	I would call. Your only thing you have to fear is "Male Rejection". Come up with a good line. A good reason to call, maybe about her trip to see her daughter and talk to her, even if it's the truth that your interested in getting to know her. Don't leave a message on an answering machine unless it's to say, "This is Sakaysi, I'll give you a call back later". And I mean keep it brief like that so she'll be wondering why you called. This makes her think about you Remember one thing, be mature. Good Luck!
	__________________ If you want something you have never had before, you must do something you have never done before.

05-11-2003, 06:55 PM	#24 (permalink)
Nymph an' Satyr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 352 Location: Street, Maryland Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:nymphansatyr	Go for it dude. If she says no- you'll get over it. Better that, than this half life of uncertainty.

05-12-2003, 02:55 AM	#25 (permalink)
teknurse Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 125 Location: Lancaster, PA Status: Couple	I agree. Success is measured by risks taken and overcome. Now you are agonizing over whether to pursue or not. by following thru, you will either have a chance at your hearts desire, or quell something that wasn't meant to be, and let yourself go on to whatever other relationship may be out there waiting. I've never been the 'gosh-golly, should I?" type. I'd rather really FUBAR then be wishy-washy. Just my opinion mind you. Allen&Tami

05-12-2003, 11:04 AM	#26 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache	Agreed. If she's not interested, she'll tell you. Then you could move on and get on with your life. Otherwise, you're just subjecting yourself to a torture of uncertainty and doubt. I know, because I've been in that situation once.
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05-20-2003, 07:44 AM	#27 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	On the subject of MILFs - and bearing in mind what visual creatures some of us men appear to be . . . MILF Seeker.com Just goes to show: if you can think of it, it's probably on the 'Net. Somewhere.

03-24-2005, 07:06 PM	#28 (permalink)
amBIdextrous Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 42 Location: Australia	Re: Older Woman Advice Hi man, good luck, nothing ventured, nothing gained, also women over fifty are just great, they don"t tell, they don"t swell, and they are as grateful as hell. I have been told, please don"t hit me, just kidding as usual.

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