Are younger swingers uncomfortable when older swingers are in club? - Page 2

naughty A · 03-24-2003, 09:00 AM

there are a lot of factors that contribute to the choosing of a potential swing partner and age is one - so is appearance, manners, attitude, common interests, and if they smoke or not (yik - don't want to kiss any ashtrays)

but as for being uncomfortable about older couples being at the club? no.

I guess we are in the middle at 33 and 35 - and I have to say that I don't find that the 20-25 year olds in general have much to say although there are exceptions

I've always found it a turn on to be watched - and I think particularly by older couples -- they have better manners

and as partners, as someone else said - they've already worked out their issues...

Naughty A.

wiscpl · 03-29-2003, 09:54 PM

We tend to agree with Chicup. Our parents age between 40 and nearly 70. ( She is 26 and he is 31)We can't picture ourselves being intimate with someone the same age as them. Maybe as we grow older things will change, but for now we are comfortable this way.
I've been reading this forum for several months and repeatedly I see people say you should be comfortable, comunicate, and sincre. I find it rather disturbing when people contradict this attitude in the lifestyle when it comes to a persons age. Someday the table may be turned and we may wish to swing with much younger couples, but only if they are comfortable with us and our age.
These are the boundries we have set for ourselves,amoungst a few others, to ensure safe and secure experiences. We don't ask anyone to accept them, just respect our choices.

Flori_DAMAN · 03-30-2003, 01:26 AM

I have found that most twenty somethings like the way I have absolutely no concern for who is around when I belch like an overstuffed beached whale.

They don't mind the fact that I scratch myself right through my kiss lips boxers either.

They are mildly amused when I discuss my hemmoroids and lower back problems.

They seem to tune out when I get on the music subject but thats ok......m and m is a good candy to me......oh ite emenem...oh yeah.

Now when we talk politics I really have the twenty somethings going when I mention the recent events of watergate.

I see no difference.

I saw some when I was in my twenties tho....wierd huh?

John

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03-29-2003, 09:54 PM	#17 (permalink)
wiscpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 159 Location: WI Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:wicpl2002us	We tend to agree with Chicup. Our parents age between 40 and nearly 70. ( She is 26 and he is 31)We can't picture ourselves being intimate with someone the same age as them. Maybe as we grow older things will change, but for now we are comfortable this way. I've been reading this forum for several months and repeatedly I see people say you should be comfortable, comunicate, and sincre. I find it rather disturbing when people contradict this attitude in the lifestyle when it comes to a persons age. Someday the table may be turned and we may wish to swing with much younger couples, but only if they are comfortable with us and our age. These are the boundries we have set for ourselves,amoungst a few others, to ensure safe and secure experiences. We don't ask anyone to accept them, just respect our choices.
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03-24-2003, 09:00 AM	#16 (permalink)
naughty A Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 997 Location: windsor ontario Status: couple - female half	there are a lot of factors that contribute to the choosing of a potential swing partner and age is one - so is appearance, manners, attitude, common interests, and if they smoke or not (yik - don't want to kiss any ashtrays) but as for being uncomfortable about older couples being at the club? no. I guess we are in the middle at 33 and 35 - and I have to say that I don't find that the 20-25 year olds in general have much to say although there are exceptions I've always found it a turn on to be watched - and I think particularly by older couples -- they have better manners and as partners, as someone else said - they've already worked out their issues... Naughty A.

03-30-2003, 01:26 AM	#18 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I have found that most twenty somethings like the way I have absolutely no concern for who is around when I belch like an overstuffed beached whale. They don't mind the fact that I scratch myself right through my kiss lips boxers either. They are mildly amused when I discuss my hemmoroids and lower back problems. They seem to tune out when I get on the music subject but thats ok......m and m is a good candy to me......oh ite emenem...oh yeah. Now when we talk politics I really have the twenty somethings going when I mention the recent events of watergate. I see no difference. I saw some when I was in my twenties tho....wierd huh? John