Young Swingers

[youngswingers]

Exactly. People of large age disparities can mix, but for a large portion of the population there are a bunch of reasons why they don't. There are a lot of young swingers out there looking for playmates. The vast majority use the internet. Put together your own group of young swingers. We highly recommend it!

[youngswingers]

We firmly agree with Quin here. As young swingers we encounter lots of newbies... the couples that are obviously there because one of them wants to swing and the other one wants to please that person tend to annoy most people around them. Those couples not around for very long.

If you guys are both equally into swinging check out the internet. There are a lot of younger people out there looking for couples. In most cases, people tend to be aged by the youngest person in the couple.

[Mich149]

Don't worry about it were he=27 she=25 and we find alot of people around r age. There alot on this site. But I agree u have to use the web.

I AM 28 AND MY GIRLFRIEND IS 25 AND WE FIND IT HARD TO FIND PEOPLE WHO WANT TO SWING.I'VE CHARTED THE NET FOR OVER A YEAR AND STILL NO CLOSER TO FINDING A YOUNG FRIENDLY SWINGING COUPLE. I FIND THE OLDER SWINGERS ARE VERY CLICKY AND TEND TO SHY AWAY FROM THE YOUNGER SCENE. I KEEP LOOKING BUT STILL AINT FINDING.

[R&C]

Around here the younger couples tend to be the PPUC (Pretty People in Ugly Clothes), and don't want anything to do with people that are a little older. We have had a couple of relationships with some younger couples and they tended to be OK for a while. After a time one member of the couple (usually the guy) starts acting like they are 12 and that ends it. The thing we see is that those couples often tend to break up. With this type of couple, the guys are often using their wives as a ticket. Granted younger couples aren't the only ones with this type of behavior, but the proportion seems to be higher around here.

[ September 03, 2002, 04:12 PM: Message edited by: R&C ]

[Stratecpl]

we had a age problem but it was kinda weird with us..the young ones thought we were too old and the older ones thought we were too young. We are older people 48 and 52 with small children 9 and 11 so that made us a little out of the norm both ways I guess.

[ September 03, 2002, 11:18 AM: Message edited by: Stratecpl ]

[BodyScape02]

We're 34 (M) and 42 (F)... We get IMed many times/day by a lot of different people. SOme just want to say hello, most are just looking for her but sometimes we get invites to play. i caught one the other night from a VERY young couple...19 (f) and 20 (m). I was polite but passed on the offer... We wouldn't even be able to meet first for drinks!! LOL :p

[ciscosv]

Maturity plays a big role. My wife is 22 and I am 25. I look really young and she is hot! We have not had a problem socializing with couples that are 20-45 maybe older but that is not what is important to us in totality. You will meet some folks that are hung up in their ways about "we wont swing with youngsters" or "they are too old for us". On the other hand, you will meet the most open minded couples you could imagine. Every couple is different. Dont get discouraged.

[JustAskJulie]

Oddly enough, my husband and I are similiarly aged to you guys (a couple of years older but we've been in the lifestyle for quite a while).

If she really wants to do this for herself she won't be intimidated by the age thing. In fact she will realize that as a younger woman she will be very much desired at a swing club or party.

However, if she is doing it to please you and not for herself then no matter what you do it won't help and can only end up hurting your relationship.

[CplFromMD]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by ciscosv:
[QB]Maturity plays a big role.

My girlfriend & I started swinging at the ripe age of age 21, introduced to the swing lifestyle by a late 40's couple while enjoying a nudist resort.
In the beginning we found ourselves meeting mainly older couples, aged 40-50. Couples sought us out as part of their fantasy. The women wanted to experience a younger guy, sometimes like screwing their son's friends. My girlfriend was uneasy with this at first, but soon found that experienced men lasted longer than guys her age!
Years later, we've found ourselves reliving our younger days, now 35, we enjoy to meet mid 20 couples and still enjoy the mid 40 couples.
It all comes down to maturity levels! We agree that age matters 3x in ones life - 18 to drive, 21 to drink, and 65 to retire. The rest is irrelevant!

[SR71]

Hi guys. We know what you are going through. Jack and I are the same age as you guys. We are going to a club for the first time in a couple of weeks. When we gat back we will let you know how good or awkward it was. In the mean time have fun and don't be afraid to ask people about their sexual status. You may find, like we have that alot of younger people are into bisexual experiances, if so then couple swapping is only the next step. You gotta start somewhere...right?

[ September 21, 2002, 11:31 PM: Message edited by: SR71 ]

[JandCMI]

I am 27 and she is 22. I suppose that means we are young. We have been to a few dances and we are definately the youngest there or close to it.

[Quin]

Originally posted by JustAskJulie:
younger crowds.

In general tho most people are in their 30's or older before they take up swinging. Swinging requires a very strong comitted relationship and it's rare that a very young couple would have developed this.

Do you have to be married? No, but you should be comitted to your relationship.

If you are a single, then you need to have a strong understanding what a comitted relationship is and why they exist. It's about a lot more than just sex.

Another thing or two to add to Julie's excellent response is first, in your twenties and early thirties, people are very busy getting established in both their career and in their life (ie getting married, setting up a house) and then you add babies on top of that and there is very limited time. It's also a time in one's life when one metamorphsis's <sp?> into true adulthood and understanding (or at least trying to understand) who they really are and where their life is going. While all of us thought we had the answers in our teens, you find out in your mid to late twenties/early thirties that you didn't have a clue.

Quin

[babydragon]

Both my partner and I are both 28, we have the kids, the house and we both feel very commited to our relationship. Sometimes age isn't the issue it's maturity. I have seen 60 year old men who act like kids every time a set of boobs flash across the screen.

Are there young swingers?

Not according to this article...

http://www.theonion.com/onion3543/hedonistic_orgy.html"